Strangers!!! Do you prefer to start a conversation with a stranger???

@tuyakiki (3016)
India
June 23, 2010 7:53pm CST
Hi Mylotters!! Here is a question for you...... Do you prefer to start a conversation with a stranger???Do you talk with a person you don't know.....Is it good to trust anybody you don't know???Please feel free to share your views. Personally,I maintain a good distance from strangers.. But I had helped strangers before by telling the right way,if I feel that he is new to my city and is looking for a address.. Apart from it I don't converse with the strangers. Anyways,good luck!! Happy Mylotting.
20 responses
@jamed28 (1903)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
I won't talk to strangers and I won't even start a conversation with one. My mom used to tell me not to talk to strangers and I'd been doing it for 35 years now. :)
@tuyakiki (3016)
• India
24 Jun 10
Thanks to all of you for participating in my discussion. Well June,those conversations are the most important,I hope.....
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
24 Jun 10
@ why june2001, you will not with the women, is they are look like devils
• China
24 Jun 10
i always like to talk with strangers, because form the talking, i can learn a lot.for example business method, negociate technology. but i'm afraid to talk with women, this my secret.
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
24 Jun 10
i also helped starngers who wanted to know directions n places in my area..they do look lost and i helped them with my friends or my brothers..i mean i won;t tell him or her by myself..ya know,something might happened..but it;s nice to help such people..
@tuyakiki (3016)
• India
24 Jun 10
Same is here too.I also helped people like that..Thanks for sharing.
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
24 Jun 10
ur welcome..
@rajaiv0810 (1012)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
Not that I love it but I hate sitting down without even saying hello to someone who sit beside me. And besides I'm a person who can easily start a conversation unless I am not in a mood for it. I would talk to people who is cuing in the line with me, person sitting next to me in a salon, bus, airplane, to the taxi driver etc. I don't really engage in a very deep chat you know. Just pleasantries maybe or talk about something which is very common to everyone like traffic, weather, fare, long line. But I wouldn't share with them something personal.
@tuyakiki (3016)
• India
24 Jun 10
Thanks for responding.... Its better to Mr Friendly but one must be a bit alert while setting up a conversation..Good Luck! Happy Mylotting.
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
24 Jun 10
I work in a restaurant, so I talk to strangers all the time. I find it easy to start a conversation with most people. I like talking to people. It is a lot of fun for me to get to know people. You never know what you are going to hear or learn from them...
@tuyakiki (3016)
• India
24 Jun 10
If you are working in a public place like a restaurant,then it is a must for you to have good relations with the customers.. You must have a good impression on them other wise it will hamper your reputation.And one can't harm you if you are dealing with so many people.Thanks for the post.
@quita88 (3715)
• United States
24 Jun 10
I talk to strangers on mylot all the time. I do feel safe here. As to outside mylot I do my best to smile and be pleasant but not go too far as I do not trust till I know the person.
@tuyakiki (3016)
• India
24 Jun 10
Good point.It is the right thing to do... Thanks for sharing.
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
hello tuyakiki! i don't normally talk to strangers. During my travels which some entails me to ride busses for several hours to get to my destination, i just usually entertain myself by looking at the scenery i pass or listening to music in my ipod. however, there are times that i break this silence, due to necessity, or when the stranger is interesting to talk to or when i sense that the stranger is in need of help. there are people who usually loves to chat up strangers, because that's the way they are. during these times, when i'm not in the mood, i just usually reply in mono syllables to discourage further conversation. but sometimes too, there are people, strangers, who can really charm you into talking with them. and there are those who just irritates you. so, in conclusion, i can say that talking to strangers really depends on the mood i am in or the type of stranger you're about to chat with.
@tuyakiki (3016)
• India
24 Jun 10
Hi there!!! Nice post.. Thanks for sharing it... Same is here too.. I don't prefer talking to them but I help them if they really needs it. All the best.
• China
24 Jun 10
Hi, I do talk to strangers, but not randomly. You know, it depends. Not all strangers are dangerous and we need to tell the bads ones from the good ones. For instance, you can't refuse to talk to a stranger who is going to be your coworker. If you always avoid starting a conversation with a stranger, regardless of their true identity, you'll be sure to make an unfavorable impression on them and end up being alienated. But in another instance, let's say in a street, it's better not to talk to strangers who seem to be dangerous. So it's all about our judgment.
