I love my gf

United States
April 12, 2010 9:36pm CST
I love my gf sooo much, but im not allowed to date..... we see each other at school but she is a grade higher. how do we stay in touch when i get in trouble for texting and calling?
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5 responses
• India
13 Apr 10
It's the first step of love what you have stated. So welcome to the dreamy world of love. But you haven't stated if you ever tried to make her know about your feelings for her. It's too important for someone to make his/her love realize somehow about the feelings in heart. How you would realize your girlfriend about your feelings totally depends on the likes/dislikes/character/and thoughts of hers. -Best of luck pal, have a nice day.
• United States
15 Apr 10
yeahh.. we talk about our feelings for each other. i make sure to show her how i feel pretty much every day. we both know we like each other.. a lot. we got really close as friends so we already cared for each other before the relationship. thanks for the advice :)
• India
17 Apr 10
Best of luck friend, my wishes are with you...
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
What matters here is how much is she willing to love you too. If she does love you, she will wait for you till the time it'll be okay for your parents that you have a girlfriend. Otherwise, she would just look for another. I for one am not for children or teenagers having relationships. It's rare to see a relationship by two teenagers than would lead to a good married life in the end. Most would just be too involved with each other, then suddenly it breaks off and leads the two kids in confusion and no longer focus in their studies. I know it's tempting to have a relationship then, but remember that it's all hormones acting out which is why you tend to look for someone. It's still not true, sad to say, but it doesn't mean you can' have it anyway. Just make sure that this relationship will not keep you from achieving your full potential and finishing school. Don't worry, if she does love you, she too will work hard to keep her scores high and finish school. Will even wait for you till the time you could save enough to marry her. If not, then she's just someone there to inspire you, but isn't the 'one' destined for you. Good luck. Don't attempt to break your parents' hearts though. They've done so much for you and all they ask is for you to finish school.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
Oh thank you for the best response mark! Truly appreciated!
@Shar19 (8231)
• United States
13 Apr 10
You don't state how old you are but I'm sure there is a good reason why you are not allowed to date. There will be plenty of time for that when you are older. Send her some notes in school to express how you feel for her.
• United States
15 Apr 10
im 16 and she is 4 months older than me.... ive only been in 2 other relationships before this, but shes been in a handful of them. but i mean we've talked about it, and we know we like each other... i wrote her a poem, she really liked it :) thank for the awesome responses everyone!
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
You are sixteen years old and your girlfriend is probably at eighteen years old. I just wonder why you can't text her and can't even call her. Maybe you can do chatting with her over the internet and still make the relationship work. Maybe you can send cards or letters to spice up the relationship. You are still young and maybe it's better if you give much more attention to your studies rather than your love life. You have to plan for your future and you need to be serious with your studies. If your girlfriend really loves you she can wait for you always.
@jazper26 (56)
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
in that situation you just have to enjoy the time when you are with your girl fiend in the school. because you cannot text and call her but it's more likely good than just to text or call. And if you can see each other at he school and texting or calling each other may the time will come that you won't like that the to of u is really keep in touch to each other.