Moving a Step Forward in Life

@neildc (17239)
Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
March 19, 2010 1:04am CST
About a year ago, I have posted "A Gold Medal for my pre-schooler" which can be read at http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1952768.aspx On Tuesday, our 6-year old Patrick again received awards like last years Recognition Day. This time, he is graduating and will go to formal schooling by June, now a grade schooler. He again bagged the Most Outstanding Award and Best in Reading. This time, he also received the Loyalty award and the Best in Discipline. Are you a proud parent like me with children like my Patrick? Do you have a child going to another stage of their lives, like from high school to college? Or from studies to working or job hunting? Are you excited to see you child moving a step forward after one stage in life?
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 Mar 10
I'm a proud parent. Dearra is moving to High School next year and I'm a little nervous because she's had such a rough year this year. Hope next year will go better for her!
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
20 Mar 10
So fast... moving to High School already..awesome.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
20 Mar 10
just like my Trisha who is moving high school next year too. she will graduate in elementary this month also. this girl is not a good as Patrick but hope she will also go better for her in high school zed, time is really moving fast. you cannot even feel they are growing up.
• Boston, Massachusetts
20 Mar 10
Hi Neil, same here. i am always happy and proud seeing my kids moving forward. next week will be their recognition day and my two special kids will be receiving awards too. it's worth our hardwork to earn some more to provide for all their needs right? and of course let's not forget to provide quality time to our kids despite our busy schedules.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
21 Mar 10
yes, that's right, we parents always get happy and proud when we see our kids stepping up and moving forward. it's an exciting feeling to see their works recognized. and of course, the hard work we always been doing to provide for them really tells it's worth it and heart-warming. congratulations to your kids also, in their recognition next week.
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
22 Mar 10
what's the age of your youngest son who will receive the recognition? he could be like our 3 year old. even at age 2, he knows how to tell what he needs and what he wants. though some times, you can't really avoid being high-blood because of hyper-activity.
• Boston, Massachusetts
21 Mar 10
my youngest son is so excited about their recognition. he requested us to take him to the barber shop and his dad brough him there and had his hair cut. he's so smart that he can assert what he wants and what will make hime feel good. i am happy that they are growing up as good persons.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
19 Mar 10
always did with my kids ya have to be very proud! Have a grndson across town that has got so many awards I cant name them all. Congrats to your son!
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
19 Mar 10
your welcome and I aint raiseing him his dad and mom does keep him up and passed his grade in the books they have on the market. cant take that on me now my grand daughter that lives with me I can take helping her as much as I can. along with mommy we get all kind of educational toys for her and books and her tv is alot of education to.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
19 Mar 10
thanks lakota. your grandson seems so brilliant and intelligent child too. your raised him well.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
19 Mar 10
but at least you are the proud grandmother.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
19 Mar 10
CONGRAULATIOS TO PATRICK & to you & your wife for raising such a fine young man. I know y'all are soo proud of him. My sons are grown w/kids of their own. My grandson will start kindergarten next new school term. I hope he's as smart & good as patrick.Y'all all have a nice weekend & give patrick a big hug for doing so well.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
19 Mar 10
thanks my friend... yeah, i hope so too, he will be as smart as mine or much more... our little angel, zyruz is already 3 years old next month and we thought of sending him to the same center this coming june. but the teacher said, it's not time for him though she said, if the child shows a great eagerness, then why not. we also hope he can get the same brilliance and intelligence from his kuya patrick...
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
19 Mar 10
i believe in that, there are no 2 persons alike. but then i hope he will be a good boy if not better than his older brother. yeah, kids grow up so quickly.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
19 Mar 10
There are no 2 children alike but i'm sureZuruz will be just as smaert as his brother. Let him stay a little boy as long as he can.THEY GROW UP way too quick.
@quita88 (3715)
• United States
19 Mar 10
Well, my only son just turned 43 :) but his three boys are great ball players. does that count??? quita
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
20 Mar 10
that's really great to hear quita.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
19 Mar 10
well, why not quita. being great in ball games is also an achievement. and it is another a step forward from being a simple kid to a great ball player.
