Feeling/Emotion....Does it always reflect on your face?

Emotions! - Emotions!!
@cloud31 (5809)
May 27, 2010 12:11am CST
When your are mad,sad, happy or excited does it always reflect on your face? Or you can hide what you really feel inside of you? Can you manage to smile if deep inside you feel sad? Can you try to divert your emotions/feelings in the present situation you have, although its not favorable to you? How good you are in hiding your feelings? Most people can't hide their real feelings from their faces we can always feel and see the truth from their reactions and in their faces. How about you my fellow mylotters?I'd love to hear from you and Happy myLotting!
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@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
27 May 10
I can smile even I feel sad, I'll just forget the things that made me sad. But when I'm angry/mad it really shows on my face, my tiger look eyes and forehead showing wrinkles can tell how mad/angry I am. Add the snob look and read my eyebrow style.
@cloud31 (5809)
27 May 10
Hello laniekins, You are one of those who can smile despite of sadness but can't hide the feelings of madness.its also tough to hide when you are mad its takes a lot of effort to smile either. Thank you for sharing and Happy mylotting!
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@Aaleexix (2290)
• India
27 May 10
Smile is like the ornament of behavior. Smile can help to create a healthy environment. It has the magic power to tackle any adverse situation. Smile can lessen the tense and like a booster of life. It is said that smile has the power to win.
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@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
27 May 10
I know but I can't help bu frown. In fact even in normal days or I'm watching television, they say I still frown even if I don't intend it.
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@doryvien (2284)
• United States
27 May 10
Hi Cloud, I do have a very transparent personality, people know right away about how I feel by just looking at me. My friends specially those who are really close to me know when to leave me alone and when it's time to cheer me up. When I'm not in the mood, I prefer to be alone so that my emotions don't rub off on others.
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@doryvien (2284)
• United States
27 May 10
Hi Winky, Good to see you here. I know you're one of the few who knows me that much, particularly the mood part. Appreciate the space, thanks!
• Boston, Massachusetts
27 May 10
Hi Doryvien, Yes Doryvien you are very transparent. that's why when you are in such mode and mood i always try to give you space. nice to see you around.
@cloud31 (5809)
27 May 10
Hello Ms Dory, In that way you can manage to take good care of your emotions thats a very good management over emotions and avoid someone to get offended, being transparent is good when personally it can make a good point to show off what you really feel to your love one then they actually how to get along with you. In some circumstances adjustment is easy for those who can understand you being that way. Thanks for sharing and Have a nice day!
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
27 May 10
I've noticed that most of the time, I have a frown on my face. But even with this telltale sign, it does not accurately define what I am feeeling inside. Most of the time, I am actually more sad and more angry inside. And the frown is just a manifestation of my feelings. But, so as not to alarm most people, I limit my feelings or emotions to frowns.
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@cloud31 (5809)
27 May 10
Hello bounce, It just mean you can handle yourself in a situation that you can't be the cause of distractions to others,frowning is just normal maybe its an expression of the face that you can't express because of your limitations.But at least you can manage to handle your and limit your feelings being shown. Thanks for sharing and Happy myLotting!
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
27 May 10
IJ, i am very good at hiding my feelings. No one's problems and sadness but mine. TATA.
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
27 May 10
Thanx IJ.
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@cloud31 (5809)
27 May 10
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@cloud31 (5809)
27 May 10
My angel, I know you are that kind.You are always can handle situations by your own.That's one reason why you are always try to manage people around you..I admire you being that way!Thanks! Miss you..
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@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
27 May 10
Very much. May be because of my experiences, I can hide my all present feelings and act as per the current situations. I think it is one of my great quality that I have. Many have commented the same in the past. Even though, you are in the mid of so many issues, you never expressed it. I remember, when my father expired, I was away from home. People were in search for me and they informed the fact. When I saw him last, and even that time also, I could not cry for a moment, by the time my teacher who was present with me said that, hey, please cry for some time and get relaxed, otherwise you will become mad. It was nearly 27 years before. I still remember it and in fact, I suppressed all my feelings and was controlled it. Regards,
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@cloud31 (5809)
27 May 10
Hello friend, Yes most of us can do that, no trace of being in the current emotions we had inside.Thats make a great personality to adjust yourself in every situations we are under going. When it comes to handling emotions its hard to control when people tend to let emotions control themselves.When hiding emotions its an effort to have it done properly and even practice.It takes a lot of courage to make ourselves tough to every situations and incidents.Thank you for sharing !And have a nice day!
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@cloud31 (5809)
27 May 10
Your welcome friend!Thanks to you too!
