Have you feel sometimes Insercure among others?

Philippines
April 27, 2010 5:50am CST
I felt sometimes inferiority, I did not meant it but when I saw someone who is beautiful and wealthy I felt unfairness. This is because they almost have everything while others are struggling. Sometimes someone who has a lot, forget to say thank you for what they have but they keep asking more. Sometimes are very lucky in other ways. I gave myself an answer sometimes when I heard someone who is beautiful but has been betrayed by their boyfriend. Someone who is rich but not contented but lot of troubles and couldn't do as normal person. Do you feel what I feel too? Let me know...
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13 responses
@samson1967 (7422)
• India
27 Apr 10
Sometimes the Jelousness leads to inferiority complex. The beauty and wealth are not permanent, so why feel inferior for the people who possess it, let them possess beauty and wealth, but what is the use if they dont have human values, no one will respect such rude rich fellows.
• Philippines
27 Apr 10
Yes you are right, but I did not meant to feel it that way.
@cdcl16 (15)
• Philippines
27 Apr 10
Yes! I totally Agree with you....
@babyEj (1525)
• Philippines
27 Apr 10
In my opinion, accepting who you are and what you have will make inferiority disappear. If you admit to yourself that this is the only thing that you can do and there are things you can't do however you wished to. There are things that may change without much effort and sometimes there are impossible things to change... live with it. That's it. I had felt inferiority at early stage of life and I believe it's normal, a part of growing up. Watching people around me makes me think the reality which surrounds ones life. The, I find myself who's me and not.
• Mexico
27 Apr 10
Hi baby Ej: I agree with you, accepting ourselves it's very important for our own mental health and as you say, sometimes we can change some others not. It's all about self steem. Maybe some situations make us feel down but we need to love our selves just how we are. Thanks for your answer. Alvaro.
@caliya (1175)
• Philippines
27 Apr 10
hi jenely. I am somewhat glad to know that I am not alone in the world. You see I am actually stuck in a situation where I can't help but be insecure. My partner sometimes makes me feel that I am not good enough, not pretty enough and others are way better than me and I know that it's not healthy and that I need to get out of this relationship as soon as as possible but it's hard for me to let him go because I love him so much that is why I am really torn apart right now. I hope that we will be able to sort it out pretty soon because I know that we deserved to be loved and accepted just the way we are.
• China
28 Apr 10
If your partner love you deeply ,your are the best in his eyes even though the fact is not the case.And if he find his lover is unconfident he will help her establish confidence.The life partner is the one who can accompany you go through to tough time and share good time with you.If you can't feel secure,comfortable and happy when you get along with your partner,i think you should consider to end the relationship.Happy mylotting.
@mylila (107)
• Malaysia
27 Apr 10
Sometimes I do feel inferior among my husband and friends. My friends have great jobs, happily married and have children. Both of my younger sisters bought their own cars when I don't have one. That's when the inferiority comes to mind. But it's better to just be happy for them. Then, the insecurity will fade. It is normal to have that feeling. But don't carry it too seriously or it can make you jealous or may hate to see successful people.
• Philippines
27 Apr 10
Yes thankz, yeah but I always defend myself that's just how's life .
• United States
28 Apr 10
Hi, jenely! I suspect everyone feels insecure at times. Maturity does a lot for our confidence, and that reduces the incidents of insecurity for most of us, fortunately!
@junmae (1592)
• Philippines
28 Apr 10
I always felt insecure when i saw ladies who are sexier and prettier than me especially when they are rich. I told my self they must be so lucky to be born in this world, to have everything in there hands. But i control my self in thinking that way because it is a sin, God said do not envy from anyone because all of us are a unique creature and there are reasons why we became like this. Nobody is perfect so i dont have any reason to feel insecure with them, I know that though they are beautiful, god also loves me the way they love them.
• Philippines
28 Apr 10
probably no, i don't feel any insecurities in my entire life. as you see rich people can't even walk without body-guards, they feel that danger always behind them. same with beautiful women, they don't have stable boyfriend because they are not satisfy and content what they have. they keep on relying their beauty as their asset. its better to be like me, i have no money but i have many friends, my husband love and trust me. i am not rich in material things, but i am abundance of happiness.live with a simple life but content and satisfy what i have.,
@ada8may21 (2419)
• Philippines
28 Apr 10
I feel that one, every time I am with a group of people who I know they have high status in life. If they really show that they are higher than you, I really feel intimidate with their presence.
• Philippines
28 Apr 10
Yes. Insecurity is part of our lives. There'll always be someone better than us and it's inevitable. The problem we should be considering is how to deal with it.
• Philippines
28 Apr 10
Yes. Insecurity is part of our lives. There'll always be someone better than us and it's inevitable. The problem we should be considering is how to deal with it.
• Mexico
27 Apr 10
Hi jenely: In general i think that, sometimes I felt a little insecure when i saw a person that is nice, popular and seems to me that he can talk to everyone and everybody sees him, he's friendly and everybody loves him. I think that makes me insecure but at the same time, I should know that, in most of the cases it's just a faux impression and that everybody has it's own problems. I can work to be better person in every aspect of my life and that's what should matters. Thanks for sharing with us your thoughts. Alvaro.
@myzire72 (1157)
• Singapore
27 Apr 10
In life, there are lots of rich and pretty people, lots of poor and rich people, and lots of mediocre people. If we constantly compare ourselves with the rich and pretty, we will always feel inferior. Why should we, when there are lots of poor and ugly people out there too? So, stop comparing, stop admiring, and just be yourself.
@chendaimi (153)
• China
27 Apr 10
i ever have such feeling like that, and sometimes i will feel the society is not fair , i would ask myself why some people can get something without effort, and some people get nothing even though they have tried their best , i have thought this problem for a long time , it really puzzles me a lot , after that , i go to consult with my psychology teachers, and then i realize that is a unmodifiable fact that there is unfair in the society ,but what we can change is our attitude toward life, there is no need to contrast me with others , just keep a contented mind to live , now if i had this incorrect thought again , i would say to myself " A CONTENTED MIND IS A CONTINUAL FEAST", happy mylotting !!!!!!!!