relationship or friendship?

Hi, You are absolutely right.Having good friend is very fortunate thing.Not every one is that much lucky.With good friends we can share our situations either good or bad.And some times we may find the solutions from them.

well this is what i think, even if they dont get along with each other there is a thing call common respect. and they should at least try to get along with each other around each other out of respect for you. but yeah b/f and g/f comes and go, having a real good friends is once in a life time, so if it came down it with me then yeah friend. but if you are in my shoe and married its harder. i would pick my wife. but i ran into that a few times, they just got along. for my sake.

both are very important, but what kind of situation that make i have to choose between best friend or girlfriend? mostly i will choose my girlfriend cause she will be a person who will company me in my whole life

Well it is hard to say really, because both of them are special people to you. I know they say choose your friends over any guy/girl but what if you truly are in love with your partner, and can't afford to be without them. It depends on who is most important to you.