How did you handle failure in your life experience?

Hong Kong
January 1, 2010 11:59am CST
We all know that you can't win at all times and sometimes we all have to failure in some point of our time.For sure,it maybe an unhappy experience and it may hurt us deeply as well.But still,as long as we live,failure will be there.According to your own experinece,how did you handle such a moment?Will you cry?Will you talk to afreind or a love one?Will you just comfort yoursel by saying that "do it better next time!"share with us with your experience and it may help lots of people in mylot.
10 responses
@becdmd (704)
• Philippines
2 Jan 10
I have been a lot of failures in my life and it taught me to be strong and persevere in life that no matter happens. Before I'd handle my failures so bad, I cry a lot and feel moody all the time. But now, I'm more stronger, I know it's disappointed but I moved on easily after I shared it with my close friends and prayed about it, then I put my trust in God that the next time I wont do it again and on the bright side I've learned something from it. happy mylotting
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• Hong Kong
20 Jan 10
YEs,experinec ewill halep a person to grow and persevere is important to stand up from all the failure experiience.Cry?Good.it surely help at least we have this outlet when strike by failure during the unhappy moment.We will be strong when we turns to God as soon as possible.But sometimes,we may have to learn this through experience even we know all the knowledge from the Bible inside out.Faith will be tested when situation comes and learning to responds with faith do need some help From God as well ,when we are so weak in strength.Is failkure a way to victory ?It depends when we will get up and fight the life battle agin,if not failure can just take a person down.
@bryce22 (69)
• Poland
16 Jan 10
Just relax that's what I do.The things that destructs you should not hinder your life.Stay calm just think of positive things.Make yourself busy with other activities.Lastly its just problems,GOD will not give it to you if cant surpass it.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
4 Jan 10
Whenever I have faced failure in my life, I always look for someone that I can talk to about the failure that I am facing. Normally the person that I lean on is my mother. In the past the other person that I would lean on is my friend that passed away just a few days ago. Between these two special people I never truly felt like I failed at anything in my life because I always had their great support. I think that failure would never be easy for a human being to face if it weren't for a good support system.
• Hong Kong
21 Jan 10
Agree.We all need friends and support in life.Some people said that we are not an isolated island in this life and tha's why we surely need to build up our network and friendship .how can anyone face all the difficulties all by oneself.It is going to be hard if anybody live without friens and support.Sometimes,we need support and sometimes we are the one who will offer support for others and it is fair in life.And also it is important to do things out of love according to the Bible and don't expect any return in life.The greatest reward will be in heaven.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
2 Jan 10
You have to face what you have failed at. Try to turn the negative back into a positive again.
@bhav27 (442)
• India
2 Jan 10
well when i was a kid i was always afraid of failure in my life but luvkily i never had experienced it , but yeah when i grew up i did face failure in my life and i used to get upset and used to cry but then i realised and understand that whatever happens with us is for our goodwill and learn from that experience and you will understand what life wants from you and how should you spend and treat life , so now i never mind with failure infact i am happy god is planning something good for me that's why i failed in a task.
• India
2 Jan 10
Failure and success are two sides of a coin. We should accept both failure and success sportingy. In my practical experience of life, I gained many failures. But I didnot gave up my patience. If I fail in any matter then I have a habit of attempting it again and again till I achieve success. I know these bookish language is very tough regarding practical life but there is nothing to do except as I have told. Actually real life is very strange and unexpecting. Anyways we should be prepared for anything.
• Hong Kong
21 Jan 10
Thank you for your sharing.I like it when you said again and again.Yes,it is true that we all have to face failure all th etimes nad that's part of the life package.But as long as we can keep on trying and won't give up that easy.someday we will be a victor and success will eventually be with us.I think during the process of failure struggle,it is always important to have some friends to share and to encourage us.It is always better to have someone who cares around when facing difficult moment of life.Although I am only a wildlittlefan,I will always be a good friend for people who need help.^_^
@StarBright (2798)
• United States
1 Jan 10
Learn from it. Chalk it up to experience. Realize you did the best you could with what you had at the time. Or if you did not take advantage of doing your best, know that you learned a valuable lesson and you will give your best next time and every time thereafter. Move on and be the best you can be from that point forward. Part of being your best is knowing what your best is. It is give and take. It is knowing that you have to give to get. If you learn and become a bigger person out of your failure, then you have succeeded.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
2 Jan 10
I failed my practical driving test. I was wondering if I would ever pass it. Then I talked to a lady that I know. She told me she learned to drive in 2008 and took her first practical driving test in January 2009 but she failed it. Then she took her practical driving test in February 2009 and failed it. She kept on trying and finally passed her practical driving test in March 2009. I know that she kept faith that she would pass her practical driving test and she did. My driving is fine but I make silly mistakes on my practical driving test. I will try to relax more for the next attempt I do at the practical driving test. I know I must try and try again until I am successful. I am a teacher like it when a child does his or her best. I talk to friends when I fail and get some kind words of support from them. It isn't possible to win all the time and failure can be an important learning experience.
@Savedeath (255)
• China
1 Jan 10
For the past decades years,i have failed for many times in any aspect.sometimes i would just say to myself that"failure is the mother of success".but sometimes it's not easy for me get through,i didn't like to talk to others and instead,i always did some others things.for example,playing footbal,basketball or just playing computer games.when i was tired then had a good sleep,when i was up,my mood can be better.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
2 Jan 10
Failure can be something that is very disheartening. It tends to shake the old confidence. The best thing is to learn from the experience. I find that I gain more from failing than succeeding, as its a valuable experience. Some failures more so than others.