HOW will you feel when your friend tell you to go out of her life?

I think her new boyfriend is freak. And He doesn't really love your friend surely, because, if we love someone, we should love everything around him/her, include his/her friends. But, its all coming back to your friend, only she who can make a decision. I'm sure that she's in the hard part of her life too right now, because she has to pick one between you and her boyfriend. If I were u, maybe I will keep apart with her, but of course i won't break up the friendship, just give her time to think, and to know more about his boyfriend. And I know that she will choose the best for her life. If u r a good friend of her, just pray for here to have a happiness with that guy. And I'm sure that she won't be able to forget u after everything that u've done together. U know sometimes love can make people blind. I think that is what happens with her right now.

well 1st of all a friends do not hurt friends based on selfishness.. i mean if your friend doesn't value you feelings then you can forget about her because she is not a friend material its that simple..i mean there are friends that's worth the trouble but there are friends too that's just crap

In a situation like that I would talk with her first and make sure she understands not only what she is doing but also what being with someone like that ends up being like and if she still wants me gone I'd go..and feel sorry for her...

well when some one who is close to you from a long time and wants you to be out of his life for some one else then well it feels bad and hurt but well you too should adjust your self with the things changing in life then only we can maintain , i too had such situation but well i changed my self and now it docent make much change to me. well keep your self busy so that such situation comes also you want be depressed.

i am sorry to hear that..but i think if it is your behave to bring on,i will do that ,too..

Anyway i will fell so bad but there is nothing to think about since she said you should leave her alone all you hav to do is to let her go.

Hi elly1384. I am sorry to hear that your friend decided to leave you because she wants to focus more on his boyfriend. Do you happen to know if his boyfriend asked her to leave you/ or her other friends just to be with him? If this is the situation, that guy is stupid and a total waste of time! (Sorry for the word) This was really hard for you I know, because friends are friends- You shared a different bond compared to having a girlfriend and boyfriend so I think leaving your friend for your girlfriend or boyfriend is awfully pointless. For me it is hard to accept, I'll get upset at first, but if my friend wants it that way, I can’t blame her for her decision. I guess she’s big enough to decide what to do and who are those people she wants to keep in her life. I just hope she’ll be happy with what she did. I just hope her boyfriend is worth of what she did with the friendship. Happy thoughts elly, you’ll get through this.

for a possessive person like me this kinda feeling will be no less than utter shock. Forgetting friends is never an easy thing because the emotions we have put in the other person can't be taken out that easily. Buddy I know it's pretty difficult for you to digest this thing.