Good memory or Bad memory! Which is best?

@avimra (456)
India
February 6, 2010 11:09pm CST
Memory is something which we remember certain things. There are two kinda memory. Good memory and Bad memory. Good memory, we wont forgot anything. Very helpful in exams in development. But sometimes bad memory is also very important, to forgot the grudge and move happily. So according to you, which one is the best? which kind of memory you need now?
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18 responses
• India
7 Feb 10
Everyone might have combination of both but we should remember something which will boost our life living and forget the things which will cause depression or unhappiness. Learn from bad memories and remember them just for learning and not becoming them happen again. Be happy and remember good memories for happiness :)
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@avimra (456)
• India
7 Feb 10
Yeah! right. Bad memories are just for learning. Its better to forgot it and move and live happily.
• China
7 Feb 10
both good ones and bad ones are a real part of your life, and to me, i hope i can store many good memories in may brain,but,bad ones can teaches us some lessones and is a chance which can let me know how to avoid another failure
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
7 Feb 10
i think i go for a good memory. even if you want to forget something that is bad and you wouldn't want to remember, having a good memory will tell your mind to forget it. good memory still remember bad memories.
@avimra (456)
• India
7 Feb 10
Nice.. Good memory still remember Bad memories. Super wordings! Rock!
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
7 Feb 10
Since the question raised is which is best? I would prefer to have a good memory as I hate it when I can't remember something. As you state there is always disadvantages to (almost)everything. But nevertheless I think most people would want a good memory. Let's see how the responses go.
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• Spain
7 Feb 10
i believe no one have the bad memory in terms of having been into any ill feelings.
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• Indonesia
7 Feb 10
I think it depends how the condition is. sometimes good memory is best when a good moment come like when the exam come, but sometimes bad memory is best when we want to forgot bad things that happens in the past that make us feel sad... But i think i need a good memory now because i'm in the middle of my final exam...
@avimra (456)
• India
7 Feb 10
Yeah! right. So all the best for your exams. May you have very good memory throughout your exams. :)
@tluanga (767)
• India
7 Feb 10
i think good memory is much important, bad memory.......nah
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
7 Feb 10
Hi avimra,Of course good memory is the best,because it can makes us happy remembering good things.But we cant avoid to bad memories because as a human beings we've been experienced such things.What is important is we know how to accept the reality of life.Have a nice day!
@avimra (456)
• India
7 Feb 10
Yep! In life's reality we have to come out of bad things happened and we should learn from it and shouldn't make it again.
@gracce (335)
• India
7 Feb 10
I like to remember good memory as it brings happiness and smile on our face, but about bad memory sometime it is very hard to forget it,most of time when we think about our past first of all we remember all the bad things happens with us,& we just get upset i think good memory is the best but if the extent of bad memory is more its good to forgot the past.
• Jamaica
8 Feb 10
i would say good memory so that it can really help me to remember things.also it can help to motivate me to so better.
@dasj20 (127)
• India
8 Feb 10
hi avimra i think both are important......these two are their own importances and based up on the arriving problem it depends..... according to me i feel and wants good memory and i don't want to remember bad things what happen in my life. thanking you have a nice day
@ian1979 (47)
• Philippines
7 Feb 10
The best for me is Good memory because it would be better to recall the good things that happened to you in the past because it would generate a lot of positive energy for you..It would help you get by with your daily struggles with life..
@davidshin (143)
• United States
8 Feb 10
I'll have to say that having good memory is the best. Even though you remember the bad things someone did, you can also remember how much better they treated before that event occurred or how much they cared/loved for you. Good memory keeps you going, bad memory will just slow you down, you'll have to learn everything you have already learned.
• Philippines
8 Feb 10
i think the best one is good memory. it helps you recall things when you need them like in exams. if you pass the exam.you get good grades and eventually you get to graduate and have a good job.it will make your life easier.
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
7 Feb 10
I think both are right in their own places.. because bad memories memorize us our bad day's when we were in trouble.. and our good memory is memorize us our good days.. when we were happy and getting out trouble situations.. so a persons who coming out both situations.. he/she never forget their memory.. if that are bad memories or good memories.. thanking you.. and keep mylotting always
@mystone (42)
• Indonesia
7 Feb 10
I prefer to have a good memory than a bad one, and I guess most people are too. That's why some people do brain exercises to maintain their memories to stay 'young' which mean that they want to keep their good memory. Sometimes we wanted to forget bad memories that we have experienced, but I guess it's a matter of feeling, not how good or bad our memories are...
@AvI0907 (230)
• Malaysia
7 Feb 10
Hi avimra... For me both are also important. The good memory would develop us into a better stage and the bad memory would deleted unnecessary sense. that all.. Have your good memory for happiness!!! (^_^)
• India
7 Feb 10
hi.. bad memory comes only at the time of illnesss.. actually it is helpful so that u always ve a good memory in the future... bad memory is needed foe sometime to have the good memory all the time..