We're friends again!!!
By pentagan12
@pentagan12 (757)
Philippines
January 1, 2010 8:41am CST
I have this friend of mine which I previously considered as my closest friend. We both shared common interests and we got along well with each other. In short, we have many things in common. We were friends since we are still in grade 6. I was 11 years old that time. Our friendship grew until we became really closed to each other. She became the girlfriend of my boyfriend's brother. We often talked about our men. One day, we had a certain misunderstanding and with that, we had a cold war. We didn't talk for quite long period of time. Even if we saw each other very often, we acted as if we didn't see anybody. But yesterday, we celebrated our new year with our boyfriends' family and we really had the chance to meet again. I honestly didn't have any intentions of talking to her but it seemed like there was something that urged both of us to forgive each other. I can hardly explain about what happened last night but I guess the good thing is we are friends again after a very long period of time. But, our friendship is no longer the same as before. It's sad but I guess that's how it should really be.
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5 responses
@kash11 (27)
• India
4 Jan 10
its gud tht u r frnds again but if had kept the frndship than she would have been ur bestfrnd and the person who will be there with u anywhere nd everywhere if i would have been in ur place i wont let her go away even if i had to do anything i would ask her sorry and keep the frndship as it was.
@marlena18042 (636)
• United States
1 Jan 10
I am happy that you and your friend have reconnected! Friendship really is an important thing in life and a good friend is hard to find that is why when we find one we should try to make it work out. There are always going to be times in life where we do not agree on something with a friend but that shouldn't cause a break in the friendship.
Sometimes what happens is that we are to stubborn to reconcile. But we are only hurting ourselves.
So, you say it cannot be like before? Why not? If you feel that way, maybe you are holding onto some resentments. If so, you should find a way to talk it out with her. Resentments can and will damage the relationship sooner or later anyway. Personally, if it was great before, then I would try to get it back that way and I believe it is very possible if you both work at it.
Friendships are very special there is nothing like having a true friend. We shouldn't take it for granted. I hope you both work through this and become close again, if not, maybe it wasn't meant to be but, I would sure try! Good Luck!
@kunal0099 (233)
• India
2 Jan 10
Joining and grouping again is always been a good thing rather than losing again and again. So always keep it in your mind.
@bingchen (1119)
• China
2 Jan 10
i think that it is good thing for you and your's friend,it is not easy to meet real friend in our life,so we often pay attention to this relationship.although your relationship is no longer the same as before,but i think that this need time and wait,this is valueble waiting for this relationship,the time can certificate your relationship.i wish you recover friendship like before,good luck.
