mistress...what do you think of them?

@dayle59 (152)
Philippines
May 29, 2010 2:34am CST
i used to not mind them before. but now, i really hate them. ive been with and witnessed relationships being ruined by a person who is even not sorry for what she has done and that's just sick. can you blame me for hating that person so much and thinking of negative feelings about her?
10 responses
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
29 May 10
i also hate mistresses. i know a few people who broke their families because of the other woman. although there are married women who gets into this kind of relationship, there are also single ladies who never think of the family they are breaking.
@Galena (9110)
29 May 10
I think you're wrong. it's the man that cheats who is breaking the family. she's just an accessory to the breaking.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
29 May 10
hi galena. it could be wrong with the others. but i know some women who really never gets out of the situation even when they know that the man is already taken.
@dayle59 (152)
• Philippines
29 May 10
i agree.. people are just so different. you simply cant have control on the lives of other people.
@cloud31 (5809)
29 May 10
I can't say I hate them as I've never been a victim of that so called love triangle as I don't have a partner yet.But mistress is not acceptable for me in any ways. I think I will not give no chance for her to invade into my relationship if ever.And if its happened accidentally I will give her my partner, it just a clear thought that they mean to each other,they are both wicked! Good day!
@dayle59 (152)
• Philippines
29 May 10
hahaha.. word of the day: wicked!^_^ like much. thanks for the comment. i enjoyed reading it.
@cloud31 (5809)
29 May 10
Thanks!
• Philippines
29 May 10
Mistresses were one of the reason why sons and daughters' life were destroyed. they were the reason of a happy family turns suddenly broken..So I could not blame you by hating, me i either hate them. Why do they choose to be with those man with family? It sounds crazy!.
@dayle59 (152)
• Philippines
29 May 10
they just simply ruin relationships and i hate them for that.^^ thanks for dropping by to comment.^^
• Malaysia
31 May 10
I understand how you feel, i too had experince it. a couple years ago my family was almost ruined by this unshameless woman who claim she is not having any relationship with my dad but her action is totally different. she keep on texting my dad and calling and worst asking for money! she is a divorcee but rumor has it she likes to seek married men as her prey. I feel like slapping her when i think back all the hurt she had cause us.
@dayle59 (152)
• Philippines
1 Jun 10
slapping i guess wont be enough for me....heheh.. because what she did is way past below the belt. and i think i couldnt forgive her not until she bend down her knees in front of me..hahah.. bad much.. actually i dont know. i just hate 'em.
@elvira1 (101)
• Philippines
30 May 10
I don't think mistresses know at the start that the man he's with is married. The man usually pretends to be single at first. The girl may have been hooked to the guy and found it hard for her to "cut" her relationship with the married man by the time she learned that he is married indeed. I've been into the scene before. I gave the girl the benefit of the doubt that she was fooled by my husband. I informed her that the man he's communicating with is already married and that I am the wife. I advised her nicely. As a woman, I felt sorry for her. Instead of thanking me, she was angry at me and even told my husband about the incident who just laughed at the situation.
@dayle59 (152)
• Philippines
30 May 10
youre such a kind person for what you did and i salute you for that. i couldnt have done that myself. and as for the mistress, she doesnt have a good attitude i must say. you've been nice to her and all she did was get angry. anyways, as for my case it was different because the mistress knew all along that my partner is committed with me. what she did was to get close to me so she can get close to my partner. she lied to me all the time and i thought that she was sincere. i shouldve known. well i actually did, i just didnt confront her cause i was fooling myself telling that there is really nothing going on between them. anyways, thanks for the comment^_^
• Philippines
29 May 10
i hate my father's mistress but i have a friend she's a mistress of someone. although i hate mistress i can't leave her as my friend. maybe its how we know the person. hope you understand what i'm trying to message.
@dayle59 (152)
• Philippines
29 May 10
i certainly understand and i respect your opinion.^_^ i used to not mind my father's mistress not until my friend became a mistress in my own relationship with my partner, so i guess its just the other way around for us..^_^
@Galena (9110)
29 May 10
while what they do is wrong, the biggest part of the blame has to lie with the man that turned his back on his committment to his partner. it really does. I don't understand why people blame the other woman more than they blame the one who is actually being unfaithful. so much more animosity to the one their partner cheated on them with, when it's their partner that betrayed them. the person who has betrayed the trust of someone they claim to love is the one most at fault.
@dayle59 (152)
• Philippines
29 May 10
i respect your opinion sis^_^ its just that there was never really a man involved..hehe kidding aside, im actually getting your point. its both their fault i have to admit that. but in my case, i could forgive though i may not be able to forget yet the partner has already asked for an apology for what has happened. and as for the mistress, shes just as insensitive as she can be that she even thinks shes the one being cheated and thats just insane. ^_^
@crackx (628)
• Belgium
29 May 10
Oh, now I figured out which person you were talking about in a different topic. You can't be blamed at all. Eventually I feel sorry for you :o It's hard to do the same to her, or perhaps not. It's how you would like to act what is important. Such things can't be let unharmed in my opinion. If you want, you can make a new topic asking ideas on how to hit the person back, I'll be the first to answer ;-)
@dayle59 (152)
• Philippines
29 May 10
hahaha..there you go again,always making me laugh with your comments!lol.. ill try that maybe a lil later.. i have to stop myself from myLotting..lol. i cant do the dishes and mamas gonna be pissed off..hahahah..
@zhangxia (87)
• China
29 May 10
i hate her ,i curse her ,go hell to her . it's okay .i don't do something bad to her .she still live with her sweeter .i just don't see it . nothing gonna change by my curse .so let's enjoy it . haha ,i just joking .don't be too concerned .
@dayle59 (152)
• Philippines
29 May 10
hahah..nice one!same here. i really hate her super! im just enjoying what i have right now that she was not able to have!^_^
@ddaguno (3107)
• Philippines
29 May 10
I don't like them either but it's not only the mistresses that are to blame. The man and the mistress are both at fault.
@dayle59 (152)
• Philippines
29 May 10
indeed.. but i think that it is possible to have forgiven your partner and not the mistress especially if the latter seems to be enjoying her life and not sorry for what she has done when in the first place she was the one who provoked your partner.