jaspergotoman

@jaspergotoman (12)

Philippines • Age 53

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Discussing financial problems with your husband

astreadido @astreadido (608) • Philippines 26 Jul 10

My family is undergoing some financial problems right now. I find it difficult to discuss debts, needs and other financial issues with my husband because between us, I'm the one earning more. He gets sensitive about it as if I'm...

family

financial problems

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jaspergotoman we got the same problem... but what I do is try to find extra earnings to aid us in our current financial situation. I let my husband participate in selling until he can handle it himself. Its like teaching him other fields in a way that he can also help...

26 Jul 10

Boy-Girl Platonic Friendship...Would you buy that?

vikkitita @vikkitita (194) • Philippines 25 Jul 10

Is there really a so-called plain platonic friendship between a boy and a girl? Wouldn't it end up into a romantic relationship in the end after all? What do you think?

frienship

platonic friendship

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jaspergotoman yes, there is... but that kind of friendship last until one of you settle down or both. i think its because your partner will not understand that kind of friendship. sometimes, you must give up the friendship for another kind of relationship.

25 Jul 10

If he ask for you not to see another man aside from him what is that mean?

eve301345 @eve301345 (658) • Philippines 4 Jul 10

Hello everyone, A friend of mine asking me to give her advice and asking for some opinion about this guy who she meet recently, probably a month now. They are at the right age and my girlfriend is totally into him so before...

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jaspergotoman he only want her exclusively but it doesn't mean he wants a commitment. before she agree, i suggest that she make sure their relationship is clear. she should ask the man that he will do the same, he must stop seeing other girls too. in a relationship, each...

4 Jul 10

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Where do you get your extra income?

santosmarichris @santosmarichris (1849) • Philippines 1 Jul 10

We work hard and after a couple of days we get our pay check hoping it'll be a bit bigger but it's still the same... Never the less at least we still have a salary. With this salary we need to budget till the...

income

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jaspergotoman i earn my extra income buy buying products in whosale and sell them to neighbors and friends in retail price. i am using my salary as capital, but still its not enough. i would like to save more capital to own or rent a shop for the products i'm selling. i'm...

1 Jul 10

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Do you maintain a distance with your children or are you close with them?

buchi_bulla @Buchi_bulla (8298) • India 30 Jun 10

Though I insist that children should respect elders, on the other hand, I am also close to my children. They can share anything with me. This helps them share their problems, apprehensions and hesitations that a teenager will have...

parents and children

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jaspergotoman i think parents should be close to their children. this kind of relationship makes them more confident about themselves. my 3 year old son also feel protected and loved everytime i'm just around.

30 Jun 10

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Already told him wrong number, why keep on calling?

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 30 Jun 10

Yesterday while at work, some one calling my cellphone. There was an unfamiliar number, and I picked it up. Someone was looking for "Roy", which I don't know who. I told him you probably called a wrong number. After 20 some...

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phone

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jaspergotoman he just want to make himself a nuisance. change your no. if that is possible, he will keep on calling you. that kind of person has no consideration or whatsoever.

30 Jun 10

Parents - how old were your children when you bought them books?

stephbond @stephbond (53) 29 Jun 10

We are expecting our first baby in September and my friend laughed at me because I have already bought some reading and picture books for the baby. I remember all my life having books read to me, I know that my mum enrolled me in...

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jaspergotoman i already have children books before i'd conceived. when my son reached 1 1/2 years, he already browsing those books. he is now 3 years years and he thinks he own all those books.

29 Jun 10

Is this possible?

cherryjean @cherryjean (77) • Philippines 28 Jun 10

I and my partner just broke up last month. It's hard. That is because we really love each other until now. We just broke up because I know that he needs to improve himself, as well as myself. Well, We will just have to wait for...

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jaspergotoman 5 years is too long... you can let your man go to let him grow in his own but 5 years is such a long time. your love for each other need nurturing too.

28 Jun 10

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just want to share my personal experience in relationship

alexis172007 @alexis172007 (14) • Philippines 27 Jun 10

.....actually, people won't call it a relationship because we never actually committed to each other. he's not my boyfriend and i'm not his gf but i really love this man and i still can't forget him in everyday of my life. he is...

relationship

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jaspergotoman if you got pregnant, tell him. he has the right to know, but it doesn't mean he wil commit. he should share the responsiblity of taking care of your baby. well, if you're not pregnant... let him go, if he love you he will be man enough to pursue you....

28 Jun 10

Do you think that your Good and Bad Deeds(Karma) affect your children?

avani26 @avani26 (1518) • India 5 Jun 10

I really have been wanting to ask this question since long but never got the right words but looks like the words are really flowing today. My dad worked abroad and had lots of opportunity to make money by taking bribes but...

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jaspergotoman i think your dad is right in doing right deeds but i don't think that if a father or a mother do something wrong, their children will suffer. I believe God will not let the children suffer for the bad things their parents did.

28 Jun 10

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hurting me...

Angelica Drews @lonelyemptyisland (111) • Philippines 16 Jun 10

have you ever been hit by your husband? my husband hits me everytime he's angry w/ me... I always planned to runaway from this hell but I can't leave him coz I love him so much... what should I do? Can I have some advices from...

family

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jaspergotoman i don't know what you will do, its your decision coz you are the one he is hurting... you love him but is it enough for both of you? i don't think that a man who really loves his wife can hurt her physically.

28 Jun 10

How will you know when your husband/wife is abusive in different ways?

amyson @amyson (3498) • Philippines 27 Jun 10

hello mylotters, i just wanna ask how will you know that your husband is abusive whether physically or verbally?i notice several incidence of my neighbor fighting the husband is shouting the wife its was very disturbing in the...

abusive

husband and wife problem

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jaspergotoman a husband can be abusive by shouting, calling his wife names, etc. its not a reason if his stress or worried, his wife doesn't deserve to be treat that way. its very disturbing in your part to know what's happening to your neigbor but sometimes we let husband...

28 Jun 10