Ways to make Ur partner the Most Important person by your words and actions.
By cloud31
@cloud31 (5809)
April 9, 2010 11:28pm CST
There are ways we can show and tell to let our partner feel that they were the most important person for us!!I just have 3 ways here,And I hope you can share yours to complete this topic.
First---Think that your mate is the most important person in the world --this should not be shows pretending convince yourself your attitude will come across loud and clear without even trying!Act as if were true and it will be true.
Second---Pay attention in everything he/she says and does---Compliment her/him choice, don't neglect her effort in what he/she has done for you.A token of appreciation will do.
Third---Always praise never criticize----Praise is the most tool you can use to feed a person's ego and make him/her important.Criticism destroy love and relationship.Praise creates energy and boost enthusiasm to feel proud of him/herself.
Now its your turn to give your ways how to make your partner feel his/her is the most important person in this world by what you say...
Hope to hear from you guys!! Good day everyone!
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30 responses
@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
10 Apr 10
Ij?
How to make your loved ones important?
1st. Show them that you care for them and support them every step that person takes
2nd. As you said give them compliments and tell them how good they are BUT you also should tell them that they are wrong if they did something wrong...
3rd. Being there and always being there for them. You may not talk much but the only thing that's important. You know in you hearts how much you mean with each other....
hmmmm.. I think that's it...
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
12 Apr 10
Well said! I would like to add mine, Understand your partner, her needs and expectations from you. Always share your problems with her/him and get their love and suggestions. Always a shoulder for her to lean on and love her the most like a mother and sometimes a baby for her.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
12 Apr 10
Understand him/her even when they dont find time for you, wait for them patiently!..just a thot..added here.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
10 Apr 10
Hi IJ, Thinking of the one you love the whole time will be a distraction. It is a nice thought though. Secondly, unconditional love and trust. Thirdly, compliments, up to a point, watch out for overdoing it. Fourthly, Praise can be good, but some will think that the other start gloating. Be carefull to use that one. And lastly, enjoy beign in love, that is what a relationship is about. The enjoyment of the company you have. TATA.
@bystander (2292)
• Philippines
10 Apr 10
i almost abandoned making a response to your discussion topic, my dear cloud. i have a book to read and i am running out of ideas to write about. regarding the "ways to make your partner the most important person by your words and actions," i think, there's only one, unconditional love. with that, everything else will follow. everything you say and do will fall along if you love your partner without preconditions.
@bystander (2292)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
you are always welcome, my dear cloud. thanks for the response.
@cloud31 (5809)
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11 Apr 10
Hello friend,
I appreciate your effort to stay longer for my topic,so nice of you..Your ideas never runs out as I know you have that bucket full of views that can make your loveone the most important person in this world.I know and I believe you are always the one who can make your loveone feels deserving to be your partner..
Thank you for your views and Happy myLotting!
@Pigeonrose (31)
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11 Apr 10
I like your blog, Cloud. You are very true in practical sense. We, especially women, are looking for these practical actions from our mates in everydays life. Even how much busy we are, or how much pressured we are, we should not forget and blame our partners for that. Yes, praise, compliments and appreciation are the greatest actions that we can give to our partners. Thanks, Cloud, for sharing with us this wonderful ideas of yours. Have a good day.
@mae_dyrish (237)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
The three you have mention is a package one and it really make sense and helpful to both couple. I want to add, say I love you everyday for him to remind that he is worth loving for.
@Pigeonrose (31)
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11 Apr 10
Bingo!!! "I love you" is the magic phrase in every relationships. Thanks for the reminder. I fogot to mention it maybe because I seldom heard it to myself.....lol. Happy myLotting.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Apr 10
hi cloud those are wondeful ways to make your partner the most important person in the world to you. and I always did praise my hubsand and had a responsive positive attitude towards him always.Praise, not criticism, and saying I love you each day,meaning it when you say it. and do not give false praise,it must be heartfelt and heart meant. Also develop your one saying only you and he know and use if often,it makes him proud of you and him, and its so neat. It was like a signal to me when he would say this, as I knew he meant lets split this joint or lets take a ride,it was a signal we used to each other that meant zilch to anyone else.
@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
10 Apr 10
First of all, I believe that if I want to treat my partner as the most important person to me, then I have to treat him with love and respect, and I can show this by being absolutely loyal to him in my thoughts and actions. Second, I will always be there for him when he needs me. Third, he will be my priority in life. Not even my job should come between us. It is important to work to survive, but if it will ever be a choice between keeping him or my job, I will definitely choose him.
@cloud31 (5809)
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12 Apr 10
Hi angelajoy,
Love and respect---I believe in that too,being loyal,be with him always,and make him your priority in life, and most of all give up everything for him..That's really a love of sacrifices and I think its well enough to show how important he is..
Thank you for sharing and Happy myLOtting!
