How did you survive your first heartbreak?

Philippines
June 11, 2010 3:56pm CST
My first heart break was years ago. Not with my first boyfriend, but with my first crush. I thought I'd never get over him but nah.. I usually laugh whenever I remember how heartbroken and silly I was that time. hehe.
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@katsmeow1213 (28717)
• United States
11 Jun 10
When I was like 14 I "dated" this boy for 3 days and then he broke up with me using a very silly excuse. Looking back on it now, obviously he just didn't like me in the first place, and probably only led me on because he didn't know how to let me down easily. Anyways, when he broke up with me I felt crushed. I cried and cried. It does seem silly now, I barely even knew the guy, and he certainly wasn't my type anyways.. personality wise. Thankfully time heals all wounds and makes you stronger and more aware of things you may not have seen before.
• United States
11 Jun 10
Totally have to agree with her ^.^ time does heal all wounds or at least most of them anyways.
• Philippines
11 Jun 10
Same thing here. I can't imagine how dumb I was crying over some stupid guy.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
14 Dec 10
Never had one fortunately, Hurt is part of love, so dear ones mostly hurt each other where i feel thats not a pain of hurt, but a part of love.
• Philippines
10 Jul 10
I drank myself blind. Damn it, this interest group is waaay too mushy.
@ET28LV (1890)
• Latvia
10 Jul 10
My first hearth break too was about year ago. When It was happened I think I never feel a love It was a crazy and painful. But, then one day It was ended. It was ended, because I was forget It I had so much acctivities to do I do not have a time to think about heart break lol. Yeah I too laugh every time when I remember It and always I think how stupid I was, How I can inlove with her. Have a nice day!
@apresto (127)
• Bulgaria
28 Jun 10
Never really had a heart broken, it's me I know that, I'm not too good at relationships but that's maybe better for now. I'm looking forward to my first heartbreak, I think it will be a strong experience and something to talk about with my friends and hide from the ones I don't want to talk to about intimacy, I'm kinda jealous, you're steps in front of my love ways :)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 10
I am in the process of getting my heartbreak. I have no real cure for your pain, but i will tell you, YOU CAN BE WITHOUT HIM. I know it is a terrible though, i do. But if two people fall apart because of a problem they will fall apart again because of the same problem. you need to move on, somehow. My advice is to keep pushing on and every time you feel like dying just survive. Now, i will go out by my friends, meet new people, do new things. I will not reserve myself for her alone and if a better opportunity comes along, i will take it. If nothing else, once she see me value myself even when she is not around, she will be drawn to me more. Though honestly i dis-recommend hoping for anything.
• Philippines
12 Jun 10
My first heartbreak would be with my first boyfriend. It was really a big thing for me, and it took me awhile to finally get over him. I think a change in my environment really helped, because we both went to college, and I stayed in the city so I was not able to see or talk to him a lot. It was a great thing because I was really able to get over him and find me another man. Hehehehe.
@lealuvy2j (1986)
• Philippines
18 Jun 10
My first real heartbreak was three years ago with my ex-boyfriend who is now my current boyfriend. lol. Anyway, I survived by trying to be out of the house and spending time with my friends as much as possible. During the five months that we were apart, I try not to be alone because when I am alone that is when my mind seemed programmed to think about him. A trip to Boracay was also of big help to me during that time so I guess I survived my first heartbreak by breaking out of my routine because it is when you look at things differently that helps you think differently.
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
a heart broken won't stop bleeding... but that heartbreak led me to my true love so it wasn't in vain. i was not merely silly that time, i was stupid, very stupid, ever willing to make uncalled for sacrifices and expecting the object of affection to do the same but in vain.
@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
12 Jun 10
My first heart break is my first girlfriend. It ended really bad. She found someone new so she broke up with me. I was really angry, hurt, and every negative emotions you can think of. I was able to survive because of my friends and also because of my girlfriend number 2.
• United States
11 Jun 10
Omg my first heartbreak was my first boyfriend and crush all mixed into one, it the worst. He kept asking me out and I kept telling him no becase I thought it was a trick, I kept telling myself that it was just a joke, and over time he wore me down. Things were fine and dandy until he told me he had to move. Omg it was the worst thing ever to me back them I was so depressed and I felt sick to my stomach for weeks, lol and he'd still call me everyday. But the worst part was when he told me it started out as a joke but he really fell for me over time. It hurt but after that I had to let my feeling for him go, we are still friends now he just regrets having let me go. lol crazy all it took was a little self control and setting your mind on bigger things and you can move on from anything.
• United States
14 Jun 10
After days of intense crying, I slowly pulled my together. Through prayer and finding a goal to focus on.
@aamir007 (129)
• India
18 Jun 10
same thing happened once to at the nearly your age, I was in deep sarrow it take me to get over from this near bout four years..but finally all is well...now i personally wont like such kind of relation, friendship is the best way to live..hehehe it provides smile to you and others also...so be always goood friends..