How do you feel when you meet your Ex. bf/gf/spouse? Any heart beat?.......lol

@minhaj09 (236)
Bangladesh
April 21, 2010 3:36pm CST
Yeah! Its about 10 months since I logged in dis site last time. I uploaded one of my profile pictures which was in fact my ex gf's. I lost this pictures while setting up ma windows xp. today, after logging in, i found it & while had a look over it, i felt heart beat! I don't know which was going on in ma heart noticing her even though I've ma present gf! Not only noticing them in Pictures, but also we may meet them LIVE! my question is as the Title: How do you feel that time?
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@Tangeryne (412)
• India
21 Apr 10
hey minhaj..yea your heart definitely skips a beat. i am so pissed with my ex. he;s married now to someone else. everywhere i go , i see someone who resembles him. sometimes i think i'm going crazy. but i know if i ever have to meet him in the near future i will do either one of these extremes - go up to him and slap him hard across his face or completely ignore him as though he is invisible or better yet just stare at him with betraying any expression.
@minhaj09 (236)
• Bangladesh
21 Apr 10
Tangeryne, I was betrayed by her too. Yea.. I could do either of these u quoted. But its even true that may be we love them. & this affair is may b life-long! There are a lot of interesting stuffs in this earth. but the most surprising stuff is falling love with someone truly even though it doesn't exists now....
• India
25 Apr 10
a range of emotions go through me. from pain to depression to anger and hatred. that's what i feel the most towards him. life is cruel and sometimes you learn lessons the hard way. its up to you to get up and move on without looking back. and most of all be strong :-)
@raj917 (66)
• India
23 Apr 10
hi, Yeah, Its really miracle. We can't express the feelings at that time. But till now I haven't faced such experience. I think any heart can jump and dance it.. Happy Mylotting
@minhaj09 (236)
• Bangladesh
23 Apr 10
yeah, it is!
@kykidd (6812)
• United States
25 Apr 10
I did happen to run into my ex a couple of months ago. I was nervous because I was with my current boyfriend in a club. A friend of mine was in the band that was playing. When she was on break, I tried to have her come with me to speak to him so that I wouldn't have to go alone. I figured that he had seen me sitting up at the bar, and I didn't want to be rude and not speak. Plus, I wanted to be the one to approach him, so that it would be on my own terms. At first, I was really nervous. And my friend wouldn't go with me, so I had to go by myself. Finally, I got up the nerve to make the approach as I was going to the Ladies' Room. I ended up being quite surprised, I put my hand on his arm, and was just going to say "Hi". To my surprise, he hadn't even seen me there (or at least he said that he didn't). He stood up and gave me a hug and talked to me a lot nicer than expected, and was barely negative. It turned out to be a pretty decent meeting, better than the last time. So, I was pretty happy with the way that it ended.
@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
21 Apr 10
Since moving back to my home state and in a nearby town, I see my ex-husband often, we also still talk on the phone from time to time. He has a live-in girlfriend and I've moved on with my life (for several yrs now). So, no when I see him there isn't any 'heart beat' or any other feelings other than just friends. He's the only one of my ex's I ever see. As for the others, I wouldn't be rude but there wouldn't be any feelings there either.
@minhaj09 (236)
• Bangladesh
21 Apr 10
hmm... i guess, its positive not recalling the previous grief. i support it but may b, such will be happen in ma lyf about 5 to 10 yrs later... still now, i miss her.
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
I haven't bumped with any of them yet. It might bring back good old memories but that's about it. My heart was trained to beat for only one person, needless to mention whom. Blissfully married I am.
@minhaj09 (236)
• Bangladesh
23 Apr 10
yea. my heart also beats for only one whom i've lost though i'm quiet happy leading ma lyf now with ma present gf. i guess, its different for me & i really dont know why dis feeling stucks me..
@piya84 (2581)
• India
24 Apr 10
This is my relationship so no idea.There were people on whom i had crushes but they were crush and nothing more than that.That type of attraction fades away easily you know.I see sometime those guys on facebook and orkut and i am neutral towards them .Some time i think what the hell i was thinking at that time when had crush on this guy.He isnt that much good.lol
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
yes, i have met my ex randomly... the first time i met my ex was when i was with my current bf! and he even said hi to me - calling out my name! i was not able to see him clearly as it was a bit dark already and there are few lights around the buildings near our workplace... it was an odd experience for once i thought they'd fight. haha just kidding. :D
@engrdng06 (248)
• Japan
22 Apr 10
I hate the feeling I felt when I met my boyfriends ex-wife. And I never wish to met here again.
• United States
22 Apr 10
It is definitely a different kind of feeling. It at least makes my heart stop. I just take comfort in the fact that things happen for a reason and try not to get sad about it. It is definitely hard at first but I believe time heals. Have a good day.