woman dressing up for the 'visual' of man ??

Malaysia
March 11, 2010 9:10am CST
well i was watching a speech by someone today and he said it is a shame as woman are now dressing up as what the man wants to see ... He made me wonder if his words were right somehow .. does a woman really need to wear something that shows her navel ?? does a woman really need to wear that tight short skirt ?? does a woman really need to wear those miserable make-up ?? oh i almost left out ... panty hose ... how much money i have to spend on them .. How many of those woman really dress up for comfort now days ... i wonder, we are required to put on those 'decorative' make up when going to work.. so could it be tru ... woman are dressing up for the 'visual' of man ?? cheers
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
21 Mar 10
Hi Sweet I hope you are ok Some Women do dress up for the visual of Men yes but others have the attitude to wear what they want to wear and no one will put her of it I do wear Make up most Days but only Natural colours and a bit as there is no need for strong Make up I wear clothes that I am comfortable in and I wear them for me and not for others
• Philippines
20 Mar 10
I dress up with clothes that are comfortable.I don't dress to attract men.I dress for myself.I see my clothes as expression of myself.I cannot wear clothes deemed sexy by men.men loves short skirts,belly baring and low cut tops exposing the cleavage.I am not comfortable with those clothes.
• United Arab Emirates
12 Mar 10
If a man and woman have been in bed then why not
@mr_pearl (5037)
• India
12 Mar 10
A human being always wants to be 'appreciated', 'craved for' and 'liked by' all... There is no exception to this golden rule, trust me! Every woman wants to be appreciated by men (if she's lesbian, then it'll be women). Every woman wants to be talked about her beauty and other attractive traits. Of course, dressing style is one of those traits which are considered while determining how beautiful a lady is! So, women do all they can to look gorgeous, attractive and beautiful... Some women use short-cuts and foul ways, but the basic desire is the same: 'To be appreciated...' and 'to be craved for!'... Have fun!
@1anurag1 (3580)
• India
12 Mar 10
I think that is only the matter of how you think. yes some what they are correct. but there is a psychology behind this. what about those children who does not know all these things what we know. i think they know that they are looking good and attractive. i dont think if a man stare at navel of a woman she likes it. so how can any body says this. man do this also they manage them selves in a way so that they could look good. but for all and even for woman also. i think if we think in this scenario only our thoughts deepness will be vanished
• United States
12 Mar 10
I can't help but saying. . . any woman that puts that much of herself in to pleasing a man is loosing her identity. That is as much as admitting that you are flesh without a mind. Personally, it should be the other way around. Like years ago where having a good woman was a blessing and you went out of your way to impress her not the other way around. This kind of behavior says I am nothing unless I look good. I am not saying that you should not be clean and appropriately dressed but do it for yourself not the guy. You will be mentally and emotionally happier with yourself.
@Lakota12 (42684)
• United States
12 Mar 10
I dont know I always dress in what I felt comfortable in . Only ever put on makeup when I wanted too.also my hubby liked the way I looked thats really all that mattered adn I still dress the way I want. now he is gone.
• Indonesia
11 Mar 10
No one wants to admit they are undergoing surgery because they care so much about what others think, right? However, I doubt women go under the knife (or the Botox needle) to impress their husbands, boyfriends, or even men in general. What are the situations in which women expend the most effort to "dress up"? It might be for the boyfriend or husband to some much smaller extent, but the major motivation is feminine competition, plain and simple.
@khalida (1130)
• India
11 Mar 10
hello sanjana, i think women over years take up their dressing up as something which has become a sole part of themselves. they probably don't have the intention of getting men's attention and are just dressing up for their own sake, to look and feel good :) i know few girls who dress up the way they are comfortable in even if they look like crap. those are secure, confident girls. may be wives dress up to please their husbands but that is of course cause they love them and don't wanna go astray ;)
• India
11 Mar 10
Yes it is true my friend. women always take look on men before doing anything in there life
• United States
11 Mar 10
i dress for me..if it so happens they like what i have on,great. never liked navel shirts honestly..it's too cold up here most of the time for big displays of flesh even if i had it in mind.
@zandi458 (27952)
• Malaysia
11 Mar 10
I am a classy dresser and believe that all women should be well dressed including a little make-up so they won't look so pale like a walking corpse. But of course I don't dress to kill but dress up appropriately and conservatively. Why should we dress up to benefit the eyes of men? I like beauty and comfort and it is in my priority list to choose comfort and not pleasing the roving eyes of men.