Do you add random people as friends on Facebook???

India
June 14, 2010 4:08pm CST
A lot of people just add random people they do a search on, to their friend's list. I don't know what they are trying to prove by doing so- that they are popular and have a lot of friends and contacts??!!! I guess some people do it cause they play games on facebook so you get new neighbors they add unknown people. I strictly add and accept friend requests from people who I know. I put up a lot of personal pictures on Facebook and I don't them to be misused by someone I barely know!! I reject requests from people who I'm acquainted with but don't know that well even!! I've had a bad experience where a psycho guy who had a huge crush on me since 8th grade maybe, saved my pictures and put it in his profile!!! So I'm careful about these things after that incident. Would like to know if you feel the same about adding random people or are you okay with doing that???
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19 responses
• India
16 Jun 10
Hi, Yes I add random people, as I use facebook and twitter only to promote stuffs. I don't have pictures uploaded there, except of course my profile picture. Even if I upload pictures, its not about me, rather, its about the things I like. If anyone has any intention of putting your picture in some fake account, there is no possible way you can prevent that, except of course you remain entirely anonymous in that site. Thanks God bless you
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• Philippines
20 Jun 10
I am receiving some friendly invitation to complete strangers and to some that are in extended friends but like you I don't accept them. I approve friend request only if I know them personally. I don't care if i have few friend lists... Yeah it is for security safe as well...
• Philippines
21 Jun 10
Same here Tangeryne. Regardless of the gender, status or whatever, as long as I don't know them I just ignore them... I honestly don't know and understand why some people are sending friend request to someone they don't pesonally know...
• India
21 Jun 10
Like I said in my initial post, think its just cause they feel popular if they have loads of people on their friend's list!!! That's the only reason I can think of!
• India
21 Jun 10
True, I prefer few friends to adding random strangers. Just yesterday I got a new friend request from an Asian female. Declined it!! No I don't add random females either. hehe..
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
16 Jun 10
hi tangeryne I am having enough trouble with the huge amount of ' riends I have here in mylot, I do not want to enter facebook 'too much but I have three dear friends who have sort of requested'I join Facebook. I have not the slightest idea of how to join so will have'my son help me with that as he is on Facebook.but no random friends, too much likelihood of someone I do not want there that way.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
21 Jun 10
hi thanks I am so glad I joined the computer gneration as when I got my first taste of the net it was whoa oh thats fantastic, and I browsed like crazy at first then started joining surveys and found mylot too. I am seriously thinking of joining Facebook as I have had some friends ask to be myfriend there,peoplw who had lost touch with me. I love playing games too.
• India
21 Jun 10
I must say I admire you for being quite tech savy for your age! My mom will just not touch the computer which is lying at home literally collecting dust!!! Join Facebook, probably you would enjoy playing games on it :-D
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• India
21 Jun 10
What are you waiting for- go out it!!!
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
15 Jun 10
Nah, I am sorry but I won't add you in myLot in my friends list because I don't know you. Unless and until I trust the person, I never add them in facebook!
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
21 Jun 10
myLot is different and I always trust people on this site. I always add people without giving a second thought. On Faceboo, i am little restrictive because my family members are with me on that site thus, I will have to take care while choosing friends, isn't it?
• India
21 Jun 10
That's true, guess half of the people on Facebook on my friend's list is family
• India
21 Jun 10
That's okay. I add someone whom I think makes good posts on Mylot and accept random friend requests here in Mylot only as I'm anonymous here. Also I don't add any personal stuff like pictures, except for my profile pic. So I don't have a problem adding random people on Mylot.
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@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
14 Jun 10
Yes I also add random people before. I did it to increase my mafia in Mafia Wars. That's the only reason I add them. Good thing Facebook allows me to group my friends so I can easily hide their posts in their walls.
@BETO247 (155)
• Costa Rica
14 Jun 10
HAHA , i used to add random people , just to get more neightbords on farmville LOL , but now i dont accept , only if is a hot girl =P
@BETO247 (155)
• Costa Rica
14 Jun 10
sorry , *Neighborhoods
• India
18 Jun 10
LOL. I need more neighbours in farmville too.But I don't add random people, just bug my friends to play the game and add me as their neighbour then if they don't paly the game it's alright. I've created another id only so that I can send gifts to myself from that id!! Hehehe
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
15 Jun 10
I don't. And I did learn something from adding friend that I knew was from my high school and I thought should be fine to add him. I also have over 400 pictures on my facebook since I don't really see my family often and they can just browse my update there to see where I've been and what I've done. The next day I accepted the guy's friend request, I received a message on my gmail saying I was tagged by him in a photo. So I went to facebook and checked out what the photo was and it was just a payment proof slip of making money online using facebook. I was so pissed because it was all over my wall. All my friends and family thought I was doing it. So I removed my name from the photo. OK, it solved! but the next day, I got message again saying I was tagged by him. I went to check again and bloody hell! it was one of my picture with my partner was edited using photo editor or whatsoever. It even got like a conversation between us in that photo. Remember, this guy is from my old school. So I sent him a message through wall, not private. I warned him publicly for not doing something like that to other people's photo. He actually got like over 700 friends on his list, so I wanted everybody to know what he was doing as well. I also told him that I was going to complaint what he did to Facebook admin so he will gets block. He did apologize to me and he said he was just joking (but come on, that wasn't his photo..and even the made up conversation was gross), and I did make a complaint, and I also blocked him after that. I dunno what happens to him nowadays..but I feel safer without that kind of user
• Philippines
15 Jun 10
it's good that you took into consideration blocking him. it's so sad that you had to go through that. some people, whether you know them or not, they will take advantage of the speck of attention or pubicity you enable them..joke or no joke. it's always personal when it comes to these interactive sites. i get how you use fB to connect with family and friends, coz i basically do that too. just try to keep safe. don't add people who you DO NOT know personally, or someone who's friends you don't even know very well. and if there are photos that you took for your family..customized viewing can be very useful. :)
• India
21 Jun 10
Oh that's really bad!!! How insensitive of him. I mean you hardly know him right after all these years, he shouldn't have done something like that unless your a close friend of his and wouldn't get offended by his so-called-joke!!!! You should have blocked him out the first time he did it. Anyways, better late than never huh!!!
