My brother has married, but i couldn't face his wife as my families, i confused.

China
February 3, 2010 4:58am CST
married ?
1 response
@ShepherdSpy (8544)
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
3 Feb 10
You're not the first one in this situation,and you won't be the last...Did Your Brother get married very quickly,as You seem to feel her to be an outsider still,and not like You had gotten to know her over time to be able to accept her (yet) as a SIL? Are You close to Your Brother? Is He Younger or older than You? Will they be living nearby,or moving away somewhere else? There are so many life changes that a family member getting married can cause,and it's hard to know how to deal with some of them.He's starting a new phase in his life with Her.He's Still Your Brother,but it's entirely up to you how much you want to be there for Him now.All I can suggest is that You get to know his new Wife,if you don't know her well already.She could become like another sister for You... (I'm hoping that would be a good thing!) Good luck!
• China
4 Feb 10
Thanks so much, yes you're right.i think i'll have a new sister before they married and we'll get well each other. but the reality is reality, dream is dream. haha~ my brother older than i and he has been a father, we live together. may be is my problem,i think ,because i am very sensitive, may be we just two kind of people, yes? may be we should have a talk. but i am very appreciate for you!