Have you adviced anyone?

@avimra (456)
India
February 2, 2010 12:58pm CST
Well, I don't like advices like most of the people. But,sometimes I get into the situation where I have to give advice to other. At that time only, I am realizing how it feels. Really, lot of care is needed to advice others. So, what you think? You ever did?
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• Jordan
2 Feb 10
Yes i usually advise my friends,i try to be so very nice in speech,and i try to make them feel that i am doing that becuse i love them,i do not critsizr them so i have noticed that they accept my advice and come to me many other times when they need to tslk to someone.
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@avimra (456)
• India
3 Feb 10
Good! I too try to give advice in a nice way so that they feel easy and comes for next time.
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
2 Feb 10
It is easy to give advice, but if it is the right advice we will never know. But every time someone can be helped, it makes you feel better. We can only give advice, we can not make you accept it.
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@avimra (456)
• India
3 Feb 10
Yeah! you are right. We can only give the advice. To take it or not, is in their hands.
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• India
2 Feb 10
well i often give advice to my friends...also others and hey all listen it and in majority of the cases they get out of trouble by listening to my advice...\i recently adviced a friend in mylot as to how to boost up her earnings..hope it works out wll for her
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@avimra (456)
• India
3 Feb 10
Good.Thanks for sharing!
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@grakesh (88)
• India
2 Feb 10
Really advising things is very important. I often give advices to my friends. But some may listen and some didn't listen to me. But advices play a major role. We should think of why he is telling like that! Then only we should respond to it. So advice plays a major role.
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@avimra (456)
• India
3 Feb 10
nice. Thanks for sharing. Only the people who care for us will give advice to us. It is necessary to think about it and respond it.
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@Hatley (152368)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Feb 10
avimra hi Of course I have as a long time member here but only when someone asks for it,I do not just go around advising people who would resent my interference. So you do not like advice.well do not ask for any and you will likely not get any. I sometimes get really teed off at people who want one's help and then they will say oh I could never do that, no I dont think that is right, okay if you do not want advice, for pete's sakes do not ask me for help. okay lot of care is needed but it works both ways. if you really do not want someone's help then leave them alone and don't ask for it.
@avimra (456)
• India
3 Feb 10
Thanks for sharing your thought.