@cortjo73 (6498)
• United States
15 Jun 10
I didn't used to add anyone but the people who I know personally but, I have added some people for games. I never search anyone and send requests to people I don't know but, have accepted requests from some people for the games. If they are mutual friends with people I am friends with, I will add them. I have 3 requests pending from people who aren't friends with any of my friends. I will probably ignore them to be safe. If I hadn't accepted some of the requests from people I don't know, I would have missed out on getting to know some great people. I am pretty good at monitoring my profile and my friend's profiles. I can block those who I don't know very well, from seeing my photos and any other info I don't want them to see. But, I also don't post anything I wouldn't want the public to see.
• India
21 Jun 10
True. Me I'm too lazy to keep a constant watch on my profile so the safest way is to keep your friend's list to a bare minimum. I have blocked out one person so far because I know he used to stalk me in person as well as on Orkut ( he even copied my pictures and put it in his profile. After which I changed my settings in Orkut.) ON Facebook you have no way of knowing who views your profile. Better to just add friends whom you know or not put personal stuff on there.
@vinslounge (1295)
• India
15 Jun 10
Previously I used to add lot people's friends request when I joined face book. Now after hearing a lot of threats and other stuffs, I have stopped adding anonymous requests in facebook.
@slovenc1 (2089)
• Slovenia
14 Jun 10
I never added a stranger on facebook. My girlfriend adds them because of petwille and such games and i guess that's pretty safe. But i do accept users that add me if they seem real because i don't want to ignore someone i might know but forgot about him. i feel bad sometimes because i only have 110 friends but i know every one of them and even if one wants to chat how can you chat with say 20 at the same time. If you have too much friends you don't like it either so i guess i should be happy the way it is.
@slovenc1 (2089)
• Slovenia
19 Jun 10
Must be hard for them, they probably don't go to fb a lot because there would be 100 chats every time and f not they could still wish happy birth day to 25 users
• India
18 Jun 10
I usually never ignore anyone who comes to chat with me on facebook no matter how irritating they may actually be!! With a friend's list of 141 people and almost 1/3 of them being my relatives, at the most there would be 10-15 people online. so that's fine. I've seen people, some of my friend's only, who have 1000 people on their list!!! Wonder how they can remember who's who even!!!!
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
15 Jun 10
nope!i just add someone who i know or have the same interest with me.like you im more careful now about adding friends.i had an experience before with other social networking(not facebook) whereby a bunch of different guys from nowhere, i do not even know anyone of them and they keep sending me friend requests everyday.eventually, i just say bye-bye to that site and promised to myself that i wont back to that site ever! :)
@palkmae (29)
• Japan
15 Jun 10
No, I only add people I know and want to add. I basically apply the Golden Rule here: "Do unto others what you want others to do unto you."
@breisa (165)
• New Zealand
15 Jun 10
Yup... I never add strangers to my friends list. There's been these videos that goes around facebook saying that if you're not too careful, then you might end up in some psychos victim. :D
• China
15 Jun 10
Never. I never accept poeple who I don't understand,because I don't know them and what they want to do.Even if you add them,you have misgivings and can't speak out freely.
@jennbart (1330)
• Philippines
15 Jun 10
Nope! Who knows who I might be adding! I might regret adding some random people in the future. I only add those I know.
14 Jun 10
I have no problem accepting friend requests from people I don't know and I also do the same with other people. I do it for a number of reasons, They have the same interests as me and have commented on a Facebook group about the thing we both love. I have also added a few people who I don't know personally but are basically contacts for a Music Promotion Business I am involved in with a Friend so I add the people who we have had perform at our gigs etc.
@rabajar (134)
• Philippines
15 Jun 10
Nope. I online send invitations to people I know.
• Philippines
15 Jun 10
No, I have just added some friends that I knew. But there are instances that some people making friend request so I always accept them.
@manojt2 (179)
• India
15 Jun 10
I don't accept strangers as my friends, since there are many wrong things going through the net. As you had mentioned, I too just accept my friends request to get connected with them. But there is no further interaction on facebook too, and there too I feel groupism is taking place and some people only post only for their groups. I am just a name in the list and there is nothing for me. I don't know why they ever send me a request to be connected with them, when they have nothing to share with me. Is it just to have more and more friends under their list?
@Iamgood (38)
• Canada
14 Jun 10
I would never add random people to my facebook account. You never know what they will do with that. Remember, if you add strangers, they will see your feed, your friends, and all of that. This is really bad because a stranger could be stalking you or whatever, and they can post to your wall. You don't want a stranger posting random stuff to your wall. I am very protective about my privacy so I would say that I would not let random people be my friends. The more friends you have, the less protected you are. You should have a maximum of about 100-150 friends.