How do you gain someones trust ?

@LadyBoss (253)
United States
January 31, 2010 7:48pm CST
How can you get someone too trust you ?
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@myzire72 (1157)
• Singapore
1 Feb 10
I believe that in order to have someone trust you, you've got to be a person whom can be relied on. When help is needed, you are always there to lend a helping hand. When confided, you are able to empathize with her and lend her a shoulder to cry on if necessary. Also, you are able to keep secrets. All these will inevitably make you someone who is trustworthy.
• United States
1 Feb 10
Without even a basic understanding of your intentions, it's tough to gauge what it would take in order to earn trust in another person. The biggest concern might be if you are a trustworthy person in the first place. With that said, the first way to gain a person's trust is to become their friend, and genuinely want to be considered a friend of theirs. Sharing your thoughts with that person and being around for them even when times are tough are both exceptional ways of opening up and encouraging trust. This is something that isn't instantly gained, it's not an xbox live achievement and there's no light that will come on the moment you earn someone else's trust. Additionally, the levels at which a person will trust you will heavily vary, but let's make this really simple. Do you trust them? If you trust someone, you will usually get their trust in return. commonly a person who trust no one cannot be trusted themselves. This can be viewed on as a one-to-one ratio.
@Hatley (164468)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Feb 10
ladyboss you get people to trust you by your actions.if you show you can be depended on people will begin to trust you, just always take care not to let them down. It is pretty easy to make people trust you as you just do not let them down. If you say you will do such and such be sure to do that, and always be that way. soon people will know they can depend on you. This is really quite easy but if you have let someone down it will take awhile for you to build up trust again. good luck. take care.