secret admirers
By jd107nette
@jd107nette (1454)
Philippines
March 22, 2010 10:15am CST
How would you know if your friend secretly loves you? or infatuated to you? I have a friend of mine who is dense or maybe a little too slow in terms of things like love and crush, she's always been in good terms with a group of boys more than those of the girls and she's really close to his guy friends. when one day her So long love confessed to her and they came together. then one of his guy friends who is really giving her his attention knew that she's in a relationship he now tends to avoid her, is he her secret admirer? how would you easily know when someone likes you?
8 responses
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
i ve never had one of those admirers but i did have a crush on someone back in highschool. but she never knew about it. lol. i think he has a thing for your friend regarding the way you described his reaction. if didn t know any better, i d say that it s jealousy he was showing.
@jd107nette (1454)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
haha... i think so too... just hopefully he learns how to deal with it. after all, my friend became his friend's girl... they would be interacting every now and then... your response is appreciated.. ^_^
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
It's too hard assuming that one loves you because people tend to show positive impression to other people for them to be accepted in the society or to a group of individuals. I don't that it's a secret admirer not unless he gives anonymous letters or stuffs to your friend. There are people who chose to remain quiet about their true emotions for certain reasons.
@jd107nette (1454)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
i agree.. the guy might be simply being respectful to his buddy's girl... thanks for sharing
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
1 Apr 10
Well, yes i have seen many at my college days. There are few who always be a secret admirers and when they find that she/he in love with someone else, they cannot tolerate and they wish to stay away from them to hide the pain. Rather i can say the infatuated and little possesive so they wish to walk out or stay away.
@frissph (130)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
If a friend secretly loves you then some tell tale signs can be seen in their actions. I have experienced that before and I'm pretty sure I was able to hide it very well so in that case the only way you can no if they are a secret admirer or not is if they come out in the open.
People vary in personalities enough that what works for most might not apply to that particular friend who you think is a secret admirer. What's best is that you don't pre-empt the guy and let him confess if not to the admired person, to someone else so that you can verify if that is the case.
Others are pretty obvious though and like dropping hints "teasingly" that they like the person but i've known people who are just flirty and don't really care much for that person they're teasing.
@garychie (157)
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
He surely is her secret admirer...so sad for the guy though because he didn't tell her he has feelings for her
how would you easily know when someone likes you? my answer to this question is if you catch your guy friend staring at you and bow head quick when caught staring
