when they seem not to care

July 3, 2010 12:42pm CST
i had a friend way back in highschool that i/we (with our other friends) actually been trying to contact her for a long time now. last sunday i am able to find and see her profile at facebook. my other friend even give her a message but no reply till now. i am a bit angry but also happy now that i know she already have a good life with her husband. taking for granted and seems to be rejected by a friend really hurts me. how about you have you experienced this before?
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4 responses
@cream97 (29166)
• United States
8 Jul 10
Hi, ying_yang. I know how you both are feeling. A couple of years ago, I wrote my cousin a note on myspace. It was a lovely note. She never replied back to me at all. It really had hurt my feelings. I don't know why people act as if they don't know someone anymore. It is not nice to be this way. I was just hoping that maybe she did not get my email and that she may have deleted me by accident. I don't know what to think. I have never heard from her. And I don't think that I ever will.
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
hi cream97, yes, its much better to think that she did not get your email. that is what i felt with this friend of mine, that she seems not know me and not even care to reply though i know that she got my message because i sent it thru facebook and friendster where i had seen that she keeps on updating her profile. :( thank you for responding, at least we both try to re-open the communication with them again. :)
@jennyze (7048)
• Indonesia
7 Jul 10
I don't have so many close friends. I had been ignored before by ex colleagues but not by my close friends. Well, it is their right to ignore anyone they want, but I will remember that they ignored me before, so when our paths cross again, I will remind them of this fact.
• Philippines
8 Jul 10
same with me :D that is exactly what i have in mind. something like "i don't get mad, i get even" attitude (is that cliche' correct? hehe)... quite bad but they should also realize something in life. thanks for sharing your thoughts :)
@kezabelle (2985)
3 Jul 10
Sadly i think its life people move on have different maybe busier lives, tbh i think if you can drift apart with no contact for so long its to be expected if they dont want to get back in contact. Also there is plenty of people i went to school with that 10 years down the line i want NOTHING to do with, like i said people move on grow up and want different things id not be offended.
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
yes, you're right i agree, they grow up and have a different people and different things caught up their attention. so sad but its true. thank you for sharing :)
@besthope44 (12145)
• India
20 Jul 10
Well friendship is nice gift of life,excepting less and accepting friends for what they are.