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• India
27 May 10
Thank you for your opinion. Regards, Thank-s
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27 May 10
Its true that your feelings are reflected by your face But some peoples in the world have the ability to hide that excitement or emotion on that face.Like me I can hide any emotion on my face but I cant hide the emotion of telling a lie to someone.
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@cloud31 (5809)
27 May 10
Hi there, The point here at least you have the ability to hide of your emotions to the current situations, diverting your feelings favorable in that situations.Dishonesty is quiet serious in this case, I can't even make myself tolerate to hide this emotions and even tolerating someone telling a lie to me though! That's perfectly foul! Thanks for sharing and Have a good day!
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• Atlantic City, New Jersey
27 May 10
I cannot hide my feelings even if I tried. I wear my emotions on my face all the time- never have been able to control it.
• Atlantic City, New Jersey
28 May 10
Yes this is something I am definitley working on. There are times when on the job that something personal is on my mind and I have to remember to smile anyway because I'm on the job.
• Mexico
27 May 10
Hi warm weather woman: Same as here and in my case, it can be sometimes uncomfortable that this happends to you, specially when you need to transmit another kind of emotions to your guests or family in a reunion, for example and you have problems and you can't hide them for some minutes. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day. ALVARO.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
3 Jun 10
hides a feeling very difficult, let alone whose name is sad and emotional. so far I can cover my sadness and my anger in front of people I do not want them to know about my feelings. but sometimes very difficult to hide. But I am a person who easily dissolved in the atmosphere. if the atmosphere was happy I would be happy for even the heart is sad or angry.
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• Philippines
27 May 10
Emotions do reflect on people's faces. In a quick glance you can almost tell what the person is feeling at the moment. Some can really hide their emotions with a poker face but it comes out sooner or later.
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@cloud31 (5809)
27 May 10
Hello frontvisions, You are right, you can hide in a little while but when taking times staring at them you can probably see the real feelings inside of them from their eyes.Thanks for sharing and Happy myLotting!
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@zyxel999 (44)
• China
31 May 10
In my opinion, most of adults of 30-40 years old would handle their emotions because they experience many problems from families, social, business and so on. Another interesting research for men is most of persons with smooth faces innately or light beard can quite control their emotions and feelings. You can observe your friends around you. It is very accurate.
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@tilldawn (64)
27 May 10
Sometimes I can hide depends on every situation.Its pretty tough to hide but sometimes we need that to make situations better.All the best!
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@cloud31 (5809)
27 May 10
Hello tilldawn, Hiding is not bad either when it needed in a situation especially when dealing with people that need a good reflection of your personality. Thanks for that!
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27 May 10
I'm good in hiding because I don't like to show how do I feel about things and to people.I always don't like to share my feelings because when i share they seems pity on me.I want to hide it if possible.
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@cloud31 (5809)
27 May 10
Hi one, When you don't want to share and bother anyone its just normal to hide the feelings we had inside.Some people don't want to show their emotions as they can manage well themselves,and you are one of those.Thanks, and Happy myLotting!
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@Aitrita (145)
• Switzerland
27 May 10
Hi Cloud31 not letting get noticed from my face, is one of my daily cases. Specially in summer when I work somewhere mostly at customer service, I have to always smile and be friendly regardless of what I really feel. besides some poeple get outa good mood seeing others bad tempered. so I try to not give that feeling as they ain't responsible for my problems
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@cloud31 (5809)
27 May 10
Hello Aitrita, That's good to know you can perfectly hide your feelings and emotions and not being trace upon your face expressions. You are right, favorable to us if we have a good personality when dealing with our works and clients. That makes more a good relationship towards others. Thanks for for your views.Have a nice day ahead!
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@guidajia (35)
• China
27 May 10
in the present society, you have to learn to hide your real feelings. but i like to make friends with straighrforward person.or you will be too tired
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@cloud31 (5809)
27 May 10
Hi guidajia, Well you have a good point on that, but sometimes we need to adjust what we have to show in a current situations,especially when it comes to build ourselves to a better person dealing with people. When it comes to friendship being true to your emotions make sense and its a must to have a good relationships with friends. Thanks for sharing and happy mylotting!
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
27 May 10
I can easily hide my emotions. I have this sort of middle of the road face unless you look at my eyes. You see, I lost all my back teeth and cannot form my face into a smile without a serious effort. Also when I was young and had my back teeth, I was told "that is not funny!" or "what are you laughing at."
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
31 May 10
I was hurt a bit when I was young, being told "that isn't funny," etc. After a while you find it hard to show emotions except in your face. But I sure I wish I could smile without making an effort to push my cheeks out. I sure missed those back teeth. I guess I should have not eaten that many candies.
