Are you a friendly person by nature/

Philippines
June 7, 2010 2:19am CST
I am not a friendly person by nature. It's not that because I am snob which I am not, mind you. Its just that, its hard for me to trust people at once. Its actually hard to find true good friends in our entire life. Do you agree? Yes, that's my opinion. I have experienced being hurt by so-called friends. I trusted one or two persons, but they ended up being hypocrites. From then on, I am really on guard on who to trust. I only have like less than fifteen people whom I considered true friends who would not judge me for who I am not. Part of that group already includes my husband and mother. How about you, do you trust easily? Do you have as much friends as you can give your trust? Me, I trust little, that is why I have few friends that I consider.
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@ckyera (17261)
• Philippines
7 Jun 10
hi aileen, i think we are kinda the same on this sense. well i used to think and want to think that i am friendly but no im not really that friendly by nature i think. haha and as i am thinking right now how many friends do i really have on its real sense, i think i just have very few not even 15! haha and like you my parents, my brother and my husband are already included there. i have lots of so called friends and acquaintances but those that i really consider true friends, people who knows me and accept me for who i am are only few and i treasure those people coz its not easy to find their kind.
• Philippines
7 Jun 10
Yes, I agree with you. Because a friend accepts us for what we are and what we are not. I think the latter is more important to me. Some people only befriend people whom they can use, but if they are of no use anymore, the stop becoming friends with those people. Life really is a mystery.
@ckyera (17261)
• Philippines
8 Jun 10
yeah that's true and i also like more those who have accepted me for who i am and am not. and of course those who remains by my side through thick and thin. before i use to have lots lots of friends that i think are really my true friends that i can depend upon, but i'm wrong. its just sad that we have been all together for quite long already and have trusted them truly but when something happens to me and my family which is not so good, there i come to see who my real friends are. its true that in the lowest time in our life that will be the time we are going to know who our real friends are... yes, and those users just don't deserve to be called friends. but anyway, they are just around ..hehe so better for us to be careful in choosing whom to trust and whom to befriend. but im not closing my doors to anyone, i still accept people to be my friend but just that i do have limits in most of the things and don't trust my whole life to them.
• Philippines
7 Jun 10
We can easily make a lot of friends but difficult to find true friends. It takes time and longer experience to have it....I'm not friendly in nature but can easily go with..I have friends but few are chosen to be the best. I can't easily trust a person..
• Philippines
7 Jun 10
I don't easily trust a person. We need to be careful in choosing our friends nowadays.However, I can easily make friends but I open to few and trustworthy people.
• Philippines
7 Jun 10
Same here, I am easy to get along with but I don't really make friends with real friends easily.
@sach143_u (859)
• India
14 Jun 10
Friend its not necessary to trust every one. It depends on you and the person who is opposite to you, where both can share your feelings and if you are talkative then you will go further or else if that person is talkative then he will go further to talk so that both are mingle each other and know each other well and that is nothing but friendship. But if you or he didn't go further and just says hi and bye then it won't let you or him to make friendship. But me ya off course i am interested to talk with a unknown person also. I want every one should be friendly rather than hating others.