In love with a bi polar
@lipstick2009 (1236)
Philippines
January 18, 2010 5:26pm CST
Not really sure,i hope i'm wrong.
But his behavior and attitude is driving me crazy.
There are times when i just get shocked to the things that worries him about me.That i would often ask him."where did u get that idea?".
One day he would be tamed as a lamb,then in just slight conflict he would talk like everything is a big deal!!!
He seldoms crack jokes, and rarely smiles.
Ok you ask me, so why dont i just back out?I came to love him, only i just notice these things the more i know him.
It's saddening, because i really love him and i feel he doesn't have an idea how much i do, then he wouldn't feel so insecured.
A lot of times i have left him, but he has his effective ways of winning me back.
I want to help him, but i don't know how, because i'm only human and i can only take so much.
I have believed that love must be a two way street.I can't do it alone, it has to be a teamwork.
I know its just a matter of time, love will die naturally.
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@vineetkotnala (71)
• India
19 Jan 10
love is blind..
nd we r free to love ny one..
we should enj our life nd think abt others..to make happy
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@lipstick2009 (1236)
• Philippines
19 Jan 10
Yes you are right.Love is blind.But right now, what i worry is that this blindness might not be good for me in the long run.
And i'm starting to worry...
I have always believed that relationships helps us grow to become a better person.
:(
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Feb 10
lipstick2009 I talk from some experience and also as a retired nurse's aide. He does very much sound like the branch manager of the library where I worried. One day we were all the most wonderful people she had ever met, the best employees and we basked in the warmth of her smile. but the next day she would come to work her mouth drawn down, and her temper on the fritz.if you spoke to her she snapped at you and we were the stupidest bunch of employees, and we did nothing right. so on those days we all kept away from her as much as we could. well someone finally suggested she get a medical checkup. sure enough bipolar and her doctor put her on some medication. she evened out into a pleasant warm hearted employer to work with as long as she kept taking her medication. Get your love to a doctor for a check up. If he is bi polar it can be treated effectively. So many bi polars do not keep on their medications and thus many a good marriage or relationship snaps under the pressure. It must be very hard to live with a person who is always way way up or
way way down, but on meds it doesn't have to be that way at all.
way way down, but on meds it doesn't have to be that way at all.