@tuyakiki (3016)
• India
24 Jun 10
Those are some extraordinary circumstances where you are bound to talk with the strangers,for instances,if the stranger is your customer,if you are carrying out a business,or a client or some other agent or your co worker,or your boss, or a group member in which you are in..In fact in these case you must have a good impression on them. Apart from all these its better to avoid them.. Thanks for sharing.
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
i normally don't talk to stranger except when they started the conversation first..you can't just ignore a person asking you for directions or the time right? so i have no other choice but to speak to them but then i always manage to end the conversation right away..well here online..i normally talk to strangers since it's unavoidable and some people's opinion online are really helpful..
• United States
25 Jun 10
I usually don't start conversations with strangers either. If someone needs to ask directions and they ask me, I would give it to them but that is about it. I've seen random people striking up good conversations though. One time on the bus, there was two women who sat each other on the bus and then they started talking about taxis. They seem like they were having a great time conversing and when they parted, one of the woman just said "It was nice meeting you!" and then they went on their own ways. I wish I could be so friendly.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
I just dont want to talk to strangers. Just like you I am also setting some distances with them. By just asking what time is it or where is the place that's the only I could answer to the strangers other than that, I would no longer answer it. Sometimes if they are asking where I am working at, I would answer them why should I answer your question. They find it sarcastic and just leave me which is find it good. By just throwing them the question back they would realize that I would not talk to strangers.
@tuyakiki (3016)
• India
24 Jun 10
Yes!!Throwing questions back at them is a nice way to ward these guys off.. But sometimes it appears to others that I am behaving in a rude way...At least the same thing happened with me... Thanks for the response....Good luck!
@sagar21 (1579)
• India
24 Jun 10
actually...every friend...was once a ..stranger.... only acquaintance and then familiarity.....leads to friendship.... I don't mean that you should talk to anyone...but the to the person you feel comfortable........ I've made friends....a lot...and once they were strangers to me....... thanks for the topic........... have a great day/night.........
@melmabb (579)
• Philippines
26 Jun 10
First, How do we define strangers?we can differentiate strangers ,by their actions and approach ,yes, we can start a conversation to a stranger in a situation, just like when in line for an Atm withdrawals,a ticket booth, a movie and rituals and religious masses,it all depends on a situation, but rude strangers always we can Ignore...thanks!you look appealing ...is that your real picture,sorry to ask !i'm sorry just a stranger trying to response...ignore me Lol..thanks!
• United States
24 Jun 10
I don't normally talk to strangers, randomly. But I mean if it's someone at a party or that knows one of your friends then yea why not? How are you suppose to become friends with someone if you don't try and get to know them? I don't tell strangers anything personal, I just keep it friendly and at a distance til I get to know them better.
@tuyakiki (3016)
• India
24 Jun 10
Party is a another thing,in my opinion.. We can be in touch with the people,through our known acquaintances.Its better not to disclose all personal details at the first go.Thanks for the post.
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
I don't usually talk to strangers nor start a conversation with one. In the event that a stranger approaches me first, that's the time that I do talk to them - like when someone's asking for directions and the like - just a form of courtesy but nothing else. :)
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
24 Jun 10
You meant strangers someone you met in the street, and would you or not start a conversation with him/her? Maybe this a fact, and maybe that is the reason. Keep the distance. Talk what you should talk and not. That is me.
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
24 Jun 10
Hi tuyakiki, I will not prefer to start a converstation with the stranger, i will afraid that what kinda person they are. Mostly in my son school, many women will ask me which class your son is studying, what your husband do, are you working, like such questions they will ask, i even afraid to answer for those, coz in Hyderabad / AP now a days i am watching in TV and reading new paper that many kidnaps are happening.
@cip116 (1011)
• Romania
24 Jun 10
I talk very much to strangers. But I do not like people who make bold and personal question. I can not talk to people that queue. If these people are on the phone I say "excuse me ,someone on another phone call me" and close I learned many things from strangers online The best example is here on myLot
@braiym3 (135)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
I do not really trust strangers specially if I feel something not good. But there are also times that I entertain questions and make some jokes to them only if I am in a safe place or if the person I am talking to is nice.
@chuck2 (183)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
We may also talk to the strangers sometimes, so that we would know if that stranger needs our help or maybe you need that stranger. Our parents always taught us not to pay attention with those strangers but when the time comes, that you will also become a strangers it will make you realized that it's not easy to be a stranger too.
@baban88 (103)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
well it depends on the situation like for example if the stranger is asking for a direction or if the stranger is from my class so basically i would answer him/her. . .=]