falling in love with the person you never met. is this normal?

Can we call this a relationship, I mean how can your friend go on without wondering if the guy in the pictures even exists, I understand they never had the chance of seeing eachother on cam, and never met...why??? Do they live so far apart? I mean after some time if you start feeling something for a guy you've never seen (which is weird) don't you want to meet him? why did she never ask? I honestly think your friends is just wasting her time and love on someone that maybe doesn't even exist or maybe it's making fun of her.

I think you can love someone you have never met but only a superficial level. You can establish a connection via online chats but how real is it? You know how this person responds to you but you don't know what they're like with other people. It's a two-dimensional relationship, rather than three-dimensional. I've read about some people who have met on the internet and have then met and married - so it can work. Others, though, have met the person and realised in reality they are not the same person they were projecting online, or there was no physical chemistry between the two.

I guess my first question would be why haven't they met in five years? I mean, five years is a long time - I understand they maybe live in different countries or whatever but I would have thought something could have been worked out in five years. Particularly as she thinks she is in love with him. I don't think what she is doing is particularly abnormal as romantic relationships online are pretty commonplace nowadays. I'm very cynical about it all but I know there are some real-life happy endings that start as online relationships. To me the abnormal part is not having actually met yet - or even seen him via webcam for goodness sakes! How does she even know he really exists?

Hi! It's been a normal thing nowadays. Actually I am experiencing it right now. I have fallen in love with this girl I've met in the internet. Through her pictures and our conversations, I suddenly fell in love with her. We do communicate everyday by sending messages. She's so nice and very pretty. I really like her so much and she is very special to me now. Well, our story still cannot be considered successful, since we are still on the process. But I really hope and pray that she's already the right one for me. Wish me luck! Happy myLotting!

Well.. you know what they say about love being blind and devoid of any sense whatsoever..

Myself, I can find people interesting and feel a bond, but romance! I have to see his movements, smile, feel him, see his expressions, see him around others, see if he's liked or disliked, how he feels about others, if he's kind to others. I have to see it all.

It isn't very uncommon- the internet relationships... And some of them have been successful too... One should make sure that he/she is not getting involved too much until a real meeting takes place... Because a deep emotional attachment before a real meeting can lead to frustration if things go wrong... So be careful about that... That's how I think!

Falling in love is the most easy and stupid thing that can happens to everyone....and falling in love while chatting on Internet is real nonsense love. This all happens because our physical growth is much faster than our intellectual growth. To tell you the truth, we really get mature when we come to the age somewhere near 35 -40. By this age we get ditched several times in love and finally get brains to understand what is love. I will tell you from my personal experience, I use to chat with a guy, we become so friendly that we though we could not stay without each other. so finally we did meet each other, spent some time together and returned back to our original countries. After that automatically, the interest became less and we start to skip chats and then less mails and finally today we are like strangers and it does not even hurt us....infact it makes us laugh to think how crazy we had been!!!!!...so you see, falling in love is very easy, but to understand if it was really love, takes long time...sometimes even whole life.....

i think this is normal. getting in love even with the person you never met personally could not be considered abnormal. so i guess it is just normal. but i think true love will only be perfect after the first meeting. sometimes a girl would say she is in love with a guy she only met through chatting. but when they meet in person, it changes her feelings. but still, i say, it is normal for anyone to fall in love.

Its possible, its now common nowadays to felt in loved with person you never met, it make sense when you're talking with him /her spent sometimes with him in chat.Its more likely in person, the only difference is his physical presence,feeling is mutual not care of distance nor time differences if you fall inlove nothing is more important than his/her sincerity by making your relationship works even how far you are from each other. At first when there is no means of communication like online, its just like falli' inlove in a letter means wayback few years before internet has been materialize i had witnessed a lot of successful relationship happened through love letters,how much more with online relationship that there is webcam a headset a conference means of communication,will it be more possible to fall inlove with someone you never met? Happy myLotting!

Fall in love through internet or by any means could not justify if it is true love. Means could not always justify the end.It may be called feeling of friendship at the beginning then suddenly infatuation and love and later develop in a strong attachment as true lover in both. It depends sometimes fancy dream of being a lover turn into reality mating each other,Never mind who or what you are, you can see only what is in front and never what is beyond that is called addiction love.You missed him/her always.dreaming every minute,picture hang around in your memory and in your pillow. But relationship that does not build up in strong foundation personally will not last long,it is like castle in the sand.Love should be matured, caring,understanding,respect,kind ,gentle and with forgiveness. Then it will take time to know more each other emotionally,and personally since individual changes everyday of their life. Be observant.

its possible. the world is changing so fast. now, internet dominates almost everything. its the best way to get connected anywhere in the world. well, i think internet relationships are possible but not often successful. i dont wanna judge but most of the stories ive heard about falling in love with the person whom you met over the net are merely infatuations. its the quickest way to find someone you can talk with everyday. its like a quick escape and stress absorber after long hours of shift at work or school. for me, falling in love with someone i never met is like gambling my heart. no assurance if ill win or what. well i never tried. ill comment on this post again when i experience one :) lets spread love and make this a better world! keep safe

in the past it is quite impossible but nowadays when the internet has developed very very fast it makes this things to be possible ,what more you just need a computer with a headphone and a webcam you can talk to each other whole day long .i have been using internet for long time so i also meet a lot new friends from here and also meet my old friends ,internet makes people connecting to each other easier .

Love is not like friendship it is sparking thing it will come at any moment we cannot tell its not a true love,its just one amazing feeling .we can't tell in the words, we must feel that.You can also feel we you seeing some people

I actually met my boyfriend online through a mutual friend. We had webcam chats and talked on the phone constantly. I fell in love with him before he was able to come out to see me. We met in person a week after we expressed our feelings for each other, but I think it is possible to love someone before you meet them because love have a lot to do with the connection and attraction to not just looks but personality.

It maybe possible. You know love move in mysterious ways. We don't choose who to love and we don't know when. If you fall in love then that's normal. Just a reminder: Please try to think if it's really love. You might think it is but sometimes it's just infatuation or lust.