Men and their little talks.

@saphrina (31740)
South Africa
April 17, 2010 9:59am CST
I had this great day with friends of mine. Now, as most of us know, men just talk. They don't really care who hears them or not. MOSTLY. Now the strangest subject i have heard from men. They actually had an argument about women's weight today. First they all wanted lean and sexy. Then they added 5 kgs to the girls they like. Now, why can't they be satisfied with what they have? If they think women will gain 5 kg's just to please them, they have another thing coming. TATA.
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13 responses
17 Apr 10
I nto sounding sexist here, but I have to defend men. Women can be just as single minded as men. But when it comes to letting people down, in terms of how they think of someone, women find it far easier. I can understnad what you are saying, but it is just one side of the argument, after all, men can like the larger woman, or just like curvy women.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Apr 10
I agree. Women can be just as bad. I just found their discussion funny today. Thanx. TATA.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Apr 10
Well sweetie, he is going to have a hard time getting it. As most men don't like to go for those kind of operations.
17 Apr 10
Well, theres nothing wrong with your size. 8stone at 5ft, is fine, after all, Im 5ft and 9 stone, although Id like to loose a stone. Also, I didnt exactly imply women have these kind of conversations, but I have heared women/girls or whatever have conversations similar, but about men. Either way, everyone has their faults, and also good things. After all, knowbody is perfect.
@yresh12 (3222)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
Hello Saph! I've been to a boys night out.. All my guy workmates went drinking. I had to wait for the other one because he was my carpool.All they talk about was yummy girls and pretty crazy things to. I had fun as well because they were funny... jmmmmm
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 Apr 10
Hi sweetie. I have to admit, i had fun with them. And when they start realising how crazy they sometimes sound, it makes the fun poking so much more yummee. Thanx. TATA.
@yresh12 (3222)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
Absolutely right!! haekhek...
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 Apr 10
Now your getting there!! TATA.
@anuraa32 (2452)
• India
26 May 10
But dont generally women put on weight after marraige or having kids and all. To give the men friends the credit, they were just seeing if they will like the girl when she puts on 5 to 10 kgs of weight.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
26 May 10
They can try guessing, but those women will never put on weight, no matter how hard they try. Thanx. TATA.
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@anuraa32 (2452)
• India
26 May 10
We dont know that. You cant say how the human body works.
@basqui (3890)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
Sometimes men really are not sincere on such talks. Of course they just want to be on top of everybody so they have to say such things. My friends are like that when we have men talks.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 Apr 10
I agree, a lot of men are definately not sincere. But to always be on top of somebody, mm, i will have to reconsider how i will get back at them. Thanx. TATA.
@basqui (3890)
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
on top always? Sometimes they want to be on the bottom too, being on top is exhausting too.
• Australia
18 Apr 10
Who is really content with what they have??? I think all of us desire things we don't currently have... it is human nature to be progressive. I guess what it really comes down to is how valuable those things are to us and whether we focus on important things or those that are superficial... a woman's weight is superficial and will probably fluctuate in any case. What are they gonna do, leave her because she gains too much weight? Hopefully not. I have a saying... SUCCESS IS NOT HAVING EVERYTHING YOU WANT BUT BEING CONTENT WITH WHAT YOU HAVE! That doesn't mean we can't progress, simply that our happiness is not based on things we don't have... for example, someone who says, 'if only I had more money I would be happy'... does that mean they have to be miserable because they don't? It comes down to the whole concept of gratitude. We just need to be thankful for the things we have and not worry about the superficial stuff.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 Apr 10
And this sweetie, is what i like to hear. Why always try and change the things we have? Thanx. TATA.
@hora_fugit (5437)
• India
17 Apr 10
There's something wrong with my eyes. I always find women/girls either slightly thinner or slightly fattier. Never extreme in either way and by no means just perfect! Didn't mean to be here but just had to do some little talks...
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 Apr 10
Sweetie, i don't think there is anything wrong with your eyes. You just decide what you want, okay. And talk away, we always listen. Thanx. TATA.
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
My girl gained weight for me. I thought it was sweet. :)
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Apr 10
Thats nice sweetie. I am sure you are very proud of her. TATA.
• United States
17 Apr 10
Because many people aren't really satisfied with what they have. People are greedy and jealous by nature. Women think the same things about their men. They want them to be "buff," "muscular," "hot," etc. Men are under pressure just as much as women to be amazingly perfect. And the funny thing is that, women claim to be censored all of the time, then they complain when someone talks. They have the ability to taslk as freely as they want, they just don't use it. You can't think somehting and expect someone else to talk for you, you have to do it yourself.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Apr 10
Sweetie, i agree with you. But only one question. No offense intended. Did you take a breath between the lines? But thanx, this was a good response. TATA.
@Arioch (190)
17 Apr 10
To be fair i have to say as a man, men's interests in woman varies many men prefer women with a more fuller figure, some even prefer those with a very full figure. I suspect many peoples of version of what they think men like come from the images in newspapers and magazines.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Apr 10
And that answer is fair enough. No one can ever like the same kind or size. Thanx. TATA.
@ajrox1810 (992)
• India
17 Apr 10
Well, Me being a man, can understand it quite well. Actually the fact is just like women love variety in apparels, jewelery, etc. We men love variety in women, drinks, and things that are well over external styling. We can go on wearing the same shirt for a week, but won't mind having a new girl to date every day of our life. So, basically all men love lean and slim women, then they thought adding a bit weight would make them more, you know, curvy. So, you just experienced a bit of the fluctuating thoughts of us fickle minded men. No offense meant, none demanded. Regards, AJ-Rox
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Apr 10
Thanx for your honest answer, sweetie. I appreciate it. TATA.
@cloud31 (5811)
17 Apr 10
Hi saph, Most men have this way of thinking I guess, they want sexy and lean but I just don't understand why they are trying to compare women, I hope they could lead their mind accepting women for whatever curves they have not to be argue about women shape and so on! ,, Miss yah!
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Apr 10
IJ, i wish you can meet this lot. They are awesomly crazy and a lot of fun to be with. And the best of all, they are all married to stunningly, beautifull women. You should have seen their wives faces. CCLLAASSIICCAALL. Thanx. TATA.
@zim1fW (286)
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
When men talk like that they really mean only that they will notice only those who gained 5 kg or have weights 5kg heavier. It does not mean they will be asking women they like to gain that much weight.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Apr 10
I think men cannot make up their minds. But, as they say, we cannot live with them and we cannot live without them. Thanx. TATA.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
17 Apr 10
Ofcourse your friends seem to be expecting much more than they can offer---may be they should look out for sumo wrestlers---they're can be lean and sexy enough on bed
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Apr 10
BB, i will tell them what you have said. Maybe that will keep them busy and out of trouble. Thanx.