What if you find your boyfriend with another girl in your bedroom?

Philippines
March 13, 2010 5:06pm CST
A close friend of mine who is three months pregnant lives with her boyfriend for 8 months now. Her boyfriend thought that she went home to stay one day with her parents. Being alone in the middle of the night, she went to nearby room- her friend's room to sleep with. At dawn she went back to their own room and found that her BF was making love to another girl. She called her BF out, slapped on face and said "Bye, we're off."
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12 responses
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
25 Nov 10
This all depends on what the boyfriend and girl are doing in the bedroom. it could be something perfectly innocent and will be blown out of control through misunderstanding. if there is no misunderstanding and the boyfriend is cheating., trust just went out of the window of the relationship. when this happens, it can be hard to reconnect if ever again. If the reasons for the girl in your bedroom don't seem true or right to you, it might just be time to close the door on this boyfriend.
@Xansus (950)
• Bulgaria
25 Nov 10
I don't know how people misunderstanding " was making love to another girl " :(
• United States
13 Mar 10
If I know the girl that is with the boyfriend I will beat her till the police get there. The guy would get one good kick in the center of his body. I would then leave them alone.
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
Ooops but she can't be too physical coz she's pregnant. She might lose the baby because of some losers. :(
@chuyins123 (2118)
• Philippines
27 Nov 10
I am a guy, but I don't sleep with other girls. Just my girlfriend, I feel obligated to restrain my self with pleasures that would hurt her. But with your friends experience, we can say that what your friend did was a humane and normal human reactions, because if in my case I found my girl sleeping with other guys, i might just slay them both, I can't stand such cheating... But then, if I can control myself, I might just leave them, for me not to ruin my life... it's not my loss. hahaha :D
@besthope44 (12146)
• India
29 Aug 10
Love is a great feeling which has to be expressed. If you find it true, never fail to convey, thats a tribute to the love in real.Yes am in true love and its a feeling of happiness life long.
• Japan
23 Mar 10
if me i won`t say anything anymore just look at him and let him do what he want if the rest my house sure they have to leave and i ll throw the bed out clean all thing and live a lone without him if the rest his house i just move out won`t look back finish.or may be one slap for cheating at me one kick for using my bed or may be more:)
@rajaiv0810 (1013)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
If I can still grab a camera I would definitely take their video and post it over the internet and print some photos and post it in the walls of our whole city. I will make sure that all people living in our city would find these videos and photos. Let's see if they'll be proud of what they have done. I won't bother them anymore but maybe my they'll stop too if they'd hear some kinda explosion outside when his car would crash. hahaha. Or at least his windshield. I've done that before when I found out that my ex was having an affair with my "so called" friend. He went crazy to see his car windows crashed and his tires were all slashed. You've just reminded me with the look on his face at that time. I just said "Don't mess with me. See you around."
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
Oh, man. That's so disrespectful. I don't know what to do at first. But I have to let go. So I'm breaking up with that guy and I'll slap his face too, and the girl too. I'll be really mad.
@avani26 (1521)
• India
20 Mar 10
Your friend is really great. I would have really killed him such people do not deserve to live in this world. How can they even think of cheating the woman who is bearing their child. People like him should be punished in public.
• Canada
18 Mar 10
I dont think Id accept that. I would give him a chnace to maybe try to explain himself but that wont hold all that much in my mind. Im unsure of the amount of drama Id incorporate in my leaving - its a in-the-moment thing. Thats not a boyfriend thats worth her time and Im happy and proud that she walked out like she did! :) Good for her.
@maximax8 (27048)
16 Mar 10
If I was in her situation I would get a jug of water and throw it over the girl and call my boyfriend a horrible person. I would throw him out and carry on living in the house. I would keep my baby. I feel very sorry for your friend. I hope that she and her baby will be safe. Her ex-boyfriend was a cheating so and so. I don't blame her for slapping his face and saying good bye to him.
@hanah87 (1846)
• Malaysia
15 Mar 10
Hi! Like what your friend done to her boyfriend, that is what i would done too. Of course I would leave him and say bye-bye to him because the thing he do where he sleep or cheat me with making love with other girl is cannot be accept. I believe if any girl do not leave their boyfriend who cheat them, her boyfriend will do the same thing many time again.
@soulist (2987)
• United States
15 Mar 10
his butt wuld be on the curb. That is one thing I would not put up with and he would have a fun time cause I would make such a scene and let everyone around know that he was cheating on his pregnant girlfriend and what not. Embarass the heck out of him.