When you've been walked on

It takes me ages to trust someone, Im quite open with people from the first day I meet them and will tell them anything, but I dont trust them at all, Ive been walked over as well by others, and I know this may sound silly but I was also bullied in school by my so-called friends and even though this was years ago I think it has affected how much I trust people. I can be the best friend that someone will ever have as long as they are patient, I usually take a step back to begin with and dont get that close to people first, I dont like to rely on others, but once you get past the stage where Im like that then Im a friend that can always be relied on. I guess at first I could seem like I just dont care, even though thats the opposit of how I feel, but its just because I try not to get too involved, even if I think that we could be really good friends, something holds me back at first. Im the same in relationships though, Im a nightmare to begin with lol!

People in here heard me saying that i had deleted more than a couple of people from my life ... well if the question is about "how stubborn,serious i'm about this" "you get to see that in the coming days".I do not even want to speak with folks who believe in having fun at the cost of humiliating others which is one of the disgusting attitudes i dislike about.I give enough chances (even apologised twice) before i go ahead with something like deleting someone from my LIFE..i dont give a fcuking $hit who make fun of me trying to be good!if they get some kicks on their a$$ humiliating others like this then they should consider their family members first coz they were the ones who taught you to be so downright mean,lame,stupid traits.Yeah i'm damn rude to each and every one of those who have been literally deleted from my life...dont you dare to poke me from now on...mind you aren't an exception!

I'm with you, we are cool til you dump on me. I am very fortunate, I have some pretty wonderful and supportive friends and family. I am careful who I get close to.

hi LillyBelle DaisyRose I am so easy to make friends then am baffled if sonmeone does walk all over me but thankfully it has not happened to me very often. I know the feeling and agree that if someone really betrays me I will get pretty upset as usually Iam shy and easy going and not a bit hard to know.

i know wat you mean. i have had people say im mean when i never even talked to them. but most people who know me say im really nice and i think because i come off as shy that might be what makes some people think they can walk on me. its the hardest when its friends youve had awhile.