@quita88 (3715)
• United States
19 Mar 10
Well, I most certainly agree !! My grandsons are aiming for the minors and then the majors. They will be great ball players and go in our history to that fact. My son will make sure of that LOL Besides there are scholarships for ball playing. hugs.
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
my eldest will be throguh grade 1 this april. Although, he will not get honors i'm still proud that he will be on grade 2 this class opening. I don't want to put pressure on him. he may not be on top of his class but i know he is trying his best withing his capability. He has a long way to go and i will be just the supporting father at his side.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
19 Mar 10
good for him. actually, we never put pressure on his studies, although with these awards, he will probably be self pressured. if you just can see him how he is at home, less play and more books. i can't tell everything about him, maybe i just can't write it. he is one kid i saw that loves to read more and learn than play.
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
You're lucky to have such a kid. Mine is just the typical child who wants to play so i let him be. My second child is the one that looks more promising. He is exactly the opposite of his big brother. He is some one who thinks beyond his age. But we'll see, they're still in their molding process so i can only guide, watch and enjoy.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
19 Mar 10
well, that is the reason for us parents, to guide them. we cannot always tell them what they should do and that's it, but we still have to be on their sides always to make sure that what they should be doing is the right one. actually, i also have a child that is far from Patrick, his older sister. ow, i thought they will be the same but she's the one who is low and slow learner. she is also graduating this month on grade school. and i told her, life is different in high school, so she better improve. no more happy go lucky.
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
20 Mar 10
Neil, you must be a really proud and happy father.. to see your son growing and moving a step forward in life each time. That's an awesome feeling.. and I hope I'll be able to feel like an awesome parent someday.
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
26 Mar 10
Thank you, bro.. I hope I'm able to, someday..
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
21 Mar 10
there is no one but the parents that will always be so glad to see their children step up. soon, you will experience the same feelings as i am feeling right now.
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@celticeagle (159709)
• Boise, Idaho
19 Mar 10
We had our awards assembly several months back. My grandson is in the first grade. He didn't get 'best' of anything but he get most improved and most helpful and things like that. I am very proud of him and I think when he gets the hang of grade school he will do just fine. He doesn't have to 'best'.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
19 Mar 10
congratulations to your grandson too. of course, we have to be proud of our children even without awards received on their graduation day. but then, it's a different feeling for parents if they get recognized.
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@celticeagle (159709)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Mar 10
Thanks. It is certainly nice to be recognized.
19 Mar 10
Hi Neil, Gosh! you must be so proud of your little Patick, I know I would be if he was my child, so clever, I have no children but I would be sure proud too, congrats to your son and your family, hugs. Tamara
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
19 Mar 10
thanks tamara. you will really feel the same if you are in my shoe. thanks. hugs to you too, dear friend.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
21 Mar 10
Of Course! My eight year old daughter does ballroom dancing and she has received several trophies and medals when she passed exams and I feel so proud each and every time that I want to jump out of my skin! There are other children that have earned the similar awards of course but in my eyes she is the only one in the world that has achieved! (LOL) I am the same if she receives a merit certificate at school etc. I guess you could say I am just a normal proud mother! By the way, congratulations Patrick!
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
22 Mar 10
thanks. and yes paula, we are just normal parents who will always be proud of our children, whatever comes to their lives. how much more when they are being recognized.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
24 Mar 10
of course I would be very proud if they have a smart kid and the best of friends. every person would want his son have an advantage. I am very pleased with all my child's development. I've spent my child's development, and I am very sorry. now I want to always follow all of my child's development. I want to make my child's achievement.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
24 Mar 10
it is never too late, i guess, indahfth. i think you can still do it with your child.
