Depend on financial problems

Hello careguarden, I think i would help her/him, giving him a way to earn, like some info of job vacancy, encourage him to sell something. And i hope sooner or later he know how to earn and finally he can help himself to get out from financial problems. It is needed of passion to face this kind of siblings. But our duty is to help them so they can stand in their own feet.

I don't believe that anyone should get married until they are able to take care of themselves. If one of my children still lived with me and wanted to get married and bring another person into my home for me to support, I would refuse to go along with that plan, however, if they were already married and fell on hard times, I would be willing to help them out temporarily...giving them the incentive to get back on their feet.