Have you understand what you mother feels?

@jaizhi (260)
Philippines
December 23, 2009 11:25am CST
Me and my sister where cleaning my mom's closet yesterday and we were joking about mom's clothes... Believe me! She still has the dresses she wore during my baptismal! then we saw some of our pics and noticed that some of the pictures shows that mom was wearing the same clothes like my graduation, my sisters debut... We tissed mom that on my baby's baptismal I am going to wear those clothes. Then today I went malling to find a new blouse for new years eve... when I saw this beautiful frog suit and baby plates...it was so colorful. I wanted it so bad that instead of buying the clothes that are for me I end up buying things for my baby... When I got home I told myself that I'll just be wearing the same clothes that are in my closet... Now I learned why mom never had new clothes for parties and events... :(
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4 responses
• China
25 Dec 09
my mother also have not many new clothes,because my family is poor.my mother sell the vigetables on the street,you know there is very cold in the winter in my country,but she only wear a shabby cotton-padded clothes resist wind.she save maney to buy new clothes for us,because she don't want people look down on me.i can go to a prestigious university is her greatest wish,but i am not .i feel very apologetic to her,i think i am a bad person,now i want to cry.
@dmrone (751)
• United States
23 Dec 09
Hi! Yes, it easy to make fun of what our mothers wore, or even went through until we go through them ourselves. I know exactly what you are talking about, and i learned the same way you did about my mom. It is amazing what we will do for our children, and what we will go through for them.
@ToughTate (143)
• United States
23 Dec 09
You have a really great mother and the same goes for your child, as it's a parents responsibility to put their children before them. Congratulations on not being selfish and caring for another more than yourself. All the best.
@dipak06 (913)
• India
23 Dec 09
sometimes we really dont understand our mother's feeling or sometime we just dont want to feel them...i just want to feel them sometime by placing me in my mother's place and feel her feelings..feel what she wants from us...but many time in spite of knowing everything i can not don anything for her...please mom..forgive me for that