dont want to tell my wife but i lost respect for her parnets

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some knows we've dealing with alot of stress within the family. other family memebers treating my daughter totally bad. and her being sexaul assaulted. and always hearing my in laws how she needs to try to get along with everyone else when its not her but everyone else, and even when it comes to the boy and how all the family hangs out with him again she needs to except it. they are alway make excuses for most of the other kids how they behave and treat my daughter well the blame is just thrown on her. and they think i shouldnt hold nothing against the other kids for all they have done to her. and for hanging out with the peice of crap for what he did to her. and i know the guy might be playing soft ball with my son's team and i dont want to be around him at all, i dont trust myself being around him. and ive told my wife and her family if they have a family get together and my daughter isnt working and she wont go there, so i will be here with her. and if she still dont want to go over for holidays either will i. because i want to show her i will give up things and people for her. i will pick and choice her over everyone else even my own son. but thing were said,i dont belive in telling others to be like me, think like, feel like me, do as me. but ive been told by my in laws i need to change my thinking, how i deal with things, because i am wrong and be more like them. i shouldnt dear say anything to anyone if they bring it up, or talk bad about my daughter or if one of the kids talked about how cool and great this guy is who tried to rape my daughter, i told my wife i am not sitting there listening to it, and i am not walking away from them either. i will stand up and speak my mind, i dont care if i hurt these kids or parents feelings they didnt care and dont care about hurting my daughter so why should i. but with things that were said and done over the pass year, i lost respect for my in laws. tried of hearing i need to be like them. and need to what they do. sorry i belive you stand up for those who needs to be stand up for. and you dont sugar coat crap because they are worry about hurting nasty people feelings. but i havent told my wife yet i lost some respect for her parents, i dont want to hurt her. but i really dont care being around them or a few others in the thier family what you think im wrong or i should suck it up