just want to share my personal experience in relationship

If you are pregnant, surely you must ask his accountability. Remember, however, he must take responsibility for your pregnancy, even you're not her girlfriend.

i just hope that if ever you are pregnant and you told him, i hope the guy will not avoid you like the way you are doing it with him now. you said that the communication end up so easy but it looks like you are the one who ended it. i am a guy and if i like someone and i do my best for her to notice me. thats what i did with my wife, but if the girl shows no interest anymore then i need to go on my way. you not texting back indicates that you are no longer interested. i think you need to communicate with him again, not just because you feel like you are pregnant, its just because i think he has feelings for you and i think you too has feelings for him. what we dont know is if he is married already then that would be another problem.

Let me ask you, who decided to end the relationship? I know there is a relationship in there. You are in a weird relationship that has no commitments, it is pretty risky on your part because you've done things that couples do. If ever you got pregnant then you should tell him about your situations, and please don't think about abortion if he didn't want to take the responsibility. I am hoping that you are not pregnant though.

I believe that this kind of relationship is something we call "Mutual understanding". I don't believe in such relationship. Real relationships are those that really make the best out of us and not make the worst in us. If you think that you still have a future together, then don't let go. Assuming that you did get pregnant, well, you should inform him. Don't rob your child for that chance of having a family, of having someone as a father. If you're not, then good for you. Let this a valuable lesson to you. Your heart is fragile, unbreakable, so don't let just anybody use it and discard of it as if it doesn't feel anything. You alone can protect yourself from harm. Guard yourself and guard your heart, so that someday, in the future you can look back at any point in your life without regret. Your heart and soul intact, as well as your self-respect and self-confidence. I hope that God's Love may guide you.

you dont know if you are pregnant of him? you must make a test and see the results as soon as possible. also if you find out you are pregnant you must tell him bcs he has the right to know he will be a father. dont hide it from him if you really love him. what he will choose after you tell him is his choice but tell him. also if you love him that much try to not let him go^^

if you got pregnant, tell him. he has the right to know, but it doesn't mean he wil commit. he should share the responsiblity of taking care of your baby. well, if you're not pregnant... let him go, if he love you he will be man enough to pursue you. commitment and all.

If you ever get pregnant from him then I will suggest that you must have a serious talk with him finally. I am sure he must also be feeling something for you but to know it, it is better you talk to him before something happens.

first things first. confirm that you're pregnant :) I think you should have an open communication with him. With or without the baby. It doesn't have to be like how you used to be. You don't need to text or talk to each other everyday. Getting in touch once in a while won't hurt. A dinner every few months would be ok. It's more of keeping the friendship than keeping the love. Slowly retract yourselves from the love you have. I think slow is better than fast. You'll see that in any relationship, going slow is the best option. I think both of you would benefit from it. I'm also assuming both of you took things fast. You didn't even bother to commit to each other before making love.

It wasn't really a formal relationship. I think both of you are still young. You've mentioned that you are still studying.But since you were not able to avoid something that you shouln't have done yet, and worried that you're pregnant, it would be better that you have to tell him about it. Not for marrige or financial reasons, but he deserves to know. And of course, it you are really pregnant your parents too deserve to know about this because you are still their dependent. But you know, if you truly love that guy, why would you avoid him even just through text? Long distance relationship is not a hindrance if you both understand each other. If you are really pregnant and your parents would not accept or agree about, then it is up to you to decide if he is worth fighting for. You must probably know what kind of person this guy is.

Good day alexis172007. Sorry for intruding, but did this guy leave you for what reason? Did he have a former relationship he did go back to? I am a guy and I know how guys think (maybe not in general), and I have friends who are just like that. I am married for 11 years now, blessed with 4 kids, and all my first time was with my wife, none other. Guys like this love to act, make use of your weaknesses, makes use of your obvious feelings and ases every advantage he can muster just to get you under the sheets. If you turn out pregnant, tell him. First of all, it is his right to know. Secondly, he has a responsibility with your child if not with you. Third, that child is his own flesh and blood. Now if after telling him, he lessen the communication, then maybe some of us here is right. He only wants one thing, before his mighty disappearing act. sorry if the truth hurts, but it is where you will learn. God bless my friend.