What to look for...

United States
February 10, 2010 1:34pm CST
Ladies, what do you look for in an ideal man? Men, what do u look for in an ideal woman?
6 responses
• United States
11 Feb 10
I am not looking for an ideal woman due to being happily married but I can still reply on what are somethings that I looked for. 1)honesty 2)hygiene 3)smile 4)personality 5)intelligence Those are just a few of the major characteristics that I look for. Some are more important than others but with the right person some of those can be tweaked to fit that person. You know I never mentioned anything about looks, figure and stuff along those lines because "beauty is only skin deep" as well as "beauty is in the eye of the beholder".
• United States
11 Feb 10
very well said!!! Thanks!
• United States
10 Feb 10
ideal man...hm. i think it's all kind of relative because it has more to do with how all of their traits coincide with one another. for example, i enjoy when a man is sweet to me, but not the typical sweet that most romantic films portray. to me, obsession is sweet. but when the obsession is mixed with dependency, i no longer desire it. does that make sense? so i think it has more to do with how all of their desirable traits work with one another.
• United States
10 Feb 10
Very nice answer...and yes that does make sense. Thanks for commenting!
@yresh12 (3219)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
I'm looking for someone who is RICH, HANDSOME AND INTELLIGENT. JUst kidding!!! I want the one who shares laughs and sorrows with me and so I am with him. I want the man who buys you a sandwhich when you're hungry and takes care for you when I'm not feeling well. I just want a man to love me for who I am and what I am. i think that's about it. I know it's to shallow. I'm just easy to please ;)
@jugsjugs (13045)
10 Feb 10
The type of ideal man for me would be a person that likes children as well as loves animals as i love both.He has to have respect for everyone aswell as everyones feelings,he would have to be very caring as well as considerate.A good sense of humour would be great never violent,do not shout as well as knows how to trust and also be trusted.If he had those qualitys we would get on great.
@junrapmian (2170)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
I don't know what an ideal man is. But what I am looking for a guy is someone who will make me feel loved, I'm not particular with the physical assets, maybe someone who is responsible enough to stand by me, someone who will understand me and someone who will be there to comfort me and take me as what I am.
• United States
10 Feb 10
I look for trustworthiness in a man. Of course, that is not the only factor that I need to be attracted to someone, but it is essential if I am going to be attracted to him at all. He can be gorgeous, funny, smart, kind and all those other amazing things, but if I can't trust him, it's a complete deal breaker.