do you surprised when your ex asked you to come back?....

Japan
April 5, 2010 12:21am CST
I was think must be something special on me about why he asked me to come back to him after we brook up,or may be he not happy with his new girlfriend and still think that i am better then her,or he might think that i was the one he need and no one can`t take my place after all...well any reasons must be in his head...but i might feel really happy at one cause he asking me to back home even i am surely myself to say no way...so if you were me or just tell me how you feel if happen to you?...:)
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11 responses
@lindsiko (358)
• United States
5 Apr 10
My boyfriend broke up with me the first time after three years because he wanted a chance to date another girl. When he found out the other girl wasn't what he had wanted, he came back to me. I was stupid enough to think that it was because I was the only person he really needed. It turns out, he just didn't want to be alone. We dated for a few more months before he dropped me again for another girl. If I could go back, I wouldn't have let him weasel his way back into a relationship with me. I would have dropped him and moved on.
• Japan
5 Apr 10
good idea....teach him new lesson...your own lesson to let him know you can do the same thing:)
@laniekins (4585)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
That was a very bad boyfriend. urgghh. If it was me, i will get back to him as far as I can or maybe dating another man while we're together just to annoy him.
@kucluk (33)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 10
i got it once but doesnt work good. and we decided to brook up again, and now we are just friend. i guess everyone have a second change, but you must understand that maybe second change is not doing well. if both of you feel happy, can make it through just do it, but if doesnt dont shy to ending it wisely. good luck
• Japan
5 Apr 10
Think before do the thing is it:)
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
Yes I will be surprised, but sorry for her, I already found the right one and the best one for me and I'm happy and contented with my present relationship.
• Japan
5 Apr 10
good for you:)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
If it happens to me, I would surely be delighted; that if he was the one who broke up with me first. Oh, how I miss my first fling. LOL. He was my first. I wonder if he still remembers me.
• Japan
5 Apr 10
you better asked who knows he might :)
• China
5 Apr 10
Well, I didn't meet such a situation so far.But if my ex asked me to come back,I will feel pretty good maybe.But it's certainly that I never come back no matter how difficult in the front road.No reason for this,just my lifestyle.Hope you have a nice day here.
• Japan
5 Apr 10
yes every one have reasons itself in what will do... i just feel good myself if he asked that even if i won`t going back:)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
If i'm asked by my ex to come back with her i'd be surprised too. That's like the second time around and people say it's better.
• Japan
5 Apr 10
yes...and just decide what is right for you move out or back in:)
@palonghorn (5485)
• United States
5 Apr 10
Been through 3 divorces and then a live-in relationship for almost 4 years. I can say, that no, I wouldn't go back. For one, me and my ex's are just that ex's for a reason. I only stay in touch with my last ex-husband, we got along fine now, as well as his girlfriend and I get along. My most recent breakup, it was his idea, so unless he showed me that he really wanted me back by moving 1600 miles to where I am.....then no, and even then I'm not sure that I would even consider taking him back. I am fine on my own, I don't have to have a man in my life to be happy and enjoy life.
• Japan
5 Apr 10
if that is better for you i ll be happy too:)
• Vietnam
6 Apr 10
i don't no
@Devilova (5396)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 10
No,never get back with ex.When He brook me up, means He has a guilty to me.Maybe I can forgive Him for what He has done, but to received Him back seems impossible.How much I love someone will never pass my love my self.
@laniekins (4585)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
It is definitely up to you. If you still love him then go. Besides, that's all that really matter, if you still love each other provided that no one will suffer, I mean you both are cleared with your present relationship.
• United Arab Emirates
5 Apr 10
I think that he is trying to play with your life. If he left you for someone else then he can do the same thing to you again. Either he is trying to make his present jealous or he is a guy who does not have regard for anyone. I agree that relationships break, but my advise is never go back because it can never work and it will never be the way it started. Anyway good luck