What would you do if you have got only a month to live from now?

India
May 16, 2010 1:32am CST
I would probably inform all my assets and liabilities to my children. I will try to use every second useful. I will try my best to share all my experience and knowledge to my children, how about you?
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18 responses
@greenace (124)
• Philippines
16 May 10
spend time with my family would be first on my list (share with them everything i have that might be of use to them). i also try to communicate (with whatever means available) with my friends and people who are just near me but i might not be communicating before. but most of my time will be spent reading the bible praying, and praising.
• India
17 May 10
That is so nice to think of God during the last days greenace.I wish I could do that when it happens to me.
@greenace (124)
• Philippines
19 May 10
i hope everyone would not think about God just during the last days of their lives but everyday...have a greta day.
@vathsala30 (3723)
• India
16 May 10
Hi First I will clear all my debts (if any). Then i will transfer all my assets and bank lockers in the name of my children. Then till the last moment of my day on earth, I will be helpful to all as i am now. In the final hour, i will donate my eyes, kidney, liver and what ever body parts can be taken and used, i will donate it happily and rest my soul in peace in the lap of the mother earth
• India
17 May 10
hello., how are you? This is not fair vathsala, what about your dear hubby? You only leave your love to him? reconsider your plan please..
• India
17 May 10
I think my children will take care of their dad and my loving memories are enough for him to live for the rest of his life
@amelly (1558)
• Malaysia
16 May 10
well surely not online wouldn't bother me..i would like to spend time with my loved one including family,friends..cousin and i hope i can do good deeds to others..it might be hard to think or go through it but we might not know what will happen in the future..
• India
16 May 10
Yes amelly. It will be terrible to live the short span of life with anxiety and stress. Some critical patients may undergo this state and this is really painful and miserable.
@amelly (1558)
• Malaysia
24 May 10
yes..there's nothing worse thn that
@brylle454 (608)
• Philippines
16 May 10
i will spend my remaining time with my family and friends :) that way, even if i die, i will always remember them :)
• India
16 May 10
Yes, that is so natural for any one to spend the last days with family and friends.
• Philippines
16 May 10
hehehe, i also want to party for the last time LOL, if this means that one month left is not because of a serious illness that is. LOL
@Porcospino (17825)
• Denmark
20 May 10
I would spend a lot of time with my husband, my family and my close friends but I would also spend some time alone thinking about my life. I would probably read some of my diaries and think about the good and bad things and the things I have learned. I would find new homes for my pets and I would also go through my belongings and give some of them away to my family and my friends. I would also visit some of favourite places again and visit some new places, especially some of the places that I have always wanted to see.
• India
20 May 10
Yes, Porcospino , it is worth to rewind and experience what happened in the past. It will be nice to visit the favorite places too.
@Yori88 (1468)
• Philippines
19 May 10
I will just spend the rest of my days visiting all my love ones and say sorry for all the headaches and heartaches I have given them. I will ask for their forgiveness in all my shortcomings and for all the pain I have caused them. I will tell them to pursue their dreams in life especially to my sister and 5 younger brothers. And all those closest friends of mine I will also visit them. The last week of the month will be spent with my husband and our 1 year and 7 month old son. I will take care of them and will love them every second of my remaining days. I will also let them take over all of my important things and will remind my husband the way I want him to raise our son. I will tell him to be strong enough to face life without me and encourage him to look for another love maybe after 3 years. That is if he finds someone better or even just the same level as me. I will also write a letter that they both can keep so that they will not forget all my reminders and all the dreams I have for them. And lastly we will make a video together and just enjoy the rest of my days. Does all these I mentioned will just make it harder for them? Haha I hope not!
• India
19 May 10
Wow, I think you will be pretty busy those days having a lot of things to do and fulfill before you go away. Your hope is right, no doubts about that Yori88.
• Philippines
17 May 10
For me living a month is a long and short one. I have to plan everything and I have to list down the things I have to do on the first day and start applying that on the second day. I will tell about my business to my parents and siblings. That is the only thing I will give to them I don't have much money. Through that business they can still get money from it. I will spend the rest of my life with my parents, pets and friends. I will apologize to some of the people that deserves it.
