My Ex keeps coming back...

I dont have the same problem because I believe that when you break up you should sever all ties and dont prolong the relationship but my ex girlfreind describes me as cruel .However I dont think I can take the uneasiness that would result from being in the limbo or no mans land ,I think it is better we have clearly defined boundaries and stick to them.I hope it works out for you but I think you may be doing yourself a great disservice what if he doesnt want to get back together,will you feel as if you wasted your time .Dont you think you should probably start datin again and maybe these feelings will go away

It's always hard getting over your ex..Trust me! It's been a year since me and my last one broke up (a little over a year, now) and it's STILL hard some days. I find myself getting all nostalgic. But I know that it wasn't meant to be. And that's an important thing to keep in mind, if you ask me. Just remember that it wasn't meant to be and that there are other people out there for you in the world to meet.

Well,actually i am not in the situation..My ex is here,actually he works outside Jakarta as a government employee. We are campus friends and we had been in relationship for 7,5 years!A year after i graduated, he graduated,but h couldn`t find a job here then he moved to Sumatera.Then we broke up, however, he stikk keep in touch even we still have feeling for each other..after being separated for 4 years (we broke up in 2005), i met him again last May. He came to my house to see me and my mom,who got Dngue fever at that time.In July, i met him again and we can`t deny our feeling..You still think and hope that you`ll be back with him again, me too!!i also knew some men, but i can`t force my feeling and to have relationship if i`m not really into him.I and my ex actually have plan to get married, but dunno as many things we should consider, like i have to move from here to small town,which is no really big problem for me as long as i have laptop with internet connection,i`m alive LOL.but i must think about my parents.They can`t let me go if it really2 happens to me, eventhoyg my parents start to like him too

I haven't gotten into a situation like that.But I think it would be better for you to be away from him for a while,you have a feeling for him,so if you keep in touch with him too often,that will make the whole thing more and more difficult,that would make you painful and make him feel sorry,cause he said he just wanted to be your friend,so just let it go,trying to see other guys,maybe after a period of time,you'll get over him,and maybe at that time,you really can be "one of his best friends" again.anyway,that's just my personal opinion.wish you good luck.