i am single

Indonesia
January 26, 2010 10:56am CST
i had four mounth alone without someone who noticed,of course i was lonely.I need someone to sare,but until now i have not found that person.I'm confused.Please help me,what sould i do?
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15 responses
@tixepower (1196)
• Sweden
26 Jan 10
When you are not searching, you are finding.
• Indonesia
26 Jan 10
thank you for the advice you give
• Malaysia
17 Jun 10
Hi, From your avatar I believe you are still young and have plenty of time to work on getting a new partner in life. It is only four months now, so don't worry too much unless you have reached an age that you consider is too late to get a partner. What you can do is to socialize more like attending to parties, weddings or any social events so that you will meet new people. It is okay to join in a dating site, but always keep in mind that an online relationship should not be trusted unless you have met that person in real life and have dated him for a considerable amount of time. Good luck!
@chanlot (191)
• Indonesia
13 Jun 10
considered district ... I also own. emmm.... I guess I like with your performance. If you want I wanna to meet you. (hello...lam kenal. saya juga orang Jawa Tengah mbak...,kemarin IDmu saya add,mohon di approve ya..!! makasih)
• United States
29 Jan 10
I am single and I'm quite happy about it. I miss companionship from time to time, but I'm using this time in my life to accomplish things that I want to get done. Being single isn't all that bad. You have to find happiness within yourself.
@jengkol (116)
• Indonesia
28 Jan 10
hmmm... if you want to.. I can be your friend to chat and share.and fortunately we live in the same country rite. if you want to find a lover.. may be I can help you to find it too..
@jasmeena (850)
• Indonesia
28 Jan 10
I have been single for about two years. I am not traumatic with relationship, but i don`t want to rush in for relationship with someone if i am not really sure that i love him and he loves me. Sometimes i get stuck as well, but it doesn`t guarantee that your married friends will be happier than you. Some of my friends are already divorced, one will decide to separate from her hubby despite having two lovely kids. I still have some single friends, male and female. Last Monday, i met my junior high school friend who is still single and we came to one of our friends who is still single. We had lunch, laughed, shared together. I agree with an opinion,while you are not searching, you will find it. Just be relax. Make friends, have fun, be active
• China
28 Jan 10
I can understand your feeling. I have been single for more than 3 years, without nobody in my life...it can get pretty hard sometimes when you were used to certain kind of life style...I did cry out for help from my friend, since my familiy's not around, but everybody has their own life...I had been desperate, but it only make things worse...so try to pick yourself up, enjoying your life for youself, we dont live for anyone else but ourselves...be single, be fabulous, things would come when it is the time!
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
27 Jan 10
being a single is not fault. whats wrong if we are single? is it sin? being single doesn`t mean off course we are not happy. happy is not depends on we are single or get a couple.you create your happy whether now you are single or meet your soulmate. enjoy your single.
• China
27 Jan 10
hi,cheer up.don't worry,please wait for him who appears soon.the people around all love you,you aren't lonely.believe me.^_^
@danitykane (3192)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
hi dedha04! There's an actress here in my country that states, "Single is Sexy". There is nothing wrong for being single, you are pretty and young for sure you'll meet someone who will like you and appreciate you. Just stay cool and enjoy the life you have right now. I also believe that, special people takes time to find someone special because they are "special". Am I making any sense? hahaha! But really, there is nothing to be sad about your status. God will find someone for you in time.
@farazkh1 (1157)
• Pakistan
26 Jan 10
I wish i could be that Lucky one to have you.believe me.....!
@etioewe (143)
• Mexico
26 Jan 10
dear dedha04, i asure you to be a liitle patient more, you will have the best of patner ever, just try and make friends know them dont even bother about if they notice you or not, so that you dont get worried and depress that you are alone the truth is at last you will laugh best, becuase you will get to knwo so many friends and understnad poeple more, and when the right person for you comes he will be the one begging you for love and showering you wiith love that you will so enjoy romance. Also learn to be happy, create your own personal happiness its the best becuase its only when you are happy with your self that you can be able to attract poeple around. and you will also be able to give love out too when you find one. so girl pls just enjoy life and always be joyful for any situation. have a blessed sweet life.
• India
26 Jan 10
lol i have been single for 16 years and still counting :P
@dhysanne (451)
• Philippines
26 Jan 10
Good for you, you only have four months. Me? I'm 31 and still single. I had my last relationship about ten years ago and the rest are mutual buddies. Though single yet I'm happy. You can have your family and friends. Why not share things with them? They can help you. And even find you the guy of your dreams. I know having a boyfriend is still different. For the meantime, the best thing to do is to make yourself attractive. Ask God to guide you. Prepare for that special someone. Just be patient!
@depops (17)
• Germany
26 Jan 10
Be patient for those who rush into relationship surely do rush back out.