if your mother or father often hit you ,or absue you .what do you do ?

China
December 28, 2009 12:27am CST
i heard that a little girl named Lili,is lasting be hitting by her mother for ten years . i am suprised. unexpectendly that a mother is so merciless to her daughter. did you be hit by your mother or mother ? will you run away from home?
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@SangsTurks (1447)
• India
28 Dec 09
It is very easy for us to think that she can just run away form home and save herself but for a little girl her home is everything for her. A safe place that she could be at. Think of the dangers she would beexposed to if she ran away form home? She could just end up anywhere and in the worst of situations. So, i think it would be better for her to stay there and move out when she knows what is right and what is wrong. And when she thinks she can stand on her own two feet without the support of anybody.
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• China
28 Dec 09
Her mother is so rude,what a poor girl!If me,I will run away from home,because there is no love here,there is no reason that let me stay here,maybe after leaving home I can get freedom and love from the society.
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@raynejasper (2326)
• Philippines
28 Dec 09
..hi.. in our country, one form of discipline before is hitting or beating the child.. this has been allowed for years and children have not complained.. actually, most of us now are grateful that our parents disciplined us that way.. however, nowadays, beating the child as a form of discipline is not allowed.. For me personally, a parent doesn't need to whip or beat a child to discipline him or her.. I feel bad for those parents who beat their children because they did some mistakes because sometimes, parents go beyond and torture the child already.. The last time i was watching a news like this, I told myself that the parents are not fitted to become parents if they torture their child instead of loving them.. right now, children understands so much that they can understand if you explain the mistakes that they did.. well, if I had parents like them, I'd better run away from home and find my own life.. But if I can tolerate it, I would still at home and when I'm ready, that's the time I will flee from my parents and have my own life..
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• China
28 Dec 09
I am sorry to hear that.Such irresponseble parents do exist,but I am sure most of the parents love theis kids in spite of few are abmormal.I think Lili's mother is so sick that Lili should leave and ask for others help.
• China
29 Dec 09
lili`s encounter was find by a neighbor.adn the mother even said:"lili is my daughter,i can do anything i want." is so hairy.
@Hatley (164347)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Jan 10
hi concise__1 My parents were never mean or abusive to me, and I dont think I was even spanked ,punished but not abused at all. I was very lucky. I am sure I would have wanted to run away too if it had been me. I would probably have gone to my grandpa whom I loved so much. when I had some problems I wou ld go to him first then my parents as he had so much patience with me. but my mom was really a sweetheart , my dad never hit me but he did other things he had no right doing, all I will say it had it not been for my mom I would have turned my molester dad into the police but it only happened once, never again as I would not stay in the house unless other people were with me and my dad.I never ever trusted him again ever. I said my parents were never abusive but I realize yes my dad decided I would make a substitute wife when my mom was in the hospital for a week. he molested me at age 8 and I only knew this that my once loved daddy hurt me badly. I never told my mom. it was once only but what a legacy to give an 8 yr old trusting little girl.I hated that man for years til my own husband told me that hate was making me physically ill so I did forgive him. and the weight lifted off my shoulders.