Fake Girls

@j00nior (182)
Canada
February 11, 2010 7:14pm CST
Today in one of my university classes, this girl who looked sort of pretty, turned around and asked me for a pen. I said yes because I'm a nice person and I like to help others out but all she did was take my pen and give it to the big oaf sitting beside her. I began to ponder her thought process... she took off her sweater to flash some chest at me to get me to give her a pen because she assumed I wouldn't have given it to the guy. The funny thing is, I'm not interested in women, and nothing girls do to try and get me to like them or do favors for them works. When they realize that their efforts fail sometimes they are disappointed and frustrated. I think it is hilarious. Anyone else want to shed light on these situations?
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13 responses
@ShepherdSpy (8562)
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
12 Feb 10
When You call the Guy who actually needed the pen a Big Oaf,that leaves Me wondering if You'd have given it to him if He'd turned round and asked you himself.. So He's either charming enough to get the Girl to ask you for it,or She's a good enough friend of his to notice he didn't have one and schmoosed You to get it for Him..sounds like You got Played! I hope You got the pen back afterwards,though..I hate somebody "Borrowing" something and not returning it!
@j00nior (182)
• Canada
12 Feb 10
Haha it's happened to me so many times before at school and I just think if someone wants something from me, then why can't they ask me themselves. Regardless of how somebody looks, or what their gender is, I'd give them a pen. They don't need to charm me or flirt with me, and thats why I am laughing about this whole thing. I think it is hilarious when people use flirting or whatever else to try and get what they want, because that doesn't work for me. The girl tried to give me the pen back but I just said keep it because I saw the gross guy chewing on the end of it! Yuck, germs, I don't need any swine flu.
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
12 Feb 10
That's another pet hate..They'll borrow stuff and don't respect it while They've got it!
@j00nior (182)
• Canada
12 Feb 10
Ya I hate when that happens, and it is a re-occurance all the way from elementary school through high school and now it is happening again. I'm a bit of a germ-a-phobe so I knew the pen was gone the minute she asked to borrow it!
@thyst07 (2091)
• United States
12 Feb 10
It reminds me of this girl in my major. She is constantly trying to get the attention of two particular guys. For instance, one time she tried to draw attention to her body by asking one of her friends, loudly, "I think this shirt makes my boobs look really good. What do you think?" and she stood so that the two guys in the back row would be able to get a good view. She seeks attention from those guys constantly, and it's completely futile. One is married (and coincidentally so wrapped up in himself that I doubt he'd notice anyway), and the other isn't into prissy girls. So all of her flaunting is completely useless. But she keeps it up. I just don't get other women.
@j00nior (182)
• Canada
12 Feb 10
That is hilarious! When will people learn? I'd rather be with someone who does not need to use their body/figure to impress me or get my attention.
• United States
12 Feb 10
Yeah I hate when chicks do that. I love that my hubby doesn't like all the makeup and fake stuff. I use to try and be someone I wasn't and he loves me for who I am.
@summer77 (415)
• Philippines
12 Feb 10
LOL. That was funny! Okay based on what you said, I can assert that the girl likes you and obviously she was flirting on you. You do get it, right? So you, at least have to appreciate that right now that someone did an effort to try to get your attention. That was sort of a technique. I can relate because I did things too to drawn my crushes' attention, though I never did that "flashing chest" as a way to draw an attention. LOL. Let me ask you a question I hope it won't offend you. I'm just curious. You said that you are not interested in women, is that mean that you are a gay? =D Forgive me if I am wrong or if it offended you.
@j00nior (182)
• Canada
12 Feb 10
I am g a y, and I tried to type that in my discussion but mylot wouldn't let me, saying that I was using inappropriate content. I doubt she was flirting with me, she was just using her body as a tool to get my pen for the big fat guy sitting next to her. I felt used haha!
