A female with erudite, but 'just' be a housewife, what do you think?
By advokatku
@advokatku (4033)
Indonesia
April 14, 2010 11:32pm CST
A female with erudite, but 'just' be a housewife, for me, that's good because her child will have educators who have high degrees, not a good thing, if a child in foster and educating by the maid or babysitter, right? better a child treated and cared by her mother. Remember, the home is the first school's and foremost for children.
that women needed actualization of his personal activities with reason the husband's income is not enough and must assisted his wife, it's reasonable but, again,
house is the first school and foremost for children and families. Role and nurturing from parents is the main thing.
what do you think? Did You agree even though a female has high school keep have to take care her household, especially nurture her children ?
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8 responses
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
15 Apr 10
I think it would be alright if it can be afforded or she can atleast get a job working from home. I don't know about where you are but here in these days its very hard to live on one income when you have a family.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Apr 10
hi cupkitties here in southern ca if you want to eat and be housed its gonna take both yours and your hubbies jobs to do so,otherwise you will be hard pressed to make the house payment or the rent payment.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
15 Apr 10
I agree with you. being a housewife is heavier than any job. housewife has a big responsibility. whatever happened to the child is depending on how a mother's educational. I am not a good mother, because I make my child is different with his friend. because of the problems I had I ignore my child. now I'm going to be a mother who was always there for my kids. and help my child, my child can be proud of.
@alwayzzcitra (1861)
• Indonesia
15 Apr 10
I believe every mother is a housewife, doesn't matter if she has a job or not. I have a career, but I am also a mom. Yes, the house is the first education institution, but everyone has varies condition which may keep them away from the children for a while. Just because they have a job, doesn't mean that they are a bad mom. As long as the children are healthy and well educated, I don't see no prob. But if I had to choose, I want to work at home so I can be near my daughter all the time. Well, that's life, you may not get everything you want.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
15 Apr 10
yes, I'm agree with you. My mother was also a worker. She is work in the office and frankly, we were raised by house maid and that's had no problems, but I have experience which little bad, in past time at time was little, I can rarely complain that everything I experienced to my Mother 
@xinlingchengbao (438)
• Tianjin, China
15 Apr 10
Hi,Advokatku!
This is a good title.
It is depended on her own,i think.
Everyone has his life goal,if she want to be a houselife,take care of her child only,let her go to do it.
Others maybe think that it is pity for her.but please respect her choice.
I had the same problem. I have a son,but i don't want to be a housewife.this is my choice.so I go to work everyday.I love my son of course.
Have a nice day.
whatever your choice, I hope you keep be a good mother
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
15 Apr 10
Hi friend
Let me confess my ignorance first, what 'erudite' means? Well our first teacher is our mother, my daughter in laws are highly qualified, but they prefer to be housewifes only, we have maid servant for other works, but cooking and care to babies are the work of the daughter in laws only...
Thanks for this nice post, cheers 
God bless you. 
Prof
Thanks for this nice post, cheers
God bless you.
Prof
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
15 Apr 10
Hi Professor. Erudite is to have great knowledge, wisdom and education.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Apr 10
advokatky erudite means she has intelligence so why force her to be just a housewife, any way in this horrid economy both husband and wife must work to pay the house payments plus food utilities and so on. a woman's mind is just as a mans it must not be wasted in keeping a house that is just done over and over.s ure the children need their mom and the housekeeper is second best but women who work to help keep their families housed clothed and fed are not bad, but good, they are doing
this for their children,they do care or they would just shrug off the idea of going out to work,its old fashioned to insist a woman be kept barefoot and pregant, and children whose parents work do most often grow up just as happily as those whose mom never set foot outside the house, is a slave to broom and dish washing etc. in fact some children from homes where mom is literally a house slave grow up to rebel against housewivery and opt to join the work force when they become adults.
@wxx8899 (111)
• China
16 Apr 10
i think parents should devote more time,energy to their kid.no matter you are erudite or not.when the kid is young they need full time care,but with time going on,kid should learn independent,full time care may easy lead to spoil.it is normal in my country that a female with erudite,but just choice to be a housewife if the husband can afford whole family
