backstabbing, has it happened to you

Philippines
May 9, 2010 10:56pm CST
people you expect your true friends but never notice that they already hitting you behind your back, has it happened to you. how can you trust other people again, if someone does this to you
9 responses
• Philippines
10 May 10
Id happened to me so many times. But i tend to ignore them. After all its them who will get tired of doing it. As long you know you're doing the right thing and didnt hurt anybody.
• Philippines
10 May 10
yeah right, do not do unto others what you don't want others do unto you
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
10 May 10
Yeah it happened to me way back in highschool. I was hanging out with my friends, and I didn't know that all of them were mad at me and were backstabbing me. It sucks. I got hurt, but I found other friends who are true.
• Canada
10 May 10
I've had that happen in high school as well and it sucks and hurts for sure....Happy Mylotting.
@elmiko (6630)
• United States
10 May 10
i don't think it means you can't trust people again. i think it means someone should hang out with other people and make new friends.
• Philippines
11 May 10
yes theres too many of them out there, seems to be like a friends to you with all those positive things they can say in front of you but once you turned your back they will going to backfight against you. those are people whose not contented or happy with what they have and those are jealous people who dont want to see other people on top of them. we cant avoid those thats why its better of not to trust too much whether a fiend or not, still nice to always have a space with them and not to tell everything to them as they might going to use it against you.
@sach143_u (859)
• India
10 May 10
Friend we can't trust anyone in this world because some times the person to whom we trust, that person will be the most dangerous person in our life. We should be very careful in these days.
@maura21 (51)
10 May 10
like heidi montag lol..........................dump them backstabbers it jealousy
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
10 May 10
I've had it happen to me before and scary thing about it as it has happened most recently and I'm in my 30s......My ex husband ran to mutual friends because he is immature but now they all sit there and mouth off about me lol but I look where it comes from....Happy Mylotting....
@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
10 May 10
It will be really hard to trust again especially if the one who back-stabbed you is your most trusted friend. The best thing to do is move on and forget about that person. Sooner or later you will find someone that is really trustworthy. But don't fully trust this time. He/She should first prove that he/she is really trustworthy.
• India
10 May 10
Yeh it has happened many times, one feel hurt when we trust our friends thinkng to be good friends but eventually they back stab,Hitting behind the back can take place anywhere in collge, at work place ,i learned onething is to be keep oneself emotional strong enough to face if we come to know about backstabbing if someone has done then we doonot hurt ourself.