@summer77 (415)
• Philippines
12 Feb 10
Oh I see. I thought she still don't know about it. Or does she? ANyways, about that I think it goes with their content policy, i think it belongs to gender something. That was still funny. LOL. I can't imagine how the girl was so embarrassed by that. =D
• Canada
12 Feb 10
Yes there is a lot of fake-ism going on today. I personally cannot stand fake women. I've had my share of bad experiences with them way too many times. Once I can't feel full trust for someone, I can never trust them again. Especially if they are fake with a capital F.
• United States
12 Feb 10
Nice word Fake-ism. I hate fake people too. You can tell when someone is fake by the way they act and what they look like most time.
@MrKennedy (1994)
12 Feb 10
Maybe she had a thing for the big oaf sitting beside her, and wanted to start flirting with him by giving him a pen. However, since she did not have a spare pen, she pestered you, a nearby person for one instead. Or maybe I have got this completely wrong. Who knows what was going through this girls head
@j00nior (182)
• Canada
12 Feb 10
I don't think too much is going through her head. She is in a seminar with me as well and the things that come out of her mouth in there are pretty stupid sounding.
@ANIME123 (2473)
• United States
12 Feb 10
Still it's good to know that you don't fall for any of that. She was using her body to try and get your attention that's funny. It is hilarious lol.
• United States
12 Feb 10
Yep it is hilarious, people think it will change if they have big boobs and look like Paris Hilton then they are so much better than you or I.
@YuStar (12)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
i don't know why some girls are really like that.. specially in our school. The way the girl took off her sweater to flash some chest to you is one her way of flirting to take your pen. haha. maybe he had use her flirting technique to somebody else and it turn the way she want to.. so she guess to do the same thing to you. funny. haha. ^^
@smileonstar (4013)
• United States
12 Feb 10
Hi, well, sound like it is really bother you so much about this matter right? if not then why you are thinking about her?... and sound like she might be like you too, that's why she tried to get you talking to her or helped her. some girls are like that... try to get guy attention by borrowing a pen or so ... but actually she was trying to get to know you ... good luck on that one
@kingparker (9698)
• United States
12 Feb 10
well, I definitely like girls, but I won't like the idea of being used by girls to do them favors, and they simply want to use you. For that, it is just not right. If they really need help, or anything like that, they don't have to flash any flesh to me. I won't more than glad to help. There is no difference for guys too.
• Philippines
12 Feb 10
They are flirt girl who are so conscious to get notice so it is her style but not all girls act like that unless they have other mission in their mind and so it is their motivation to get what ever they like just for pleasure of getting notice. The guy were the same way they chase pretty girls but not really so serious they like to display those girls like trophy and a way to have their buddies get jealous of their new victim. So a guy like you have a lot of control and respect that you would not succumb to a flirtation then be tempted to take a bite. I admire you for having a good disposition and you know to identify a decent girl from a wild girl so your future girlfriend would be so prod as it only mean you could be trusted never to easily give up to a temptation because some girls are simply evil while your going to be lucky to find some angels like hidden in a treasures when you already find the right person. I never do the same things as exhibited by the girls as being pretty does not need to show some flesh as a simple charm and quick wit with coupled with being smart and with a sense of humor is better than a sexy lady who got less brains just a beauty full of form with no substances is like an empty bottles, you could get nothing but headaches in case you get hook on them they would never stop their styles because they already get used to it unless they are willing to change their ways..Some are mean and fake so loo for those natural and it would surely bring no troubles but a stable and peace of mind.
@maria1081 (1252)
• Philippines
12 Feb 10
Back in my university days, I can get the attention of my crush in the class by not flirting with him but by having good grades in the class. And it was effective since he noticed me but I was so shy I turned down the friendship. There are really girls like your classmate, they wanted to be the center of attraction and get some favors.
@slbwyc (67)
• Singapore
12 Feb 10
haha. pity of you, i never get myself in the same situation. but what i think is the best way to deal with this situation is to let yourself use to that . finally, it is really a unfavoured experience, hope not to have the same experience
@solared (1210)
• United States
12 Feb 10
We all want what we cant have, so that will always be a issue.