@climber7565 (2579)
• United States
10 Apr 10
Hi Cloud, I love your post. I think I need to put that to practice and is so easy to remember. I feel my choices are similar but like this:
1- Be thoughtful and attentive to all little things your partner values./ communicate
2- Be honest and considerate of your partner's feelings/ Honest
3- Be faithful in body, thought and mind. / trust
@climber7565 (2579)
• United States
11 Apr 10
I won't loose faith and am hopeful this will always work and will bring me the right woman of my dreams to my life.
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
11 Apr 10
hi cloud,
in my humble opinion, first: we have to talk, to communicate and to do it a lot. a phone call to ask how each is doing, a smile, all say a lot. second: being together and being there for each other. doing things at home together and get everybody else to be involved no matter how light the job is. appreciate each other's presence. look out for the good things in each other and say good things about it. time for prayers. third: expect the unexpected. time to talk about mistakes, not to point fingers at but rather to find solutions and how some things could be improved. time to talk about school, work, aspirations, the environment, the world.
@cloud31 (5809)
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13 Apr 10
Hello tomi,
You have a very nice opinion on how to let your partner feel she is the most important person for you, I'm totally with you to all your actions and words to make believe yourself to the one you love.
Thank you foe the informative thoughts.
Nice day ahead tom..
@jinjer168 (1596)
• Philippines
10 Apr 10
Hello cloud! I think that i must think making him happy before thinking of my own hapiness. Love him for who he is and never try to make him the way you want him to be. Be happy and be contented with his efforts and not to ask for something beyond his limits. Cook his favorite foods, respond to his touch, never mind to kiss him even when he's dirty, never nag him, let him rest and sleep for as much as he wanted to, express that i love him whenever i feel to, laugh on his jokes, listen to his jokes, being there thru good and bad times, comfort him when his sick, be an aide when his broke and embrace all his shortcomings with all my heart. Those are few of the things im doing to show my love for my husband, he is not perfect same as with me but we,re both working to make our family intact and happy. Good luck!
@cloud31 (5809)
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12 Apr 10
Hi jinjer,
I love that,I use to have this as perception of showing how you love that person.Putting your happiness aside and prioritize his happiness,that's really nice,acceptance,as a whole there's no room for rejection,and pamper him with care.
Love with no limitations will make him the most important person in this world for you..
Thanks for sharing and Good day jin!
@kranthirockz (262)
• India
10 Apr 10
Plan a well thought out surprise. Spend some time planning a date, outdoor adventure or something different that you can do with partner. They will feel loved knowing that you took the time to be creative and organize something fun for the two of you. Say "Thank you." It's way too easy to forget, to say "thank you" in a relationship, particularly a longer one. Those two little words demonstrate appreciation for your partner's efforts - which will feel nice to them.
@prettyface1978 (69)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
Showing your partner that he/she is the most important person by words and actions is one of those ways to keep a relationship stronger.Even the smallest thing that he/she wherein he did effort to it should be appreciated. Showing appreciation to anything that your done is one way of showing to him that he is the most important person to you. Being sensitive to his/her needs and want are important. Like treating him/her to his favorite restaurant and serving him/her his/her favorite dish would be a great way of showing your partner that he is the most important person.In addition, remembering special occassions that are important to her/him and sharing your plans with him/her on what to do on that particular and showing to him that you are excited on that upcoming occassion.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
10 Apr 10
dear cloud,
i say, always be natural. your partner will feel if you are faking the attention you are giving him.
praises should be done with finesse. sometimes a partner tries to compliment but it turns out to be OA in a way.
always blurt out "i love you" when you feel it.. its wonderful to feel in some romantic moments.
send gifts every now and then even how small. saying goes that its the thought that counts, but of course you can send expensive ones when you can afford.
have a very "lovely" day.
ann
send gifts every now and then even how small. saying goes that its the thought that counts, but of course you can send expensive ones when you can afford.
have a very "lovely" day.
ann
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
10 Apr 10
For me tell i love you every day,don't too strict,not to mad.
@randylovesdar (4932)
• United States
10 Apr 10
You share a lot of great ideas, My husband and I do this everyday. It keeps our marriage going well. What my husband and I do is tell each other at least once a week what we love about each other and why we got married.
@lipstick2009 (1236)
• Philippines
10 Apr 10
I can't think of a better way to do it than what you have just mentioned in your discussion.
And for me, the best way is to do it sincerely and naturally.By this, we just do it everytime without being conscious of doing it at all.It becomes our ways and habits, all driven by love and respect.
(^_^)
@Bhemzky (423)
• Philippines
10 Apr 10
I think if you really want to make your partner feel that way, never say lies, be honest, build trust and make sure your partner will enjoy your company.
@Derek871228 (33)
• Australia
10 Apr 10
I think people need to show secret firstly. Your partner will believe that he/she is important,when they hear about your secrets and give some advises.just tell them whom you care.
