lost my best friends

@baifuwa (636)
China
February 28, 2010 10:04am CST
I have several best friends.But we didn't contact each other for a long time .then he change his phone number,i can't touch with him .As time goes by ,we will forget each other. I am hurt for lost my best friends.
3 responses
@LaurenInLA (2272)
• United States
28 Feb 10
I must be very honest with you. Best friends usually talk every day. If your best friend changed his phone number and didn't tell you, then that person really isn;t a friend at all. Be careful with who you bestow the honor of best friend. It should be reserved for people who care about you as much as you care about them
• China
28 Feb 10
Yes you are absolutely right. Best friend means continue the relation in any situation. I think she is talking about good friends. Sometime friend become very good friend. But they are not best friend. If they are his/her best friend then they continue the relation any how. When ever they take new mobile number they inform you. where ever they go they had keep in touch.
• Malaysia
3 Aug 10
I know that we have different friends and what not, but still best friends should be there when they are needed, he even accused me of stealing his sound system when his car got broken into. I understand he has other friends and i have them too, it would be nice once in a while for him to call me and ask me to go hang out instead of me. He always gives the excuses, i gotta see what my girlfriend is doing, ALWAYS. He even lied once about going on an epic mountain bike ride, he said he had to work on July, and then he later confessed he lied, maybe he isnt my best friend.. = =
@ebsharer (5518)
• United States
28 Feb 10
Did you try to look for him? Maybe ask around. Did you have any mutual friends you could ask? Do you know where his parents live, maybe they would be able to help you out. Did you try Facebook or Myspace? There are so many ways to find old friends if you just try. I recently found an old pen pal on facebook. Her and I hadn't talked in 11 years!