Love does not buy, but you're in a position to negotiate!!
By icesmile
@icesmile (7160)
Romania
March 2, 2010 3:46pm CST
Do you know what you must do is train yourself to step back, so you can see the pattern, relationships, and interconnection of things.
It is a love relationship, a relationship where two people negotiate feelings, attitudes, who gives more, who give less, who forget and forgive, or who will keep more feeling of love?
Somebody must to be less in love as he can negotiate his feelings?
When you play dumb, you force the other side to give you more information.Is this a kind of a "smart negociation" in love?
Do you think that love can be negotiate? How, in what way?
6 responses
@cobrateacher (8432)
• United States
2 Mar 10
Hi, Ice!
I don't think John and I could have the incredibly good relationship we have if we played any sort of games with each other's feelings. We both give it our all, and hold back nothing...
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
2 Mar 10
Hi Teacher, this words, with negotiation in a love relation come in my mind, when i read a story about 2 people who was in love, and one give more, one less...and who give less know to negotiated better...is like a trade right? And i am sorry to say are so many situations, when one know better to negotiate, in all, even in love
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@cobrateacher (8432)
• United States
2 Mar 10
I know a lot of people are in situations such as that. It just wouldn't work for us!
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@besthope44 (12123)
• India
15 Aug 10
Love is a pure and true feeling which gives life a beautiful meaning and i would do anything at all for my love
@youzizhile (67)
• China
14 Mar 10
in the true love,in the equal realationships between lovers,treat each other like youself,love each as love youself.when something wrong happened,both of you should understand each other and think about it in the opposite part and a newer and better way to solve the problem will be out !
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
3 Mar 10
i think when two people are truly loving each other, it doesn't really matter to who is loving more of to who is loving the least as long as they see themselves growing to become a better person. if two persons chose to treat their romantic relationship as a negotiation then that's there choice.
@faridmadeabillion (1127)
• Bangladesh
3 Mar 10
Hey friend. Love is the outcome of a spontaneous passionate feeling, not negotiation. Love turn out to be successful through generousity, patience and sacrifice without the least hope of any return leading to a positive result. If you are calculating about how much you're giving and how much you're receiving, then it's not real love, selfishness. When you're in love, none has to tell you what to do, it all happens automatically. When a man and a woman fall in love with each other, each of them is ready to sacrifice himself/herself for the partner. There's no chance of any negotiation here.
Have a loving day.
@mhaibless (210)
• United States
15 Mar 10
There is no pattern in love. When you love, don't hold back. If you are holding back it simply means you are not ready to fall in love. Love has so many definition. It doesn't mean who loves more or who loves less. Love is about growing together as a person. Its a natural feelings of a couple. Growing that love doesn't involved a negotiation at all. Making it grow is to go out together and let your souls find out about each other. This is commonly known as dating.