• United States
20 Mar 10
With me, it was when my child learned to tie her shoes. She was only twenty-one years old and after practicing all her life, she finally learned how to do it! We called everyone in both families to let them know of her wonderful accomplishment. She didn't receive a ribbon or certificate, but she learned something she can use every day. Our daughter was born with Down's syndrome and every accomplishment from rolling over to walking to this fabulous deed has been blessing after blessing.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
21 Mar 10
we also have a special child who have down's syndrome. he is already 19 now. he went to school until 17 but was ashamed to go back because he said, he was already old for his classmates in 4th grade. but we are also happy that even he is special, he came to be more productive in the house. he is the usual helper of his mother with the house chores. glad to hear that your daughter is learning too. i hope she will get better.
@doryvien (2284)
• United States
21 Mar 10
Hi Neil, Congratulations to your son, and to you, indeed a proud father. And who won't be, with your child bagging awards left and right, you have every reason to be a happy and celebrate.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
21 Mar 10
thanks a lot doryvien. yeah, what else can we ask for? we have all the reasons to be proud of him.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
hello neil, I missed so many topics from friends...been too busy this month nah(ugh...so sad) Anyway...CONGRATULATIONS TO PATRICK...and of course to You and your wife,for having a bright son like Patrick. My eldest and only daughter will be graduating this coming March 31 and i am also a proud mom. Seeing my daughter finish her second stage of education made me a proud mom...thu this time she's did not make it to the top..it's ok,competition is too tough. I am very proud still becoz,she made one of the top , topnoch with the NCEA(national career assessment exam) and,she also passed the scholarship exam for college.(what more can i asks for?) Again...CONGRATULATIONS TO PATRICK...
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
21 Mar 10
wow, what a coincidence. my daughter is also graduating this 30th. though she is not like Patrick, we are still happy that she will be moving forward to high school next school year. congratulations too, to your daughter. so everyone is PROUD with our kids these days.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
19 Mar 10
You must be a proud father to have a brilliant and promising child. Looks like he will be a child to watch out as he has the capabilities to excel in future. That is the early start to show that there is more in him. I was once there enjoying every success that my son went through from the early years of his school life. He is an intelligent boy and as early as his kinder years he has become an emcee during his graduation day at his raw age of 6 years to the applause of few hundreds parents and teachers witnessing the graduation. He performed very well as an emcee and his teacher was very proud of him. Now he is 28 years old and is a successful geo-physist working in an international company. He is never a problem to me from the start as he excel both academically and socially. As parents we are always proud of our children when they performed well in life.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
19 Mar 10
well that is right zandi, we parents are always proud to see them excel in life. and who will dream of nothing good for the kids, only parents. and we only have to guide them and give them their needs. that's why, i keep on working, for them. your son seems to be very successful now. and at age 6, he emceed their graduation? so brilliant and really intelligent child he was.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
So you are again a proud father to Patrick! Congratulations! I know parents are the happiest whenever their children accomplished great things. It is nice to see them receiving awards and recognition. It compensates the hard-earned money we pay for their schooling. Well at least I am done with that. I have only one son and he has already graduated and now working. I was also a proud mother during recognition days way back then. He gathered lots of medals and awards from kindergarten till college. I hope your son continue the good job till college too.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
19 Mar 10
yeah, proud father again, salonga. thanks... well, i can't see no other person being proud and happy when their children have these kinds of accomplishments. good that he is already done schooling and already working, good for you too... well, i really hope, he will continue to be good until college. thanks again.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
19 Mar 10
It's wonderful to be proud of your child for what he can do but make sure that he know you love him no matter what happens. Children often put way to much pressure on themselves to be the best. We all know we cannot be the best at everything and a child who is outstanding in most things can be layed low by the things he is not so good at.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
19 Mar 10
one thing i already thought of about is the pressure, self posted pressure. but i will not let it happen to him. i understand that. and thanks for that concern and nice comment.
• India
19 Mar 10
Moving a step,forward,is the best thing to do as we are in this life if due to some reasons it stops,then we should move forward!
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
19 Mar 10
that's right, no stepping back.