• India
17 May 10
Will you inform mylotters about this sad incident grecychunny? Don't worry, you will live up to 100 years and mylot till the last days...
@sukumar794 (5047)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
16 May 10
Given the choice, I would prefer to have a full life replete with all material comforts aplenty. The desire would of course extend to my fulfilling the desires of family members.The departure would then be no more painful.
• India
17 May 10
Hi, sukumar, that is a great way of spending the last days,. thanks for the response.
16 May 10
I would say goodbye to my family and friends and go to Vrindavan. I would spend my finals days chanting God's name and reading the holy scriptures.
• India
17 May 10
Great creative genius. You sound very religious. Good way of spending the last days indeed.
@neh357 (174)
• Philippines
16 May 10
this discussion is an eye opener. We cannot predict when is the time god will call us,, i'm scared of dying without fulfilling all my dreams, but i know that it is inevitable. if i have only one month to leave, i will return to the province, spend quality time will my family, divide all my assets equally among my siblings, visit my old friends just to say hi, spend alone at the shore and think about all the bad things i have done for someone and ask for forgiveness to god and to that someone, i will serve the church for one month, i will cook all my favorite foods, i will buy all the things i want, i will go to places i have not been with my family and most of all i will say i love you to all the people i know and sorry to all the people i hurt..
• India
17 May 10
This response really impressed me a lot neh. I respect your thoughts and ideas.
• Philippines
16 May 10
If I only have a month to live, I will make us each and everyday of my life useful. I will spend more time with my love ones, I will do ministry and mission stuff. Offer my self to those in need. Tell everyone that I love how much I love them and that they made a lot of difference in my life. Ask forgiveness to those I have offended and release forgiveness for those who have hurt me in the past. I will spend the rest of my days of quality. Do things I haven't done before and I will make sure that everything is prepared for my baby. Educational plans, people who will take care of him and I will write letters for him so that he can read on every time his birthday= takes place (yearly letter) telling him how much I love him and he is my source of joy and happiness.
• India
17 May 10
wow,kenchiprincess you seem to have a lot of things within the month. So I will let you live for 100 years.
@qamarep (4450)
• Pakistan
16 May 10
i will be happy to know that and i will try to live thi smonth in worshipping the God
• India
16 May 10
Great qamarep you must be having a strong mind to do that. I appreciate your attitude.
• Philippines
16 May 10
the popular answer is i will spend the rest of my life with my family, will have a vacation, travel. and aside from this i want to help other people, do good things in this world before i left.
• India
16 May 10
Great thoughts from you Patzi, You must be strong enough to spend a vocation at this time.
@monkeylong (3147)
• Guangzhou, China
16 May 10
As far as I am concerned, I think if I have only a month to live from now, I think I will just try my best to fullfill my career in my reality life. I do not want to leave it unfinished. With so limited time, I think I will make full use of it to let my career finish. I think that way my life is out of pity . I will enjoy my life so much.
• India
16 May 10
Yes, monkeylong , we need to fulfill our career goals as much as possible during that short period.
@advokatku (4037)
• Indonesia
16 May 10
if the time of my life only a month, I think, I will make a testament to my children and advice from me they should do as my children
• India
16 May 10
Yes, asvokatku that would be really great. Most men want to do that.Thanks for the response.
@scheng1 (24800)
• Singapore
16 May 10
I will bring my friends and family on a tour. Since I have only a month to live, I do not need so much money. I just want time with my friends and family. It's better to have them around, than to spend time watching TV or playing games. Too bad none of us know when we will die.
• India
16 May 10
Yes, schengl and that suspense keeps us going alive and thrilled.If we know our end life will be terrible.
@soulist (2987)
• United States
5 Mar 12
I would spend my time with my boyfriend and my family. Sure there are things that I would love to be able to do, but in reality what makes me happiest is being around my family and spending time with them.
@gelayagui98 (1337)
• Australia
20 Sep 11
life is full of uncertainties.. well never know when our time on earth is up til its over..so, take many pictures.. laugh much..have a long walk with loveone.. take time to look at the stars eat like theres no tomorrow.. sing loudly ..feel the cold wind,, smile a lot and love like you never been hurst before cause every second you spend is a minute of happiness youll nevert get back....