Are constant communications through electronic means considered aggressive?
By arystine
@arystine (1273)
Philippines
January 22, 2010 6:32am CST
Guys, I need your opinion. If a girl constantly sends you e-mail, SMS messages, or messages on social networks, do you think that she's interested in you in the romantic sense? That it is aggressive on her part, as if making the first move? You see, I love keeping in touch with my friends, whether male or female. However, my intention is sometimes mistaken as some sort of affection. While the others accept me as just being naturally sweet. Does straight-forward girls scare guys off? :-) I need your answers.
3 responses
@shawnchang (120)
• China
31 Jan 10
in my opinion,straight girls is fit of me,because i can get the real message from her,about her cares ,her love.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
23 Jan 10
Hi arystine. Think of it this way: forget the electronic means, and discount whatever distance between friends. As if you're just in front of that friend. If you keep asking questions, people would take it differently too. For those who are accepting, they would also think that you're sweet. But for those who are not, they wouldn't get scared, but more annoyed.
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
22 Jan 10
For open-minded persons its no. For me I consider naturally sweet girl friends as real and caring. It is not good to give another picture out of a clear picture. Being aggressive through communication in any way is not bad, as one is only showing her or his presence and care despite the distance. A straight- forward girl is not really scary as long as she is doing such in her right mind and mood. What scares me more are girls who don't want to talk but can do harm against their own selves or others when frustrated. Being blunt and real is a virtue I believe.
