Is it wrong to be very loyal and very faithful to your partner?

@markmoney (2868)
Philippines
April 2, 2010 10:33am CST
Do you think being very loyal and very faithful to your partner is wrong? Being loyal and faithful to your partner means you are focusing all your time and priorities to him/her. He/she is the one whom you always see. You like to know and be aware of what he/she is doing. The percentage of you being tempted is zero. The percentage of having a third party is zero. You are avoiding and rejecting temptations. You love your partner 100% and he/she is your only one. Do you think this is wrong? Do you think we still need to open our minds and hearts to other things and other people? Do you think we should not focus our attention on him/her? What are your thoughts about this? Is it wrong to be very loyal and faithful to your partner? I would be glad to hear from you. Happy myLotting!
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12 responses
@saphrina (31744)
• South Africa
2 Apr 10
I am not going to say that it is wrong, but all your attention is a bit much. You have a life, live it. All that is important is your love, no need for 100% attention. TATA.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
Hi saph! So do you think I should reduce the attention that I am giving her? I don't think she will like that, but I will still consider your suggestion. Well, thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@saphrina (31744)
• South Africa
2 Apr 10
Sweetie, to love someone the way you do, is special. Just give it time and then you turn open that little attention taps. Okay. TATA.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
Thank's for the compliment saph. We used to be ok but it's just so unfortunate that sometimes little things caused us a problem and shaken us. Well, I hope we'll be ok.
@SomeCowgirl (32277)
• United States
2 Apr 10
I do not think under any circumstances that it is wrong to very loyal and very faithful to my husband. I love him with all of my heart and soul and in no way would I ever want to make him doubt that. Love is not a toy, it is not trash, it is pure and simple, it is amazing, and it is for and with one person. My husband is that person for me, always has been and always will be.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
Hi cowgirl! I appreciate your immediate response. It's good to know how faithful you are to your partner, actually I am the same like you, I really tend to be loyal and faithful to my partner. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@SomeCowgirl (32277)
• United States
2 Apr 10
I think it's the only way to be, faithful that is.
@qamarep (4453)
• Pakistan
2 Apr 10
no it is not wrong to be very faith ful for her because thats human system.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
Yes, I also believe that there's nothing wrong to be very faithful instead we should be proud of it. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
• Philippines
18 Sep 10
Being loyal and faithful to your partner can never be wrong because these are time-tested values which are still very positive in the perception of people. What sometimes complicate this is when you want to be loyal but no longer faithful.
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
It is never wrong to be loyal and faithful, that is good in every relationship. The disadvantage is being too much in this area. If you love her, you only think about her and take care of her, what about yourself? If she have problems you try to help her, what about your problems. If for whole day you only think of her what about your life. Do not let yourself always focused on her, it is just normal to always think of her because you are inlove, but you also have life to live with. And it is good also to know if she is loyal and faithful to you too. you have to know it because it is unfair if you are the only one doing it. Anyhow, there are people who is more okay loving someone without even being loved in return.
@neildc (16907)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
as you have said it, how can being very loyal and faithful to your partner would be wrong? being always at your side. and because you love him/her so much would only mean that it is good. of course, being so possessive is one that i can say is not good. and also being so jealous.
@paula27661 (15900)
• Australia
5 Apr 10
In my opinion although it is a positive thing to be one per cent committed and loyal to your partner, I don’t think it is worth losing yourself completely to another person. You can love and accept your partner for who she is and certainly take an interest in her life but I don’t feel it’s healthy to exclude everything and everybody else. I believe one should have one’s life and a partner should enhance it not take it over to exclude all else.
@dorannmwin (36610)
• United States
4 Apr 10
I definitely don't think that there is anything wrong with being 100 percent faithful to your partner. Our society views monogamy as the norm and I think that if you want your relationship to last then that is the way that you need to go. However, I don't think that it is necessary to stay out of situations of temptations. Being able to overcome the temptations that we face in our lives means that we are making our relationship with our partner stronger.
@erikmama (12935)
• United States
4 Apr 10
I do not think being loyal and faithful to your partner means you are giving all of your time and priorities to them. Being faithful means just that, not messing with other people, and being loyal means you would not turn on them or do them wrong. No,there is nothing in the world wrong with that.I acrtually thought that is what you are [i][/i]suppose to do for your partner. Nooone should let another person become their life in such as way you have described. We are all individuals and should not become so intertwined with someone that we can not function.
@sender621 (14970)
• United States
3 Apr 10
I don't believe it would ever be wrong to be faithful and loyal to a partner. It is how we should treat esch other. Don't see loyalty and faithfulness as any sign of weakness. It is the grestest stength we have.
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
well, I think you should resist temptation but you should really never focus all your energy to your partner. I mean, you still have to take care of yourself, have a "me" time, and have time with friends, and by friends I mean people other than your partner. LOL. I think it's still healthy to have other relationships, just make sure that it's just friendship, and you know where to draw the line.
@p3ks626 (6552)
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
What and who gave you the idea that its wrong to be loyal and faithful. I think the answer to that question is quite obvious that its a good thing if you are doing that if you are in a relationship. For me, its a very good foundation to have if you are in a relationship. Why would you want to be only 50 percent loyal or faithful. Would you want your partner to do the same thing to you? Of course not! If you want to be in a relationship then its rightful to be loyal, cause if you dont want to then better not be in it.