regrets in choices
By feltkun
@feltkun (23)
Indonesia
February 17, 2010 10:06pm CST
i've been wondering. sometimes in life we came across paths where we have to choose a a difficult decision. for example, we like this girl/boy, but she rejected you. then, you became friends again. we dont hope for it any longer but there's a small chance that we can achieve it. if you are me, should you wait even the outcome will hurt you, or you just let it goes by? and why?
4 responses
@meldred (94)
•
18 Feb 10
have patience in waiting because i know there's a good things coming at the end...God gave us intellect,will & emotion for us to choose...but we have to wait also for the right time & right guy that God assigned for us. We are not given a mind like an animal where we can dictate them what to do because we are created special by God.
@laurenban (194)
• Philippines
18 Feb 10
If i were you, i will be a bit skeptical about asking the person again. Don't expect much if you are friends now, she rejected you before right? Maybe she just like to be your friend and no more extra connections. If you could live thru another rejection you can come up to her again and ask we may never know if we don't try right? There is no harm in trying at least you can say to your self ''i did what i can" no regrets right? Just keep your hope to the minimum ok? so you wont be so hurt. good luck! :-)
@bird123 (10632)
• United States
18 Feb 10
Communication is key in all relationships. Tell them exactly how you feel.Choices are part of learning and growing whether the choices are good or not. Never avoid things for fear of rejection or what others think.It can never be wrong to attempt to make a connection with another.You are living your life. Don't allow others to live your life for you. If things turn out bad, you will not only learn from it,you will have a good story to tell when you are old.If things turn out great, it will still become a great learning story to tell others.
@melloncollie (661)
• Philippines
18 Feb 10
if i were you... i would have gone straight ahead to professing that undying love and devotion. besides, love ultimately is about risks. all about chances. don't live a life of torment. what if that person might have simmered a feeling towards you already since you two became friends and he/she is just waiting for you? what if, like you he/she is scared to take the risk too? don't live in what-ifs. go for it. if the person turns down your love then you never lose. if the person truly became your friend then he/she'll still accept you in his/her life.
