Do you trust them?

Philippines
March 2, 2010 8:37am CST
Hi mylotters, Do you trust them? Do you trust your partner(wife/husband/boyfriend/girlfriend)? Me yes, it is really important that you trust one another because when you keep on asking him who is that and then ask so much question about her/him then that is the start of argument and worst you may hurt each other. So me I control my self even I am jealous I just trust him that he is loyal, love me and I am the only woman that he want to be with him the rest of my life.
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@sunnycool (12737)
• India
3 Mar 10
hi healthbeauty,For me Trust is the most important thing for ever lasting relationship.If you do not trust your partner then your relationship is under threat for sure it might be good now for the others until the other one do not reveal their feelings out but it would create a lot of problems in the future.great day.
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• Boston, Massachusetts
3 Mar 10
i agree with you sunny. the moment i accepted him to be my boyfriend and later my husband then my 101% trust is assured. i know he does the same with me. trust is one of the ingredients for a maintaining a healthy and successful relationship. cheers!
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
Yes.. If you don't trust them then why you still with them right? There is no reason to be together for those couple who do not trust each other. It's useless. If they do not have trust with one another then their relationship will be miserable.
• Boston, Massachusetts
3 Mar 10
Hi Health, There's no question about trusting my loved ones particularly my husband. he never gave me any reason to doubt him or thing negative thoughts about him that will shaken my trust on him. we are committed to love each other and grow old together!
@dbeast (1500)
• India
3 Mar 10
No life is complete if there is no trust. There can never be a relationship which can run through if there is no trust.It eventually crumbles. The most important thing is to give your partner the space one needs and things will automatically fall in place.
@MrKennedy (1996)
3 Mar 10
I believe that trust is one of the most important things in a relationship. Simply put, if you don't trust one another, then the lack of trust will lead to a whole host of problems and potential arguments. Couples who have no trust with one another usually do not last long from what I have seen
@DOLLYBABY (2536)
• United States
2 Mar 10
yes i do trust my husband i do not find any other reasons not to trust him...i can be very jealous but he doesn't give the reason to be jealous cause he dedicate himself to me and nobody else.
@syankee525 (6298)
• United States
2 Mar 10
yes i do trust her, i might ask who she's chatting with, but like me i have two female friends i am close too, whats great they are close to my wife too.
2 Mar 10
Most of the time I trust my bf but occansionly I worry a bit if he seems to get to close to other girls,only happened twice though luckily.
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
Yes, I have trust but I don't know if I trust him fully or I am just afraid that he will meet someone. You see, my hubby and I are away for a while now. He is working four hours from my place. Everytime I ask him who is this and that, he is annoyed and tell me that I don't have trust in him. Of course I do have trust but I am just afraid. I know he is working for us, striving hard just to give us a better future but I can't help thinking about it. Women in that place is so aggressive. All I think of now is that he will remain faithfully to our love and our kids and hope that he will never do things that will hurt me and break our family apart.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
2 Mar 10
Yes, i do, but if i am to be trusted, that is the other question. Jealousy can be such a waste of energy. TATA.
@Mike4me (567)
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
Yes of course, it is the most important thing to have if you want a relationship to work. Trust is something the couple needs to make their love stronger and cherish each other more each day.
@rajaiv0810 (1013)
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
Yes I do trust my husband. In our entire 7 years of married life I can't remember a time I have doubted him. Probably because he never gave me any reason too. He goes out a lot alone (without me) to be with his friends and they would drink, go to some bars, play poker or just to spend time on the restau of our friend. Still I don't doubt him. I know his friends too and they are my friends too. I think knowing the company of your partner is very important so that you'll know that he's in good hands. :) However, I asked him to inform me as well his whereabouts so that I'll know and he does that. If he'll be late in going home he send a text or call to inform as well. So far, I'm lucky in this aspect. :)
@primeaque86 (7968)
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
I trust my partner... but I am a jealous person my friend I could not really help myself from asking her over and over again... I know that we are loving each other... We could not even afford to be away for several days... And I thank God she was not able to successfully go away for work... because I know I would be very sad. But in our situation now, not only me, but the two of us are confronting each other. Specially with the messages of our phone. I am always controlling myself but sometimes my jealous would really emerge... and she as well... Maybe it's natural, I I feel tired also when we have to argue every night, good if we could just love talk the entire week... but there is really an argument twice or double... anyhow. I love her, and she love me... and trust? We trust each other, we always telling ourselves about that... but we are on the state of building a better foundation of it...