are u a builder or a destroyer?

Philippines
April 17, 2010 5:27am CST
when you see people struggling over a problem or a situation in life, how do you usually react to it? do you put them down saying it was their fault why they are on that situation and they deserve it or do you take an extra mile to understand them anh try to help out and help them out of their brokenness? please share your thoughts on this. it will be greatly appreciated.
4 responses
@Masmasika (1922)
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
Encouraging is always better but there are times when you have to make the person realize that he has to move on his own in order to learn. So it is good both ways depending on how you do it for the person you want to teach.
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
Hi masmasika, thanks for sharing your thoughts.
@bird123 (10254)
• United States
17 Apr 10
I have often wondered why people value blame so much. Seems everyone has to find blame. Blame is meaningless. RESULTS ARE WHAT REALLY COUNT!!! Now, the only way to get results is to solve the problem. I find people well capable of solving their problems at hand even though many don't think so. I offer love, kindness, and encouragement. If that isn't enough, I point them in the right direction.
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• Philippines
18 Apr 10
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I also wonder why other people tend to solve the problem by running away from it. That it seems that this problems can't be resolve that is why the only way out to to shrug it off as if it is the end of it without making an extra mile to solve it.
@ramp123 (191)
• India
17 Apr 10
When people get into trouble in life, it usually is their own fault in some way or another. But that does not mean we don't help them. Most people are good at heart, and most people make mistakes, because nobody is perfect. The past cannot be changed, but it is very important to help others in trouble, and help them overcome their difficulties and move forward. Who knows, the same thing can happen to any of us, and we will need help too!
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• Philippines
17 Apr 10
I agree with what you said that we should help others in trouble for this too might happen with us and we will be needing others help and understanding too! thanks.
@umabharti (3978)
• India
17 Apr 10
hi, i try most of the time to give confidence to the person or osmetimes according to the persons behaviour i try to put down so that the person inner spirit try to come out.i am always a destroyer to myself
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
what do you mean your a destroyer to yourself, i am confused.