@cloud31 (5809)
31 May 10
Hello suspenseful, That's really amazing!In that case you can easily adopt yourself with whom you came in contact and that's really good for you especially in your career.Keep it up! Have a nice day and Happy myLotting!
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@mapuang (612)
• Philippines
27 May 10
Its so hard to hide your emotion, it always reflect in your face. Its better to show when you are sad or happy so that people will aware about your mood.
@grayxenon (1313)
• Philippines
27 May 10
agreed but if you work on a customer oriented environment, wherein you work face to face with clients you should somehow need to learn how to manipulate it, unfortunately till now I'm still not good with it..lol
@cloud31 (5809)
29 May 10
Hello mapuang, In some other circumstances you need to adjust with whom you came in contact but of course you are right showing your true feelings is fine.But we can't always do that when we are dealing with some people we don't used to deal with. Thanks for sharing and Happy myLotting!
• Philippines
27 May 10
I'm really good in hiding my real emotions, nobody would really notice that I'm sad or something. Though, people have always said that I always look angry, or mad, even if i'm not. LOL. I guess that's just my normal facial expression. Hehehehehe.
• Philippines
31 May 10
I'm really trying to look more friendly, but it just doesn't work. hehehe. Even cut my hair short to look more friendly and approachable, but people still mistake me for being a b*tch. Hahahaha.
@cloud31 (5809)
31 May 10
Hello Ing, Wow, I like that, but change that mad look to smile pleasejoke! Anyway I'm glad you did it well.It can give a reason to get along with your friends and people around you very well then.Keep it up! Thanks for sharing and Good day!
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
27 May 10
Some people were too good to hide about their feelings. Some are not,you can see what they had inside them,from their looks. Our face could launch a thousand emotions,but we can never tell who's face is telling or showing the true emotion of what's inside on that person. Pretending is not easy to do either,but some people prefer to hide their feelings and some were successful playing safe by smiles and laughters. Well,for me,there are times that i can hide what i truly feel inside but,my eyes can't. Have a good day always
@cloud31 (5809)
31 May 10
Hello jaiho, How you've been doing? You've been away for sometimes I guess? Anyway myLot misses you during your absence. BTW,Yes I agree with you,hiding and pretending isn't easy and takes a lot of effort doing so, and even takes a lot of practice to be able to have a good result. In your case,it easily sense because of your eyes and that's very true, even how good your acting when they look at your eyes they can see the reflection of what you feel inside. Thanks for sharing and Have a good day yourself too.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
31 May 10
hello dear, i do missed mylot and everyone here. I am not in any hiding,but on a vacation.. I do missed mylot so muchhhh...and now i am back. I am so grateful to know you missed me too dear
@bystander (2292)
• Philippines
27 May 10
no, i don't give the public the benefit of knowing how i feel...
@bystander (2292)
• Philippines
31 May 10
thanks for the response, my dear cloud. i've been quite busy with some deadlines... also, it warms the heart to know that some friends in mylot notices when i am not around, especially you... among friends and family, of course, i always let go my true feeling and my face, including my body language show it...
@cloud31 (5809)
31 May 10
Hello my friend! How you doin'? Been missing you.Where have you been? A very professional approach from you huh! I love that! I know you are that kind. Take care always!
@Aaleexix (2290)
• India
27 May 10
We need to hide our emotion. Now modern lifestyle is so complex that we need to show different emotion in same moment. At the same moment we are angry with some one simultaneously we many need to be happy with some other person. In this complex modern life style we are unable to carry constant emotion. Life is now like drama of any stage. As the actor show different emotion in different scene thus we also lead with various emotions. So now it is very important to hide their emotion and have to show the emotion on the demand of the situation. With a constant emotional facial expression we can't deal with all the situation of the day. So depending on the environmental need we different emotional expression. Otherwise wrong emotional expression can spoil the environment. Modern people are expert in hiding emotion and express the emotion on situational needs.
@cloud31 (5809)
27 May 10
Hello Aaleexix, You are absolutely right, adjustment in various situations and different people will make sense and brings the very best of it.Balance the situations in both socially and personal occasions can lead to a harmonious relationships over others and a place to live with good friendly environment. I believe you are successful with that. Thanks for sharing and Have a nice day!
@Aaleexix (2290)
• India
27 May 10
It will be very ridiculous for us to be constant with a certain emotion. As we have to pass the day with different mood and occasion, it is best for us to melt us with the mood of the occasion. Otherwise if we express reversely with the mood of the environment people will blame us for spoiling the situation.