Help what do I do with my grand daugher

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Anyone have any suggestions, I have a grand daughter that is 16, some where along the lines she has decided that thugs and dope addicts and trash, by that I means ones that aren't in school but walk the streets are the ones that are so cool. She litterly had me fighting on Facebook because of the nasty language she was using. It went through all my friends pages including mine. I was so embrassed, and then you got the thugs telling her it no ones business what she does or what she says to go one do as she pleases. Her whole attitude sucks, her mother walks in the evenings, tonight she didn't go with her mother, but then called her after she left and said she was coming to catch up with her, appparently she changed her mind somewhere along the lines. at 10 her mother called me all upset that they couldn't find her, it was dark and late and the entire police department was on alert looking for her. Where was she sitting in the bedroom with her grand father, watching a movie, I didn't even see her come in. When she talked to her mother she gave some story about her side or back hurting so she came back here. She came out into the living room and sit in the recliner and it was that attitude that got to me, and when I was ask what the problem was I lit in on her, she has no respect for anyone, not even herself. She could very easily picked up the phone and called her mother and let her know she was here.Or of let me know she was here, I would of called her mother. She didn't want to. It is that attitude that got me started, I told her I had had it with her and that attitude and was not going to put up with it anymore. That she has no respect for us, her mother or anyone else and I stay up here for them, because I spent so many years living a 1000 miles from them, but I can pack my bags and head back home in a heart beat if the thugs and low lifes are what she thinks so much of, then have at it but stay the hell awway from me. i will no longer put up with that attitude in my home. She has made everyone in the area think from what she has typed on Fb that she is the biggest sl*ut they got out there. She seems to think that is the way to get attention, OH it gets it for her, but not the attention she needs. I am at my wits end with her. And I know her mother is also. her father and mother have been divorced for about 12 years she gets no attention from him, so I don't know if this is what she is battling for to get some of the attention he should be giving her. She also had a stroke when she was 8 years old, I know I had no idea that kids have strokes someone said that this can affect their thinking and attitude what do you think. My opinion she needs to sit in lockup for the weekend and if that don't work then for half the summer till she learns that foul language and doing what she decides to do it not cutting it. I am afraid that we are going to find her in a ditch some where one day, she will say going to the library and then it off some where else. Any way I did not get a good response from her papa, he said I hurt her feelings, well how many times has she hurt mine. Talking to her don't seem to work, not us or couseling either. Tell me what you would do.