Is your New Year resolution going to go up in smoke?

December 21, 2009 8:33pm CST
We're fast approaching Christmas, New Year and with it New Year's Resolution Time! I'm not sure where this habit comes from but at the end of every year you can feel the buzz of people hoping to give up something, be it chocolate, caffeine or cigarettes or whatever. But how many of these resolutions actually work? How many of them get beyond the 1st January, never mind the end of the month? Although I write specifically about smoking, I think this is true of many other behaviours that we may not like about ourselves. We may wish to be fitter, stronger, thinner, healthier, but there is no magic day on which we will be miraculously transformed. The best day is the day on which you are really convinced that you're going to succeed. To know when that is means looking at your compulsion or addiction from every angle and discovering that key idea that unlocks your will to succeed. Repeated failures are not confidence-building. I think the best resolution is to be determined to find that Aha! moment. That will be the point at which you can confidently create the new you. It is also a resolution that cannot fail. Happy New Year!
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@Qaeyious (2357)
• United States
22 Dec 09
Oh, I don't doubt there are very few people who stopped smoking as a New Year's resolution. More possible is a living a more healthy lifestyle, be it in diet or exercise habits, but by not much. Maybe if one is really young, I can see, but most of us adults, the chances are very slim. It is too much of a life style change, and us adults are wimps compared to children when it comes to life style changes. It took daily coughing fits lasting almost half an hour each to get me to quit smoking. That is one powerful motivator right there. No, it wasn't as a New Years resolution. It was made on the spot, with the proper conviction and motivation in April (1997). My mother tells me she stopped when she developed preliminary emphysema, and the doctor told here that she would spend the rest of her life flat on her back if she doesn't stop. She says if she was told she would die, she wouldn't have quit, but the prospect of being totally dependent on others pushed her over the edge. Now all I need is to get out of breath after walking a short distance. Then I would take action to get rid of all this access weight. But I can walk at a moderate pace for several miles with no problem. So it's no problem yet. When it is, most likely that's when I'll act.
23 Dec 09
Thanks for the comment. Like you say, success comes with conviction rather than a half-hearted new year's resolution. The irony with coughing is that it temporarily gets worse once you stop smoking as the anaesthetic effects of smoking wear off. Good you jumped over that particular hurdle.